| OK< Tired of hearing the "only want sex" thinng...read on.
Posted: 8/14/2005 9:51:54 PM | HEy ladies,
OK< here is one for the books....again, I did something like this yesterday, and boy is my mail box OVERFLOWING!!! Yea right!
Straight up: Looking for a LTR and eventually a wife. Don't need sex on the first date but don't rule it out either. C'mon, I am not 16 years old....the "no kissie on the first date" thing is a little stupid at 38. It is not all I am after by a longshot.
But, I am banking on I will not find ONE good looking, decent, honest, trustworthy woman on here that will take me up on my offer. I LOVE being in a committed relationship. I LOVE having someone to hold and cuddle. I LOVE having someone to talk to and listen to them talk. I don't look for greener pastures when I am with someone either.
This bull I keep seeing of women saying :" I can't find a good man" or "All they want is sex" or "no one wants to commit" Is BULLCOOKIES!
I DO want sex, but I want it with a PARTNER/LOVER/FRIEND/Soulmate. Just like I want the rest too!!!. I want the whole package.
SO I dare ANY of you good looking women who can't seem to find the right guy to date to write to me. True, I won't be everones cup of tea, but at least TRY and get to know me...if you go by my looks, your losing out on a great man here!
OK< said my piece. Lets see how I am either flamed, or get the yea but.....speech.
I hope this is taken serious and I get responses.
Later!
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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 8/15/2005 6:37:49 AM | Ace
Very well put, my man. Maybe you can send some of those extra e-mails my way. I think the ladies see my pic and are too quick to judge me. If only they could look past the outside and see me for who I really am; wonderful, educated, witty, articulate, stable, mentally and physically fit............Ace, can you write an advertisement for me, I suck at this. | |
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Posted: 8/15/2005 7:43:30 AM | | Now wait a minute Ace, twice in your post you mentioined "good looking women" and in the same breath you say if women are judging you by your looks they're missing out on a good man. Seems to me you don't want to be judged on looks, but then you turn around and judge people on their looks. What happens if a women you don't consider good looking replys to your ad ? | |
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Posted: 8/15/2005 8:43:57 AM | Then she gets the same consideration as all the others do. Yes, bad choice of words on my part I guess.
While we all would LOVE to be what is classed as "The Beautiful People" in society, truth is about 90% are just average. Average is good. I consider myself average.
What makes that go up or down is personality. Weather or not anyone wants to admit it, a "Fox" or a "Stud" can be the lowest form of pond scum in the world, just by opening their mouth.
So...Let me re-classify. Any woman, who is not still married, got eight kids (only because I can't afford that and the kids will suffer) And has a decent personality.
Personally, If I didn't have to go through nine kinds of hell, I would have went to Russia to look along time ago....well, I DID go...but our immigration system makes it almost impossible...unless your Hispanic. Don't flame me over that either...it is 100% true. I was told that by the DOI when I tried to immigrate Katya here.....
So anyhow.....got a little off-track there.
Later!
Ace
PS...not a stragety......I see foxes crying "All they want is sex" Well, OK< I feel fo rthem...to a point. I have not had sex in over a year. No one cries for me.  | |
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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 9/14/2006 6:37:18 AM | | We are all entitled to our opinions...good and bad but leave out the "personal finger pointing" One of the biggest problems here in the forums are the personal attacks. That only gets the flame wars going and the threads deleted. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 6:41:48 AM | @ dork wow I guess you don't mince words?^^^
op now here this! don't let the lack of responses make you feel like it ALL has to do with your weight I'm fairly thin 5'7" 150 on the mark I have a great outgoing type personality they all want I can be funny which they say they want but ALAS here I sit with nuttin' I get shot down all of the time I dunno I guess in my case ugly must be the prob. but then I see all of these good looking men claiming they get shot down as well so the conclussion is very simple there are way more men than women on this site so I have it figured that about 10% of all men are having any luck mind you I'm speaking about the crem de la crem the hottes men period ..look average good luck! got a minor weight issue forget about it! not tall forget about it so you see it's not just you or the way you look it is that way for 90% of us think I'm wrong? stay on here a while you'll see not sure my #'s are correct but they are damned near close!
weary of all of this
the capn'
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Posted: 9/14/2006 7:06:49 AM | OK< a challenge on the weight thing....
Posted: 8/12/2005 3 40 PM
He posted almost the same type of thread right before this one. He blames women for only looking at physical looks but then does the same thing to women. WHY won't the thin beautiful ones date me? WHY WHY WHY??? And I told him why.
