| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:08:17 PM | Gee ..... I've been reading through some of the other threads here .... one in particular about something like "What romantic things has your partner done for you?". I couldn't BELIEVE the number of fellas that wrote in and said "NOTHING"! Or .... "I'd like to see something like that!". Gee ..... don't you girls out there know how to be romantic to/for a man, or do most women expect romance only "from" the other half? I always thought "romance" was a two way adventure. I know "I" get huge satisfaction from doing something sweet and romantic for my guy ..... what have your experiences been you men out there? And you gals too :)
Just curious .......
Sandy! | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:13:30 PM | I'm very romantic....... if you read that thread then you saw my post in there and how I got burnt...... you have to give in order to take... it goes both ways... I like doing small simple things for my man, cards, flower, notes, whatever... then the bigger things come into play.
Romance goes both ways... men and women should both learn it, the rewards are amazing | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:13:49 PM | Well I do love affection and romance on a high level. My last g/f couldn't understand affection or romance at all. So yeah we broke up because she couldn't offer what most people would need, love, or at least expressed love with more than words.
I also get great satisfaction from being romantic with my gal. The feeling, the essence of love, so pure, so overwhelming is all the reward needed. Just flow with the mood :P | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:19:12 PM | | Sandra... no not all women already to those things........ some guys may find the 'little tokens of affection' too mushy or a sign of possesiveness or moving too fast.. who knows ! lol we will never understand the opposite sex and their thoughts... I know I appreciate the small things and look forward to the bigger romantic gestures, it takes time and knowledge of your partners likes/dislikes to plan the perfect romantic night. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:19:41 PM | I don't think any women has been romantic to me.. i know i have done things like that for them.. but returned the fav? no.. i feel cheated!
oh one women wrote me a awesome poam and used all the titles from popular songs in it.. it was very nice.. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:20:15 PM | | A feminine lady is always a true romantic at heart ..... working it both ways (giving AND taking). Giving and creating romance for your someone special is much more fun tho :) It just seems that ladies expect to "get" it but don't know how to "give" some times. Must be a cultural thing....... | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:22:43 PM | yea... wassup now? ladys?
you know some one started a post and it said what was the most romantic thing someone has done for you.. and i drew blanks..
all i could think of was a surprise birthday party.. and once she called me and said come over i made your favorite dinner for you..
so i am thinking.. D*mn steak and baked potato.. when i got there it was chicken and rice??? it was good and I appreciated it.. but i never said that was my fav? and we had been dating for two years | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:25:19 PM | | Yeah so true. I guess a lot of truly honest and romantic guys on here feel cheated since not a lot of people truly understand us. Sandra is right because she is the type of gal who loves the romance and affection. :P | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:25:36 PM | I love to pamper my dates. I love to buy them things and surprise them. The problem is.. they get embarassed and they want control. They want to be romantic and they want you to do this and that but when you DO it they get upset. So I am confused. Money to be is water, I don't care. I'm willing to spend it to make someone happy. But they don't get happy, they get sort of jealous and angry. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:26:44 PM | | OK guys ..... come on .... blurt it out! What would you think a lady could do for you that you would deem "romantic". Us romantic gals need ta know :) I have a feeling whatever it is it would be VERY much what we would hope to receive! | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:29:16 PM | I'm really enjoying your forums! True, a lot of women don't romance there men, but a lot of this could because some guys aren't romantic themselves. It's kinda like a "Me Tarzan, You Jane", type of deal. If some of these men would go out of their way and make their lady feel like lady rather than some house maid, then that two way avenue may come true. I mean some guys just like to sit around watch T.V. and drink a case of beer. They're only intimate when the lights go off in the bedroom, and only last 2 minutes in the sack. It's hard to romance a cave-man. And as for those ladies who are pampered with romance, share the love. Show him a good time every once in awhile, add that spice, give him an exotic dance, walk around the house in a french maid outfit with no panties, initiate the love making outside on the beach, or in the park, make us feel like we are the most special man in your life, and we will be better men for you! SandraLee you are going to change our lives. Keep up the great forums! | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:30:55 PM | Eyes ....
