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 Author Thread: every time I am single, not seeing anyone or in a relationship. Men are less attracted to me
 LittleTexas7

Joined: 6/3/2005
Msg: 1
every time I am single, not seeing anyone or in a relationship. Men are less attracted to me
Posted: 8/7/2005 7:43:11 AM
It seems like every time I am single, not seeing anyone or in a relationship. Men are less attracted to me - I don't get flirted with as much and no man notices me) but on the other hand. As soon as I am with someone, it's fishing season.
 camryn

Joined: 8/1/2005
Msg: 2
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 8:13:44 AM
Men like a "challenge"...it's in their genes/jeans ...As a single, there's no challenge..if you're spoken for they get to try their manly attempts to "woo" you away..
 LittleTexas7

Joined: 6/3/2005
Msg: 3
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 8:23:38 AM
Sounds like that can be right... another thing.. they don't even know I am with someone, it's not brought up yet. Maybe some kind of sensor in their genes/jeans..
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 4
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 9:08:41 AM
I read somewhere that when a woman is sexually active she releases pheremones that men find attractive and that is why they are always chasing women who are "taken".
 dartgirl

Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 5
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 9:20:02 AM
Happens all the time.
 Bran Everseeking

Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 6
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 9:24:46 AM
back in te dark ages when i was young and in university a group of us came to the conclusion that both men and women in relationships are mostly happier. Happier people are more attractive and thus more interest.

but hey we were young and drunk.
 Ruby Lips

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 7
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 9:40:53 AM
Yup.....This happens to me all the time. I don't get it either. Do we send out vibes to the Universe or something? Just plain weird!!
 Sorka Spellbound

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 8
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 9:51:30 AM
That has happened to me alot. I think who the fox and Man-witch have it right. When you're fulfilled physically and emotionally, you broadcast all of that positive energy and people can't help but be attracted to it. I've been told by friends that I "glow" when I'm really into a relationship. Then it seems like they all crawl out of thw woodwork!
 Doc Sage

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 9
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 10:10:55 AM
__Think I got it. When a lady is in a relationship she "sends out vibes" that makes her "glow" and becomes "mostly happier" and makes her "release pheremones" that other can "sense in their genes/jeans" so they try to "woo you away".
__It's just "plain weird"? Or do I get it?

Doc
 ksue44

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 10
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 10:13:46 AM
I think women who are in a happy and fulfilling relationship do look happier and appear to be more confident. That in itself is an attractive trait to men. Remember, men like the thrill of the chase! If a guy flirts with you, enjoy it but it doesn't mean you have to act on it!
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 11
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 10:17:38 AM
It has happened but i usually find myself with the less attractive men after me no matter when it is!
 dartgirl

Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 12
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 1:51:25 PM
That is so true, Bambi. Either that, or ones that don't have a clue what is going on.
 BEETS

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 13
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Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 1:57:12 PM
It happens to men also....Espeacially me......
 Talitha001

Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 8/7/2005 1:57:14 PM
Doc Sage...LOL!!!! You are soooooo funny!!!!
 aynie61

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 15
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 2:23:30 PM
I wouldn't know a "come on" if it came up and slapped me up side the head.... I guess I just don't pay attention, or I don't care...???
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 8/7/2005 2:23:31 PM
Girl it's all about attitude! When you are with someone you are putting off a sexy happy vibe!
If you want men to notice you..... before you get out of your car... think about some of the best SEX you've ever had.... or when you are walking and you look at a man... think about if the sex would be hot with them! You will have a look on your face.. a lil grin... that will make men turn and look at you!

I am extremely shy and have had the same problem you're having... I read that and have tried it and I have to tell you it works!
 musicmanpvb

Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 17
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 2:26:58 PM
hmmmm - I was just thinking how attractive dartgirl and bambi are.... not quite sure what that says about me.....

OT: BTW - men do NOT like the thrill of the chase - there is NOTHING more disappointing than seeing a woman that we find very attractive and finding out she is taken. The fact that she is taken is NOT a stimulus for us. Especially becaus e we recognize what you do not - the guy you are with is a jerk, and you would be much happier with us ...

It may be all of the other things that doc so brilliantly worked out though
 LittleTexas7

Joined: 6/3/2005
Msg: 18
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 6:14:04 PM
Who the Fox --" I read somewhere that when a woman is sexually active she releases pheremones that men find attractive and that is why they are always chasing women who are "taken"."

I can believe that.
 LittleTexas7

Joined: 6/3/2005
Msg: 19
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 6:15:20 PM
Sorka.. Yeah I think what they said does make perfect sense now that I think about it.
 NotLooking

Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 20
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Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 8:09:08 PM
Not only that..I think that when you are seeing someone..you take more time to fix yourself up..dress better..and are generally in a better mood so that tends to attract more male attention too..
 Blastkist

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 21
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/7/2005 11:51:00 PM
I'm the opposite. When I'm single I get chased and when i'm taken I don't. That's how it should be though...I prefer that. Less confusing. Then again it might be because they kept me under latch and key? LOL!
 Honorable Genius

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 8/8/2005 2:52:36 AM
It seems to work that way. For me, I think I'm naturally attractive, and when I'm with someone I release a perfume called "Happiness", and all people like that. When I'm single I release a stench called "Desperation", which isn't sold in stores because it repells women. Like the starving predator that can't catch the bunny, the vultures ready to feed on you are the only ones left to keep you company. Sorry, did that get out of hand?...
 mind_reader

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:14:10 AM
^^^ I don't call it non of the above. It is wrong attitudes, wrong states of minds,
wrong up-bringings, wrong knowledge. It is the sickness of the century!
 IrishBeauty22

Joined: 3/24/2004
Msg: 24
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Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/9/2005 1:51:03 AM
man i wish i could put out that vibe when im SINGLE when im taken i get every tom****and harry out
 ginger tea

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 25
Ladies, does this happen to you?
Posted: 8/9/2005 5:34:22 AM
I am single, not seeing or dating anyone. Some days I feel good about myself and about the world. Those are the days I also feel very feminine and confident. When I go out, I get a lot of attention from guys.
When I am not feeling so great,it doesn't matter what I wear, or how I look, no one seems to notice me, as if I am invisable.
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