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 stool

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 1
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:12:00 PM
Currently being stalked by female about 20 yrs younger than myself. My only reservation is that she will reject me when she gets to know me better. Any guys out there with similar experiences? she is 20 and i am 37. im not attracted to females much older than 20 so i guess she has me.
 Crayola

Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 2
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:13:20 PM
If it works for you. Hit it.
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
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When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:14:12 PM
^^^agreed. She's legal
 SICutie

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 4
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:20:25 PM
you're living with someone and you want to involve someone else in your relationship? someone that might be unstable?

golly but you're a brainiac
 stool

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 5
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:26:50 PM
im single living alone. please don't trash my thread.
 Crayola

Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 6
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:27:20 PM
^^^^The one living with him is older than 20. Time to update the model.
 SICutie

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 7
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:27:44 PM
your profile says living with someone. you may want to fix that then

i'm moody, bossy and judgmental today. i can't help it. besides you asked what to do and i merely put my input in. if you don't want answers don't ask

haha!! crayola!!!
 louispointe

Joined: 8/9/2005
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When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:34:49 PM
Dude, are you insane ?

What's her name and where does she live ?
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 2:35:24 PM

^^^^The one living with him is older than 20. Time to update the model.

I've never kept a car or a wife for more than three years
 FriendsRGood

Joined: 5/12/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 2:35:38 PM
so?..you sound like most women! ...no need to explain that! hehe!
 stool

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 11
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:37:15 PM
I'm looking for answers from guys. Specifically, do you get rejected down the road. On other matchmaking sites I have been on, I mostly get responses from females who are exactly my age.
 Toad4U

Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 12
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:38:57 PM
stalked by a 20 year old woman??? yeah - right
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 2:39:58 PM
Stool, seriously, she's 20. She's going to reject you down the road at some point because she's too young. I say go for it and enjoy it while you can. Have some fun. When it ends, shake hands and thank her for nearly giving an old man a heart attack!
 stool

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 14
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:40:45 PM
I'm quite good looking and athletic. She has admitted that her attraction is based on looks.
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 2:43:51 PM
Well, then go for it. Seriously, just have fun. Hw many chances do you have to get involved with someone that will be all fun, and when it gets bad will end without getting too ugly? Go for it!
 trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 2:45:15 PM
I dont know.

I wont go near a girl more than 2 years younger than me. same as if she,s drunk


I dont like the feeling that I,m taking advantage of stupidity.
and with youth comes stupidity
 stool

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 17
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:45:28 PM
Ok. I guess I can always find another young one if she gets bored with me.
 tatalinia

Joined: 6/25/2004
Msg: 18
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:52:21 PM
how is she stalking you please explain whats she doing that u could label it stalking? Obvious this girl must be desperate if shes chasing a man old enough to be her father , guys her age must not want her or something, this story sounds cheesy.
 Pen Name

Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 19
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:57:59 PM
She probably just wants to sit on you, or else she has a cow to milk.
 biziedizie

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 20
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 2:58:26 PM
Go for it and have a great time! Keep in mind that it will end down the road so don't get too attached to her. Treat her with respect and keep in mind that she really still is a little girl.
I had an 18 yr old hanging with me for the last year and it was a blast! There were no strings attached and she found a b/f her age and I hope it all works out for the two of them.
The drinking and goofing off and the sex was great! She also had a wonderful mind and I really enjoyed talking to her.
Oh and I got some great nude pics as that was one of the things that she enjoyed!
 evanism

Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 21
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 3:15:10 PM
Does it really matter that it will end down the road? What guarantee do you have any relationship will or will not end down the road?

Just do it. Get it while the gettins good.
 trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 3:19:48 PM
geez.

allot of guys really dont have any morals.

get it while the gettins good???

cant you find any closer to your age.

I,ve always felt like I,m taking advantage when she,s a year or 2 younger than me.
let alone 17 years
 stool

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 23
When females 20 yrs your junior chase you: what to do?
Posted: 8/10/2005 3:29:14 PM
The correct answer seems to be to enjoy it while it lasts. Thanks:) Afterall, everything in life is fleeting. I like and respect her so it makes it more dangerous.
 springfieldgeek

Joined: 8/10/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 3:33:07 PM
It's not necessarily 'desperate'... I had a similar case (she was 21, I was 37) a few years ago.

It was an 'escape fantasy' for her: she had some emotional issues and left out (well, actually, she lied about it, since she specifically said she wasn't) the fact that she was engaged. I was her fantasy to get away from her fiance. Not because he was evil or abused her or anything: just because she was so needy that she didn't believe how he felt about her. (Nor of course, did she believe how I felt).

It turned out nasty and painful, and four years later we're finally able to talk as friends with lots of barriers still.

I'd say: Run Away. Yes it's possible she's emotionally mature at 20, but most likely she is not.

A whole lot of "growing up" goes on in the early 20's.
 Aroara1982

Joined: 6/13/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 3:34:51 PM
Stool,

I used to be head over heels in lust with a 50 year old ex navy seal. I understand the whole he looks good even though he's only 2 years younger than my father. We did get drunk and kiss one night, but it felt like I was kissing my dad. So.....if she's ok with you being older than go for it, get it while you can, it doesn't happen everyday!
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