| The First Kiss
Posted: 8/9/2005 11:48:00 PM | | I watched the movie "Hitch" recently and enjoyed it quite a bit. Most anyone in the dating scene probably would enjoy it. Anyways, one line that Will Smith says in the film is that "the first kiss tells a woman everything she needs to know about the relationship". Agree or not? | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 1:33:48 AM | I do not know but I just seen the movie myself tonite, and I reccomend it.
And am curious as to the above question myself.. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 2:54:47 AM | | I don't know about that....the first kiss is usually not that passionate, the couple are still feeling each other out at that stage. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I usually hold back a bit on the first kiss. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 3:45:13 AM | I think the first kiss does say a lot. Is he a good kisser? Would I want to kiss him again?
Does he bite? i.e the teeth get in the way? Is he a drooler?
If he has bad breath or dirty teeth, definitely not.
If he has soft lips and is not trying to suck my face off then probably.
So yes, I agree, you can tell quite a bit about the guy from the first kiss.
It indicates what he might be like in bed too.
Would you want to do more than just kiss? or would you just like to try it again?
The first kiss doesn't have to be long & passionate. It could be a quick peck. It is all in the delivery. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 4:12:46 AM | That movie was excellent. I think all guys should see it at least once.
BTW don't rush the kiss. Take your time. Most women prefer a man who takes his time... especially in other areas too... | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 6:45:11 AM | | I disagree that you can tell all about the relationship from the first kiss. Some of my best relationships have come as a result of a poor first kiss. I do agree that a man shouldn't rush it and dive down my throat on the first kiss..... | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 7:01:09 AM | It has been my experience that the first kiss 'can' tell a lot about a man - does he kiss me gently with lips that are not mashing or tongue that is not forcefully being pushed into my mouth? Does his kiss leave me intrigued, wanting to learn more about him or does his kiss overpower and make me feel he is trying to dominate me?
Agreed, the first kiss is not usually one of passion and no holds barred however, it should act as an introduction and a memory of how it made me feel.
Every woman likes to be kissed a little differently and as such, there is always that first kiss that may be a little uncomfortable or may be heavenly......one of the nicest first kisses experienced was a gentle peck with my face being touched at the same time..... again, we are all different in what makes us tick but finding out is half the fun! | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 7:40:34 AM | | I would rather the first kiss be a little gentle one with considerable holding back. It scares me when a guy tries to dive right in on a first kiss. I agree with Lacey, the first kiss should leave you intrigued and wanting to learn more. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 7:53:44 AM | Big mistake to judge the relationship based on the "first" anything.
A lot of guys (myself included), and I'm sure many girls as well, are simply nervous and awkward for the first date or two. We don't really loosen up and start acting ourselves till we have been out a couple of times at least ... either that, or until we have had a couple of drinks !
My foot and knee bobs up and down, I probably sweat too much, I giggle inappropriately, I can be a complete disaster to be honest. If girls didn't give me another chance I'd never get laid.
I'm so bad ... I used to actually just kick back 2 or 3 drinks before dates, and before job interviews ! Not that I'm some kind of lush or anything, I just discovered (and most girls that have been on first dates with me would agree) that I'm a much more pleasant, relaxed, and charming date if I do this. Of course, I never tell them.
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:04:19 AM | I somewhat agree with Louisepointe. However we are just talking about kissing. You can tell a great deal with just kissing. After a few minutes of kissing, you will know if thier is chemisty or not. The kissing has to be HOT from the beginning of the relationship. Now I would never judge sex on the first or the second encounter.  | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:59:08 AM | Louispointe has a point people. Nervousness and shyness will make a considerable difference to a persons behaviour. So that first kiss may not be the best kiss a guy is capable of giving. I think ladies should bear this in mind. People do make mistakes and slip up in high pressure situations. I reckon you should allow for at least ten first kisses before you make up your mind.
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Posted: 8/10/2005 6:14:17 PM | I believe you can tell a lot from the very first kiss..
If a guy gets all nasty and plunges his tongue down your throat or licks your whole face (yes it has happened) its definitely a turn OFF.
