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 KaptnKurt
Joined: 5/10/2004
Msg: 1
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How old is too old ...and how young is too young?IM a single guy 38 ,Ive dated lots of younger women 20 to 30 .is this wrong?
 Sundog
Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/15/2004 6:19:05 PM
Dating someone 16 is wrong... dating someone 20 when you are 38 might not be wise.. but it depends on each situation and where you both are in life...
 bout2giveup
Joined: 10/4/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/15/2004 9:28:24 PM
If they are consentual adults,whats the problem?
If he is 50 and she is 18 last time I checked 18 is an adult if she is mentally mature,and likes/loves an older guy more power to her,in fact where is she???? :)
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/15/2004 10:29:30 PM
You should be shot on sight! .............j/k

Up to you man, just don't break the law.
 JojoBuddah
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/16/2004 12:19:11 AM
If she has trouble getting herself out of the depends..she's probably too old.
 KaptnKurt
Joined: 5/10/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/16/2004 10:28:38 AM
your sick....dont want to hear the one about too young!
 KaptnKurt
Joined: 5/10/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/16/2004 10:42:22 PM
Apparantly i really sucked in the ratings department .. 1,2??????whaattt!.i didnt think i was THAT bad looking.Im not ugly, fat or bald , ive had lots of hot girlfriends in the past....and ive had many compliments on my looks .thanks for the vote of confidence ladies, i took my picture off .hope you like this one better ..and thanks to the 2 guys that rated me a 7! ........p.s.....im not gay
 FlirtyCuteGuy
Joined: 8/14/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/17/2004 10:38:00 AM
I would have absolutely no problem whatever with dating a woman in her 20s if she can go without being sarcastic when I first meet her. Nothing bothers me more than a woman who can't pony up a straight answer when I don't know her yet. Give me at least one date to get to know you before being obnoxiously sarcastic.
 califdee2005
Joined: 11/19/2004
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/22/2004 7:30:12 AM
YOU KNOW WHAT DONT WORRY ABOUT IT 18 IS LEGAL IF SHE LIKES OLDER MEN THEN THATS KOOL WITH ME I DONT SEE WHAT THE HYPE IS ABOUT SHES LOOKING FOR SECURITY AND COMMITTMENT AND SHE FINDS IT IN AND OLDER MAN
 XESLARO
Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/24/2004 2:51:13 PM
hell ya know what i'm 20 and i like older men the youngest guy that i have had a relationship with was eleven years older then me and you know what we got along great and had a whole lot in common infact we still do we broke up but age wasn't the factor he had to move out west for a job but my job was in ontario. i see nothing wrong with dating an older guy.
 Dragon Fire
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 11/24/2004 3:36:46 PM
Im right up there with xeslaro - I naturally gravitate towards older men. Maybe its b/c they "appear" to be more put together then someone my own age whos still sitting here trying to figure out what they're doing with their life. But I like a man who knows when to flirt and when to flatter and knows the difference between the two. In my case 'experience' is what attracts me to older men - they know what to do and when most of the time. However this does not apply to all, I've dated a 40 yr old male who was more immature then a 25 yr old.
 GfW
Joined: 11/6/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/24/2004 5:59:38 PM
ShortyPants ... Flirt = I want to take you to bed. Flatter = you are really pretty and intelligent and I want to take you to bed.

Seriously, there are lots of younger women who gravitate to older men. The women, like you, generally think the man is more stable, has more to offer in many areas, and treats women with more respect than younger men. The older man, on the other hand, is extremely flattered that a beautiful young woman is attracted to him ... makes him think "yeah, I've still got it baby".

You like older men ... then go for it. I don't even think much of society looks at it very differently now. used to be when you saw a young woman with an older man ... she was after his money and he was trying to show off and relive his youth. Now it's just an older guy and a younger woman ... in most cases.
 djrfla9
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/25/2004 8:35:44 AM
hey, let's get better acquainted. Like your sense of humor and profile. How often do you come to Florida?
 peachpuff
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/25/2004 12:19:47 PM
Why wrong? I don't think it's wrong. I mean, as long as the two of you enjoy the relationship, why should think on age range. Wait the minute.. lots of younger women??
 GfW
Joined: 11/6/2004
Msg: 15
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Posted: 11/25/2004 3:03:08 PM
Peachpuff,

I believe there are many young girls who like older men ... maybe not lots but a substantial number.

