| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:20:08 PM | I consider myself to be a sensitive and affectionate man. I enjoy romance a great deal, cuddling, kissing, general affection, kissing of the neck, pecking, holding hands, whatever feels right. My question is don't a lot of women admire these characteristics of a guy? The sweet sensitive guy. I always hear women wishing their guys were more sensitive and affectionate, and showed their love in more that just words, and I feel that way too. I find that sensitive guys like me don't really get a lot of attention. I just want to find that special girl to share my heart with. I wish love wasn't so hard to find. :P I am really grateful that I am a sensitive person because it really allows for a much more passionate relationship when you can truly understand your lovers feelings, and also being able to express love with a motion of your body, or even a sweet tender kiss. It's bliss. :P
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:38:05 PM | Dont feel alone out there . im like you i believe in the deep dn true heart of a realtionship,i know there are women out there that like guys like us . however we know theres lots of fish in the sea and all kinds of personalitys out there too. i think its a matter of searching and coming across the women who do like guys like us . my search goes on ...  | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:45:54 PM | | I don't think I come off as pushover. I feel I come off as more as centered, like I know what I want in a relationship. If some woman see me as a pushover then maybe it's not the senstive side they want, I guess it's hard to say, really. I truly think I am expressing myself in the best way I know how. :P | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:51:01 PM | | Unless you are looking for multiple mates, or an endless supply of fresh women, the trick is to find what one woman likes, and as they are all different individuals, it will vary from one to the next. Playing to the audience of all women is a tiring performance. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:56:13 PM | | I dunno.....I like a balance. You are who you are and that's the best way to be in my opinion. In any relationship, there's gonna have to be compromise etc. I know for me, I would like to find a man like you described but there ARE those days where I just need to be left alone - lol......sometimes I feel smothered when I'm showered with too much affection. Not all women are like me tho....good luck hon and don't give up - | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/13/2005 11:56:21 PM | | Big Bunny, a tiring performance? I hardly believe so. People don't come to this site for nothing, and showing yourself and letting people know you do exist is what this site is about. Sure some people might think that posting a thread like this is tiresome but what about the people who find it interesting? you can't be afraid to voice yourself and let yourself be known to the whole, or else how to your really find someone? People get to know you by reading your posts, seeing what kind of person you are by the reactions you make and the sorts of threads you read mean a lot in my opinion. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:03:18 AM | | Big bunny, come on. Women that I like do exist on this site, look at the two last wonderful girls who posted in here. They value what I hold so dear. I don't understand why you are so negative about love. I know I am young but I am very strong willed person and I'll never give up on finding that special someone. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/14/2005 4:00:59 AM | Oh yes we do.....
[ sorry I know everyone hates those bananas - but it felt appropriate]
Look the thing is this, affectionate and sensitive people are not as outgoing as those who may not appreciate it. This means that like minded people like yourself probably arent out there advertising, due to their sensitivity levels, fear of rejection is greater. So they tend to hang back and even then when poeple are out and socialising you tend to put the deeper stuff away while you're out for fear of being labelled " intense" So you got a bit more hard work to delve into that to find people that have these deeper levels of appreciation. Everyone is different at different stages of their lives. SOmetimes you are deep and wanting love and connection all different levels with just one significant other - other times you just wanta parteeeeeee and be superficial...hang true and sooner or later you will connect with someone who wants the same as you. Its worth it in the end. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:06:15 PM | Heh, whiners? It just goes to show how such a thing can be misconstrued so easily. People aren't here to be judged and scourned by others, and although it happens maybe we need more respect for one another as humans trying to just find that significant other. I believe what you said, Cristine, was more than harsh. If every woman on this site believes that a person can't show themselves, their potential and let them be seen as the people they truly are, then what chance is there to get to know a person over the net? Instead we're labelled whiners and judged which is not fair.
I believe the forums are a great place to be seen, instead of messaging women to show yourself, maybe it's equally beneficial to allow them to see you and judge for themselves whether or not they should talk to you. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/14/2005 1:25:28 PM | | I think most women actually DO like a man who is affectionate as long as he doesn't go overboard. Sometimes there can be too much of a good thing and a person can begin to feel smothered or misconstrue your affection as needy or clingy behavior. Good luck, guys. I would rather have someone like you two than a man who thinks he has to be "macho" all the time and can't express himself. | |
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