However, bearing in mind that men may be nervous...women are more apt to forgive a clumsy but "clean" kiss..than a nasty messy one. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:26:49 PM | the first kiss tells me if i want to see him again, i have said no, b/c of that first kiss. the fool shoved his slimy tongue down my throat after we ate and had a few drinks. ewwwww
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:35:12 PM | | I think that you can tell a lot from a first kiss. I also have just resently watched "Hitch" and I agree a the first kiss does tell the woman everything she needs to know. I mean, If you dont get that rush of butterflys in your tummy, and a hot flash that goes from head to toe. Then you got nothing! The relationship will not work. if thats missing. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:36:11 PM | | YOur first kiss with someone ..is most deffinatly something u are never gonna forget..As far as being nervous..well...in order for me to go there anyhow...i'd have to be feelin prettty comfortable with someone in the first place. A kiss is most deffinatly something u can go on! The passion the look in there eyes etc...if its not good...then .helll...it just aint gonna work .....!!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:51:57 PM | | I have to agree on this one! After the first kiss...I knew I found the man of my dreams. And I know he would agree with me on this topic! It was the most amazing thing in the world and I look forward to a lifetime of them. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:03:38 PM | | I agree !!! So it better be a good one!!! | |
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| The First Kiss
Posted: 8/10/2005 9:43:04 PM |  Thats gotta be the first high point in a relationship. err could be. Doupt getting a rush from the first kiss really means anything because the person on the other end could just be a great kisser  But I think it's a moment you remember for a long while after the person is out of the picture, or the rest of your life. | |
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:59:18 PM | | Well I am a guy and I have learned that from my friends that are women that I have dated that the first kiss said a lot, I doesn't say whether the relationship will last or not but it does say how much chemistry is there, now sloppy making out while you are drunk that is just drunk lust and doesn't really count, I agree that the first kiss should be gentle, and leave something to the imagination, keep her coming back for more, if you've made it that far chances are you've played your cards right, and you don't need to go for the home run at that moment, take it slow, because if you are too forceful, she's gonna be like damn this guy just wants to get some, let her feel comfortable. nothing against women but they like to feel in control, society has reversed now and women have a more dominant role in society, as much as us men hate to admit it they have us by the balls, so play it by their book then when you're in the clear take control, I guarantee most women won't mind that you took them into consideration instead of going for it all. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 5:23:38 AM | Another thing about the first kiss. I have found it sooooo sexy even eroctic when the man ask me first if he may kiss me. It's a turn on. P.s then I am ready. hehehe
Ladies what do you think? | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 5:54:39 AM | for me - the first kiss is important -
do I get butterflies or not -
do I want to kiss them again -
it may not tell everything - but it does tell a lot
just my opinion | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 6:16:52 AM | | No it doesn't...chances are if I'm kissing him, I like him so much already. I'm not gonna stop seeing him if I don't like his kiss or something. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 7:36:51 AM | Sweet_pea54:
If only we kept getting that rush of butterflies in our tummy our whole lives ...
Once you have gotten a little older and cynical like me, you will stop looking for that, believe me. If I was waiting for a rush of butterflies I might as well toss the towel in now.
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Honestly, I think this first kiss thing is totally ridiculous. It's just more superstitious non-sense for you kids to latch onto, like astrology. Notice none of the "first kiss" advocates are older than 35. That is because eventually common sense does prevail, if you live long enough, and the tired old dog of practicality catches up with you.
Give me a nice, pretty, intelligent woman that cant kiss at all ! I'll teach the lady how to kiss, if that's the only strike against her. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2005 7:43:31 AM | singlesexybbw:
That's funny. Being a very bad judge of peoples body language, I almost always ask first.
Some girls really think it kills the mood.
I just considerate it polite. | |
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| The First Kiss
Posted: 8/11/2005 7:49:13 AM | The first kiss... I have to admit it is very important!
I dated a guy that I really enjoyed being around him. He was very attracted to me but was kind of clingy.. calling me all the time.... wanting me to meet his kids (I don't want to meet kids unless I think it's going to be serious) we had a blast everytime we went out.
Finally I decided I really need to kiss this man to see if there is any chemistry there because it just seemed to be the missing ingredient with this awesome guy. At dinner he was talking about how much he LOVES to kiss and kiss for hours... and how he couldn't waite to kiss me...
We were in the parking lot and he went to kiss me! OMG it was horrible!
-He was immediately biting my lip (usually u work up to that!)
-his teeth were clanking my teeth
-Slobbering
-groaning
I don't think I need to go on.. needless to say that was my last date with him. Kissing is very important.... | |
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