| Relationships and Strip Clubs
Posted: 8/4/2005 8:39:27 PM | I need some opinions from the guys and the gals!
If you are in a relationship with someone and he wants to make visits to the local strip club, does that bother you? Do you find it disrespectful for a guy to partake in the strip club activities (by this I mean paying for lap dances and rubbing their faces in some strippers hooters and such..in other words, touching the girls) when he is in a relationship with you?
I have a major issue with this, I believe that if you have any respect for the person that you are with you would not be touching some other girl, whether she is paid or not. Now going just to view isn't a problem, but the touching side of things rubs me the wrong way!
I would like to see what other folks think. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 8:42:49 PM | | I would never be with a woman that goes to clubs or to strip joints. Like there's a time to grow up right? | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 8:45:55 PM | I'm less than pleased if I am in a relationship with a fella and he goes to a strip club. I won't "forbid" him, however, if he does partake in the lap dancing or even touching one of the gals, I'd ask him point blank "what part of O-V-E-R don't you understand". He can look but can't touch. He wouldn't want to touch, simply out of respect for me and our relationship. No amount of liquor or being a part of the boys won't influence him, he will know his boundaries and be man enough to stand up.
It's not just so much of the visual, but there are men out there that drop massive amounts of money in these clubs, and in some cases, there goes grocery or rent money. That in itself would be totally wrong.
My ex hubby went to the clubs whenever they had their regional meetings. I didn't like it, but I appreciated the fact that he would tell me they went, at least he was honest about it. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 8:46:58 PM | Who is he coming home to? And last i checked, you can get lap dances but as for touching the employees, that is off limits around here.
I see nothing wrong with a man of mine going to a strip club. Personally, i like to go together. Those women don't want them, they want their money. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 8:47:33 PM | | Never been to one, would never go to one. And, I agree with Biz, at some point you need to grow up. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 8:50:46 PM | i dont like strip joints.. i feel like i am adding to these womens down fall..
I could care less if i ever step foot in one again. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 8:59:46 PM | It's been about 20 years since I have been to one.
I have never had a dancer at my table, or on my lap. That's just a bit too weird, imho.
I love the female figure, and the thing I that used to fascinate me is just watching the dynamics of the interaction between the dancers and the customers. It's a bit like the same way I loved to occasionally go to wrestling matches when I was younger. I spent most of the time watching the crowd.
If you go out with the guys once a year, have a few beers, and don't get too close to the action - it's not a problem. If you are there regularly, especially with a woman at home waiting for you - get help.
I'd take my girlfriend naked in bed with me, over any dancer ANY day... or night  | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:05:09 PM |
GROW UP? Oh come on, when does erotica = childish? Nice boobs! Implants make them better though. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:12:39 PM | I wish they had strip clubs where the women were dressed normally when they were off stage. I think it would be far more erotic to see both sides.
The fact that they are already pretty much naked when you walk in leaves little to the imagination. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:14:48 PM | | If my man can live with the fact that I'm going out with the ladies and dancing with half naked men who's privates are bulging through barely-there-underwear...then I can live with him shoving dollar bills into some chicks g-string. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 16 | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:20:11 PM | | I agree with the guy who said grow up! They do nothing for me . Why get teased by a stranger when you can have the real thing! Never understood it? | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 19 | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:21:52 PM | | funny how the men seem to be against it and the women are for it??? strange i would have thought the other way around... | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:22:30 PM | If my man can live with the fact that I'm going out with the ladies and dancing with half naked men who's privates are bulging through barely-there-underwear...then I can live with him shoving dollar bills into some chicks g-string.
Unfortunately, us going to see half naked men is no threat to our boyfriends... everyone KNOWS that 99% of those male strippers are gay! We can't say the same for the female strippers. And, if we could, our men would only be MORE turned on. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 21 | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:24:35 PM | you might be right^^^ no man i know would walk around in a thong...
hey i had older brothers thongs hurt like hell.. wedgie! | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:25:06 PM |
funny how the men seem to be against it and the women are for it??? strange i would have thought the other way around... Yes but look at the woman that are answering.....think about it. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 24 | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:30:55 PM | ahhh... good points..
you know relationships are hard enough why add temptation to the mix.. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2005 9:32:33 PM | Yeah, the women answering are not the types to sit around and let their men treat them like shit...take a look at the men answering.
A relationship is a 2-way street. If one partner can get away with this, why shouldn't the other? As for gay male strippers...I don't know what type of clubs you've been at lol but the ones I've met have been far from gay. In fact most are in relationships with either a very tolerant or interesting woman. | |
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