I wasn't asking about just the "monetary" ways of romance, that seems too shallow for me. There are so many other ways to be romantic. It just takes a little caring and thoughtfulness ...... and listening to and reading your partner to discern his wants and needs. Money can't buy ya love But you guys are there still aren't tellin' us gals what YOU would consider a romantic gesture ....... any ideas to help us hopeless, feminine romantics out? | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:31:46 PM | Eyes ....
I wasn't asking about just the "monetary" ways of romance, that seems too shallow for me. There are so many other ways to be romantic. It just takes a little caring and thoughtfulness ...... and listening to and reading your partner to discern his wants and needs. Money can't buy ya love But you guys are there still aren't tellin' us gals what YOU would consider a romantic gesture ....... any ideas to help us hopeless, feminine romantics out? | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:32:08 PM | Eyes ....
I wasn't asking about just the "monetary" ways of romance, that seems too shallow for me. There are so many other ways to be romantic. It just takes a little caring and thoughtfulness ...... and listening to and reading your partner to discern his wants and needs. Money can't buy ya love But you guys are there still aren't tellin' us gals what YOU would consider a romantic gesture ....... any ideas to help us hopeless, feminine romantics out? | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:32:45 PM | I would think coming home with dinner, candles, and her really dressed up in a dress looking good with some thing special on underneath.. Soft music, and her waiting on me and me not allowed to talk until dinner is served..
d*mn that would be awesome and make me appreciate what I had so much more.. plus I could brag to the guys what a great women I have. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:32:51 PM | Eyes ....
I wasn't asking about just the "monetary" ways of romance, that seems too shallow for me. There are so many other ways to be romantic. It just takes a little caring and thoughtfulness ...... and listening to and reading your partner to discern his wants and needs. Money can't buy ya love But you guys are there still aren't tellin' us gals what YOU would consider a romantic gesture ....... any ideas to help us hopeless, feminine romantics out? There have got to be SOME ways we can show you we care ...... | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:33:22 PM | Eyes ....
I wasn't asking about just the "monetary" ways of romance, that seems too shallow for me. There are so many other ways to be romantic. It just takes a little caring and thoughtfulness ...... and listening to and reading your partner to discern his wants and needs. Money can't buy ya love But you guys are there still aren't tellin' us gals what YOU would consider a romantic gesture ....... any ideas to help us hopeless, feminine romantics out? There have got to be SOME ways we can show you we care ...... | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:35:33 PM | Eyes ....
I wasn't asking about just the "monetary" ways of romance, that seems too shallow for me. There are so many other ways to be romantic. It just takes a little caring and thoughtfulness ...... and listening to and reading your partner to discern his wants and needs. Money can't buy ya love But you guys are there still aren't tellin' us gals what YOU would consider a romantic gesture ....... any ideas to help us hopeless, feminine romantics out? There have got to be SOME ways we can show you guys that we care ......without confusing "romance" with "sex"...... (not that they don't often go together LOL) | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/14/2005 12:36:26 PM | | sandra I think any gesture or action could be considered "romantic" if it's done to make your partner feel special, appreciated and loved. It doesn't have to be the traditional cards and flowers, I was on a blind date from another site. I asked him to stop at a convenience store, I needed to pick up something. Well, got him a rose, I told the lady behind the counter, she made me a "deal" on the rest of them, I gave her one, she about fell over, I had a great amount of joy handing the rest of them out to just whoever, of course he got his and was surprised. It was just something spontaneous. I also like to do the online greetings, I went to a site called loving you and sent my man a romantic christmas card every day of December right up to the 24th. Sometimes I'll find out their favorite dish and make it for them everyone seems to like a home cooked meal. Sometimes a romantic gesture could just be telling them how much you really appreciate them and telling them one by one about all their good qualities, I don't think anyone gets tired of hearing that! | |
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