| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/11/2005 10:18:48 PM | Well, shes moved on al frickin ready.....
She revealed to me tonight, supposedly feeling guilty, that shes moved on and has a crush on one of my friends. She then asked if id ''be alright'' if she made a move....
Now, in my posts ive done my best to be mature, and civilized, and be an adult, now im sorry but i have to say, what in the blue f*ck kind of a question is THAT??????? FIRST OFF, its only been 21 days......she sure replaced me quick. Now normally id be a bit pissed and just let it lie, but the fact that shes after one of my buddies...now i just feel DISSED and pissed......and really really hurt too. My stomach is sick again...bloody hell...
Now, im 90% sure that they will hook up, because i said to her fine, if thats what makes you happy you go for it. i dont want to see or be around you 2 though because its not healthy for me, so you do your thing, talk to me on msn if you want, and ill do mine, and lets leave it at that.
But seriously....wtf? its like her and me never even happened....sorry if im seeming immature here...like i said im just totally out of it and need to vent. Somebody give me a reason to smile again...all ive got now is my job :(
Am i THAT bad with women???
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 1:56:28 AM | | If your friend is really your friend, he wont get involved with her. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:07:03 AM | | This girl isn't worth your time. There is someone out there better for you. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:20:56 AM | No gun man...you are NOT bad with women....you are just naturally hurt...and it totally sucks that she has to have a "crush" on a friend of yours....salt in the wound OUCH. I think you sound like a totally great guy who any woman would be lucky to have....and you love kids and cats too...what more could a woman want??? Hang in there and move on hon...it will take time...but not too much time at your age.
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:36:08 AM | | Every post in this thread wreaks of immaturity with the possible exception of Sunbird's. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:53:11 AM | Ask yourself this:
If your friend had just gotten over a relationship, and his ex approached you, would you accept, even if he said he was "fine with it"?
Hell no.
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:55:01 AM | | Sky, how are the first two responses immature? They're just giving their opinions, and I honestly couldn't find anything immature about them saying that she isn't worth his grief. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:57:49 AM | | It's pretty immature to discount another human beings worth just because you don't like the way things went down. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 3:01:17 AM | | difference of translation I suppose. I read that there "is someone out there better for you" meaning someone that would click better personality wise, and that "if he was really your friend he wouldn't date her" which I kind of agree with. I wouldn't date someone who just dumped a friend of mine. But that's just me. I have been wrong in the past as far as translating what people say. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 3:06:15 AM | | I am glad you read those 2 lines. Perhaps reading further would enlighten you. Probably not. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 7:48:04 AM | | i wonder how many mega bytes of memory Skylar's ego takes up on the POF web server? | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 8:12:49 AM | | Of course you are not bad with women! I have read your posts throughout this whole ordeal and it has been you that has dealt with it in a dignified classy manner. THe counter part seems to be lacking your integrity. I do however, feel that you should never say something is ok when it is really not. SPeak up to her you have nothing to lose anyway she is already gone. Tell her how disgusting you think it is. It may not change her mind but atleast she knows she can't walk all over you like yesturdays warn out carpet. As for your friend well I suggest expressing your disapproval to him as well and see where it goes. If he is your friend he will respect and honor your feelings. You are a really great guy and you deserve much better than her! | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 10:44:39 AM | Norolim, dont be mad at Skylar, I think all the blood is in her breasts and she cant think properly as a result. Reading her profile confirms that.
80 yrs old and athletic eh? Cant see either of those being true, eheheheheeh. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 12:32:15 PM | well, id certainly hope im not......but im at the point now where i dont care anymore, they can have eachother. Ive got better things to be doing that waste my time bein upset and letting the real world (IE work, school, other opportuninty's) pass me by. Not saying it doesnt hurt, but im not putting my life on hold and qiutting because f that. Screw that....
Thanks for all the feedback though, i feel alot better.... | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 12:42:30 PM | | " hey Joe" "were ya goin with that gun in your hand " James Marshal Hendrix | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 1:02:25 PM | I had this happen to me!! 1st thing tell your buddy to screw off!I lost one buddy this way!Makes you wonder what they were doing when you weren't around?NOt a loyal broad!If your bud is a real bud he won't want anything to do with her!ACtions speak louder than words!Ignore the **stard!Just close that door lock it and throw the key out!Case closed! | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:08:39 PM | | Gunman, if she'll do it to you, she'll do it to him, too. Let him know.... | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:12:19 PM | | looks like we both have egg to wear to bed these day sir for i know your feeling o so well! as you well see mine set the same time as yours! guess we can do very little but move ahead at this point sad to say! god be with us both! | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:12:57 PM | Drh1966, Why such a nasty comment? Did I delete one of your emails without responding????
If all you people look to do is be rude, then take it somewhere else. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:25:08 PM | | you need a reason to smile? how's this....you have a job, you got rid of a chick that would probably screw you over in the long long run anyways and found out that your friend wasn't really your friend after all. three rock solid reasons. no job hunting...bonus. you get to now test the waters again for a nice girl....sweet. last but not least...don't need to wonder anymore just how good of a "pal" your buddy honestly was.....now there's one less idiot wasting your time when you are finding a new girl. long story short.... i can think of tonnes of reasons not to smile that are alot worse than yours. | |
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| wow...that was fast... Posted: 8/12/2005 2:38:29 PM | | sky, respectfully, if youve got nothing positive to contribute, please dont contribute at all. Thanks. | |
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