Why is it that if a 45 year old woman sleeps with a 20 year old guy she is a cougar but if a 45 year old man sleeps with a 20 year old woman he is a pervert?
 peachpuff
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/26/2004 12:21:09 AM
OK, Fair enough. If so far I always date man on my age instead of older men who expect to build a kind of relationship with me, I think it has nothing to do with age. Indeed, these older men who came to me were very attractive, it’s just that I haven’t got any chemistry on them. Very much talking about what I feel inside.

Actually, I was only wondering if lots of younger girls attracted to older men, those young men will find it hard to date girls on their age ;-)


To Gfw: Ok, that make sense.
 Tayven
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/26/2004 4:24:52 PM
very true, Hrd
 peachpuff
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 18
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Posted: 11/26/2004 7:46:30 PM
Well..talking about maturity level, i have to admit that I am with you hrdbody. There, at last I've said it.
 peachpuff
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/26/2004 8:40:38 PM
I wish my ex-bf reads your statement hrdbody, so he can pull back his words on how childish I was.
 peachpuff
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/27/2004 1:12:16 AM
Thanks hrd, find one for me? ;-)
 LATNLVR
Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 21
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Posted: 11/27/2004 7:38:21 PM
peachpuff
<<< single and looking!
 MidnightChild
Joined: 6/16/2004
Msg: 22
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Posted: 11/27/2004 8:32:05 PM
If you're both consenting adults, go for it. Just keep in mind that your maturity levels are different and younger women tend to be very jealous. Oh, if she doesn't know who Elton John is... it may be best to leave her alone...lol.
 wanderalone13
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/30/2004 12:02:55 AM
I'm 31 and half my problem getting dates is the fact that they're too young.... or too young by societies standards. The 18 - 19 yr olds love hitting on me, but my conscience always comes into play and I feel like a dog. I changed alot since I was that age, so I always feel like they would dump me within a year anyways...
 Dragon Fire
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 24
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Posted: 11/30/2004 1:37:17 AM
from GFW: ShortyPants ... Flirt = I want to take you to bed. Flatter = you are really pretty and intelligent and I want to take you to bed. << TOO FUNNY! Close but not quite hun. Good try though!

Peachpuff it looks like you were talking to either yourself or a ghost - hrd's posts are missing and I dont know why so I missed out on what you were replying to :( Took me a while on that one too! *rolls eyes*

Wander: I wouldnt worry about it. I mean for me dating an older man doesnt mean I have to or Im destined to. There are no blinders on me set for 'older men' its more that I have chemistry with someone and that we're on the same level and NO I AM NOT SAYING IM AS MATURE AS some 40 something - 50 something. *lol*

If I were to meet someone within a 5-10 yr range within my own age I'd b estatic, but (a) they either live on the other side of the world (b) they're lying to me hence us getting along so well (c) are taken and are only lookin for 'friends' to 'chat' with and I dont mean nice daily small talk either *rolls eyes* or (d) just want a piece of my tail. Its all in the maturity level, chemisty and overall compatibility for me - have yet to meet someone who is willing to take me on.

But just b/c you think they will leave you after 1 yr I mean come on, that could be THE BEST year of your life - you'll never know unless you try - unless you deem them totally not worthy. But even that means going out atleast once. Don't feel like a dog, feel like your missing out b/c you didnt take the time to find out.


 Angelos
Joined: 9/2/2004
Msg: 25
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Posted: 11/30/2004 6:06:07 AM
Well, my 2 cents are quite simple: if the girl is mature enough to understand the extent of what she is expected to be and what she expects of the older gentleman, then she should be given the chance to "walk the walk". Don't get me wrong, my limit is 20 years old, but as i am a single dad, i would prefer a younger woman due to the primary fact that if anything should happen to me and we are married, the woman i marry could take my daughter and continue giving her the love, respect and protection that i would wish my baby to get. My baby is only 5 months old and the "mother" was taken away due to her actions and inactions, so the new mom in her life would have to understand that she would not just be a future wife but a mother as well.

your thoughts?
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