It's not about skinny women not liking overweight men. My preference is overweight to a degree but I don't want someone sloppy and who doesn't appear to be clean. Personal hygiene wins out more then anything. And if you're going to make a list like he did as to the type of woman he wants well then you better make sure you look damn good yourself. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 7:36:35 AM | I'm with dorkfully on this...
You can't label women as shallow for having particular standards, and then detail your own personal standards on a similarly superficial basis.
In reality, people are equally divided into three size groups, thin, medium and large. Conversley there are an equal number of people attracted to each of the three body types. If the one you want isn't attracted to your "group" then you're wasting your time because all the charm and wit in the universe isn't going to make you more physically appealing to them. There may come a time when they "settle" for you because of your other attributes, but wouldn't it be great if you allowed them to stay within all the boundries you know work for you? (Without the name calling of course.)
If you want a super model type and look like jabba-the-hut, you might eventually find one (although she may be 50 years your senior) ... but even then you had better be a very patient person, cuz even chubby chasers don't like whiners! | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 7:37:37 AM | gosh the way you guys sound ..its only leading to one thing .
sounds like you really do want it ...reverse psychology ..when ya say ya dont but really you do.
anyway ...in that case go renta porn.
sex on the 1st is really a downer.
in my opinion .
it sounds like if she looks good , then she is good in bed ...next thing ya know your gone cush she wasnt all that and a bag of oreo's .so this thread is wack.
and all the ladies just looking for that wont ever be happy .
so sure READ my profile if you wish.
you be the judge , and write if you wish .
i am going to say i am not all that and a bag of chips .
but i have a heart .
well thats all.
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Posted: 9/14/2006 8:43:11 AM | If you want to improve your chances of meeting women, you must project the image they would like to see. If it's in you, then use it. I am also a big guy, 6'1" and 260. But I get a lot of attention because my profile is laced with some humour, and I am not specific about what I am looking for. Nice to keep the options open. I also don't whine that they aren't all exactly what I am looking for, I just am happy to meet new people and get out the house. Your profile and subsequent posts indicate a guy with a chip on his shoulder who wants gorgeous women(physically) without having to be judged on the same parameters( physical). The pic lends itself to the image of at least appearing that you have long stringy hair with a cheesy porn stache. It is easy to guess that you play a lot of video games and have empty soda bottles stung throughout your room. This may or may not be true, but that's the image you are projecting. Maybe get some shots with friends, or at work, or even with family. Show yourself doing something you enjoy doing, and maybe they will see themselves doing some of the same things.
I can also guarantee that by ignoring the large or in your eyes unattractive women, you are the one missing out most of all. Give them a real shot to impress you. There's a story behind everyone and make it your job to get it out of them. Maybe you'll surprise yourself and actually give a damn about them and they'll return the favour. Sure can't hurt to try.
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Posted: 9/14/2006 8:55:44 AM | Great post, Off, and you're absolutely right!
OP-You have to accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative. This thread is your party and we're your guests. Don't be a downer and pick on the ladies, instead, put on a smile, throw the ladies some compliments, make friends with everyone..even those women you may not want to date. Ya never know, they might introduce you to the nicest girl you've ever met. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 9:33:11 AM | | Ace. You must be one in a million, or maybe we're just dinosaurs. Seems if you don't look just right, you don't matter around here. Or maybe I'm too old school. At any rate, I get this e-mail yesterday from this dude in the Houston area (I'm in the San Antonio area) and he pretty much said that if he's gonna drive ALL that way to meet me, he wants a guarantee of sex. No manners, no sophistication, no class. I suggested he hire a prostitute if he was that hard up. I'm new to this internet dating thing and I've definitely noticed a general lack of good sense, but then again, we don't have to be "nice" here because it's so impersonal and cold. I suggest that if someone only wants sex, to please say so. Those of us who want to find someone for a relationship say so too. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2006 9:43:12 AM | OP:
Would you honestly want to communicate with and possibly go on a date with someone who is there because you dared her?
Think about it. Your "PARTNER/LOVER/FRIEND/Soulmate" should want you for YOU and not be goaded into wanting you.
Sunshine & Hugs,
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Posted: 9/14/2006 10:41:05 AM | Everyone, no matter if you are "attracted @ first sight" or not, has to go through the
"total pkg. inspection" to determine if you are going to work out for long term....but 10's like 10's, 8's like 8's, 4's like 4's and so on. That's just the way it is... only on TV do you see 8's with 4's and it's the woman who is the "8". | |
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