| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 3:15:01 PM | how do u handle the fact your a virgin past age 25 do u still get a feeling of helplessness when u see a hot women/ or if u your women a hot guy and wish u could "do" something with her/him
like u wish u did something when u were a younger age? | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 3:17:50 PM | Can't tell ya... Not a virgin Did something when I was a younger age Probably helped in warping me to the fabulous person I am today Maybe lol | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 3:31:02 PM | who the hell stays a virgin past 25
it,s just sex
go out and get laid. shit if your having problems get a hooker
just get laid dammit | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 10:32:35 PM | Well, first of all, I would start by dropping the imspeak "u". That might improve your odds.
I had a friend who stayed a virgin until she was married at 28, so you're not the only one. It's not something to be afraid of or ashamed of. I can't tell you whether you should bring it up sooner or later with a person-of-the-appropriate-sex, that's something you'll just have to play by ear.
That said: 1. If you act all nervous and jerky about being a virgin, you'll scare your date away. Relax.
2. You should probably mention the virginity thing by the time you get your pants off at the absolute latest. Any later and it will become clear on its own, which is not cool. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 10:39:16 PM | Never had to deal with that....must be hard feeling out-of-place from the current society standards. All I can say is just be yourself and live a full life whether it's your fate to die as a virgin or not. that's for you for lasting that long...whatever the case may be. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 11:05:35 PM | Im on my way to being a 25 year old virgin, no Im not desperate enough to screw a dirty hooker. But I do need serious help | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/13/2005 11:13:54 PM | I'm a 27 year old virgin, but will soon go out with a hot chick:) But if she doesn't want to do it I could wait forever :)
Virgins are the best lovers, cuz they know how to please themselfs:)
I was very VERY SHY! Lot's of girls wanted to go out with me, but I never really wanted to.
I'm a little less shy now for some reason, but I think being a virgin made me a better person, I respect woman, unlike most of the guys I see out there.
Peace! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/14/2005 12:35:48 AM | um......i am a 26 year old virgin. I am very shy and i think i am preceived as a snob or on the other hand un****able.
Hmm don't worry I think there's someone for everyone out, heck there's probably 10 000 chicks out there for you.
I know what you mean about people thinking your a snob. The best advice I could give you is don't give a crap what people think, be yourself, and try to be around people like when you are alone 'in other words' not shy.
What I do now is joke around, even people in my family notice that I'm not so shy anymore, and guess what they don't suddendly think that I'm wierd.
In fact I'm more happy now that I could be myself around people, but there are a few people I still can't be my self around.
But that's a whole other topic. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/14/2005 12:47:32 AM | I have a friend who is almost 25 and still a virgin. I have offered him escorts (fyi guys, they are called escorts, not hookers or dirty hookers like you put it) but he has declined. I have a profound respect for him for keeping his virginity. He treats ladies very well and is by far one of the best people I have ever met. Don't sweat it if you still are. I wish I could turn back time and take mine back. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/14/2005 1:02:30 AM | lol, I dont know about you, I dont wanna have sex with young boys, maybe an escort, oh wait, thats just a fancy way of saying hooker...thats like calling george bush our president | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/14/2005 1:12:51 AM | Guys that are virgins don't want escorts, the want a 'real girl friend.
If I had a Girl Friend I would feel like 'THE MAN' and I know all of my family would be talking about me on my back.
We want to feel special, sure I love my self, and know I'm a great person, but I do want a chick to know that too.
I want the problems that other people have, I want later night calls, I want to feel 'ALIVE'
It's sad cuz I know being with me would be good for them too, but they just don't know what they are missing.
Oh well
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/14/2005 1:43:00 AM | Back home in Asia its not to hard to find a 25 year old virgin... but once I meet them they tend not to stay virgins for to long for some reason.... | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 8/15/2005 1:21:45 AM | | I think somebody already said it but I gotta say it again...BUY A HOOKER, or at the least find a really ugly girl with low standards. | |
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