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 petiteone1

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 1
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/13/2004 7:15:03 PM
Well looks like he really wasn't interested in me at all. I try to talk to him about why i wanted more then dating. He told me i was really nice and cool to hang around with but it was like hanging around one of his male friends. He said he just want to be friends. sad and crying now.
 Puppy_Love

Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 2
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/13/2004 7:41:08 PM
Hi Mariam,

I'm sorry to hear about your dating downfall. I'm sure it isn't anything about you, it was the guy. The pain will fade slowly. The sooner you feel better, the sooner you will attract another man. When you feel better, you'll enjoy yourself and be happy. Happiness is a natural attractant for the opposite sex. Best wishes,

Puppy Love
 honey_kizzes

Joined: 9/30/2004
Msg: 3
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/13/2004 10:22:30 PM
AWWWW hun I am so very sorry to hear that...Thats so sad...I understand....But you know what, better you found out now, and can move on faster, then finding out in a worse way that you did....

UR cute and should find someone WORTHY of you soon...
ROCK ON...
 petiteone1

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 4
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/13/2004 10:59:24 PM
that's but i decided to give up on dating and men.
 petiteone1

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 5
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/13/2004 11:00:02 PM
thanks but i decided to give up on men and dating for a while
 bio

Joined: 10/7/2004
Msg: 6
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broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/14/2004 12:27:05 AM
I wish I could find a girl who was more like hanging out with my guy friends! :)

Seriously though, I sympathize.

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 MSTJedi

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 7
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/14/2004 9:25:22 AM
I understand about wanting to give it a rest. I go through phases where I don't want to think about women or dating, too. Sometimes you get so digusted with being disappointed that you just want to forget about it. Take your time, build up your strength, and when you're ready, jump back on that dating horse.
 n73stang

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/14/2004 11:27:32 AM
HELLO IM SORRY TO HERE ABOUT YOUR DATING EXP THE THINGS I HAVE FOUND THAT I LIKE PERSONALY ABOUT WOMEN I THINK IVE NEVER SEEN ALL THESE THINGS IN ONE GIRL I THINK THE THING THAT SNAPPED ME OUTTA HAVING DATING PROBLEMS WAS TO DATE OUTSIDE THE BOX I TRIED TALKING TO WOMEN WITH PERSONALITIES THAT I WOULD NEVER GO FOR IT WORKED OUT A GOOD BIT I STILL HAVENT MET THE WOMEN THAT IM GONNA MARRY BUT IM HAVING BETTER LUCK FOR EXAMPLE IM KIND OF A 80,S PUNKER AND I TOOK A SHOT AT A GIRL WHO WAS ABSOLUTLY COUNTRY IT WORKS BETTER THAN YOUD EXPECT GIVE IT A TRY LATER NICK
 Southern_guy_4_life

Joined: 11/13/2004
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/14/2004 2:06:30 PM
Hell, I wish I could find a girl less like my guy friends!

Course, when you're in a town full of alcoholics, it doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out why.
 petiteone1

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 10
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/15/2004 6:29:35 PM
Thanks for the advice but i have tried that. I have dated short guys, hip hopers, punks, tall guys lol but in the end they seem to want to be friends and just hang out.
 peace2u

Joined: 10/19/2004
Msg: 11
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/15/2004 8:17:03 PM
Hey there

Look, everything happens for a reason. If you try to force something that is not meant to be, you will end up getting more hurt and wonder why you never left it the way it was. You are lucky enough to have your friend tell you that he wants it to stay the way it is, he must really treasure your friendship. That's just it, you know..... you must be a good person with a big heart. There arn't that many people around so use what you have got.
A lot of people have complimented me on having a big heart. Even when i was single, i would just offer advice and just listen to people. Through that approach i finally met my partner. So like i said, just keep at it. You will meet someone naturally that likes you for who you are. Please keep smiling
 n73stang

Joined: 2/26/2004
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broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/16/2004 1:29:07 PM
well i dont think thats cool so i figure ill just have to give a shout out hollor at miss petiteone1 shes a cutey what wrong with you dude i meen lord lol just thought id try to help id talk to you but i live on the other side of the u.s later nick
 petiteone1

Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 13
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/16/2004 6:19:14 PM
Thanks all for the advice. But i feel down. He said he wanted a relationship and changed his mind. He didn't even give a reason. Worse of all he is no longer even contacting me.
 indigorose33

Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 14
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/16/2004 9:53:06 PM
when someone breaks your heart you think that there will never be another...you don't want to live without him...you can't see this now but ...soon you will meet a real man and he will make you forget all about it ..then you'll look back at "fathead" and say what did I ever see in him ?? smile baby !
 SweetnSour84

Joined: 11/13/2004
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Posted: 11/16/2004 10:35:46 PM
Move on from this guy, he's a lost cause. If you're getting this kind of thing repeatedly, try goin' out of your way to appear feminine. Give the guy a reason to want to stick around and be more than friends. No guy wants to screw his best buddy. Its still cool to hang out and be one of the guys, just don't take it too far. Walking around the house in sweats all the time isn't gonna make him think of you as his girlfriend. Remind him why it is that he was attracted to you in the first place. Even if it means showing up at his house in the sluttiest outfit you own!
 2shortmort

Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 16
broken heart from what is wrong with me
Posted: 11/16/2004 11:34:19 PM
Don't worry too much about this guy. Some idiots don't know something good even when
it's right under their nose. But you have to keep on. I know, I've been lonely and looking
for 5 years now.I think I'm getting closer, but you just have to keep going. The harder
you try to find something, the farther away from it you get. Love will find us both as soon
as we quit trying so hard to find it, and when we least expect it. I know it will. Hang in
there dear one. Please don't give up.Love will embrace when it's ready. The best things
come to those that wait, and have patience. Good luck.
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