| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/16/2005 9:47:49 PM | Hey gang i thought i would start this forum for ideas on question to ask someone to get to know them if that makes sense. I know there are the usual like What do you like to do in your spare time? or What do you look for in a partner? I am looking for hard questions brain stumpers. If you have one or some then post them here so others can use them if they like.
I thought i had a fish on but it was just a snag, Darn Rocks on the bottom!!! :)
Thanks Happy Fishing Cpt. | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/16/2005 11:16:05 PM | someone asked me this once....
why did the doctors let you live at birth?
or
Did it hurt getting beat with an ugly stick?
you should ask her....
If she still believes in santa?
If she has terrets?
or if she likes broken sperm stained computer chairs?
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/16/2005 11:40:19 PM | 
I usually ask a guy If you could describe yourself in 3 words, what would they be?
It seems to get people to think a little better about themselves - The added bonus is that if they give you an answer that's completely superficial, you know exactly what they expect, and it tends to give you an idea on if they're shallow or not...It seems to give the best impression from chatting about people.
Cheers
P.S.: There are always a lot of rocks at the bottom of any lake  | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:48:29 AM | Ask open ended questions:
How did you decide to live where you do?
What lifestyle would you like to have?
How do you feel about your career and current job?
Of what are you most proud in your life?
What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?
If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?
What do you do when you want to treat yourself well?
Do you like risks, or do you avoid them? What major risks have you taken in your life?
What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?
What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?
What are the most important aspects of your life?
If you met your partner through an online dating service, what would you tell your friends and family when they asked where you met?
On the other hand, if people ask for money, intensely personal questions or your hand in marriage (especially before meeting), I'd run! | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 9:27:15 AM | !.. any previous health concerns
2.. what is it that you really care about/can't live without?
3.. what do you mean by "I don't care what you do"
4.. can you define selective hearing? in one sentence!
5.. will your mother be the first one you ask for answers?
6.. Are you a God fearing individual?
7.. Is there something you are not telling me?
8. Can you cope with unexpected events yes or no.
9. would you not change me, break me or make me? yes or no
10.. Are you supportive to family and friends despite the consequences? | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 10:13:04 AM | 1. Have you ever thought about a world without clocks?
2. What is your favorite smell?
3. If there turns out to be sex later, will I be there? | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 10:33:26 AM | I like to ask questions that do not have definitive answers...... something that requires thinking about how you would handle a certain situation......or what they see as cause and effect, ie;
"We are in a restaurant having dinner........you lean over and whisper something in my ear that makes me smile.......what did you say?" | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 12:41:06 PM | this aint exactly questions ta ask..but i learn more by watchin how a feller treats his parents an siblings, his ex or his kids............
an how he treats ole ppl an animals.....an whether he fishes or not.........cuz fishin folk are usually folk who take tha time ta think things thru...remember thas tha kinda fellers Jesus hung out with in tha bible ................. | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:04:03 PM | What is your ambition in life?
That's actually a question of questions. I can then know her career goal, lifestyle, her view of the world and life, what is important to her, what made her the person she is, etc, etc, It is a fire starter and the conversation can last for hours. She will appreciate you ask that question. She will feel an adrenline shot and a strong bonding to you.  So take the time to know the lady. :) | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:38:47 PM | I like to ash.... If we were at your place watching a movie and you were sitting in you favorite chair where would I be sitting?
The answer shows proximity to where he wants you to be in his life. | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:58:39 PM | - Can you afford my lifestyle?
- How will you take care of me when you come home late from work?
- What are the favourite meals you like to cook?
- Do you have any letters of recommendation?
- So why do you want to marry me and why should I pick you?
- Can I trust your motives? | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 3:37:53 PM | | If you could only listen to one album for the rest of your life, what would it be and why? If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be? | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 4:32:13 PM | | I just ask them if the have any hobbies..people love to talk about themselfs if you press teh right button and get them to open up.. this is a good button.. if they say thay have no hobbies..RUN.. then that means your going to have to entertain them all through a realtionship.. | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 5:00:48 PM | Here's the million dollar questions:
What does your friends say about you? How would you describe yourself? WHat's your ideal work? What are the meanings of your life? How do you spend your spare time?
And don't forget to ask why, why, why after he/she gave the answers!!!!!!!! | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 5:01:54 PM |
- Can you afford my lifestyle?
- How will you take care of me when you come home late from work?
- What are the favourite meals you like to cook?
- Do you have any letters of recommendation?
- So why do you want to marry me and why should I pick you?
- Can I trust your motives?
Lol a fellow business person!! | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:47:55 PM | I'm a little on the chunky side.... I had a really drunk person come up to me in the local saloon, AKA meat market one time, and she said "Wow - You must have a really impressive di*k" I asked her why, and her reply was "Well, lookit the awning you built over it!"
I got the last laugh though - I saw her passed out in a corner about 20 minutes later.... | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 9:05:40 PM | | In episode 11 of Star trek what do you think writer Bar-David was trying to say about violence, madness, and corruptability of people? Do you think the introduction of the mind meld was a positive step in the evolution of the show or did it introduce a crutch for future writers to rely on every time they got stuck for a solution to a given problem? | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/17/2005 9:28:44 PM | 1. What are some moments in your life that you would consider to be character defining?
2. Tell me about your family. (The way a man treats his mother is the way he'll treat his wife. This is SO SO true. My ex0husband treats his mom like crap, and, well, guess why he's my ex?! LOL)
3. What are you the most curious about?
4. What keeps you awake at night?
5. What are the lessons that you've learn/ what have you learned about yourself/relationships from your past relationships?
6. If you had to choose, which could you live without: TV, the internet, a telephone or friends? | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/21/2005 7:50:18 PM |
In episode 11 of Star trek...
Too funny.
Your idea of a first date is hillarious too. Keep it up. I hope you posted your profile in the other thread about the worst profiles. Damn, there are some funny ones in there. Check out wattafind and peaceful_hermit. Holy crap, just read peaceful_hermit again. I am crying. Sorry, off topic... | |
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| Questions to ask to get to know someone.
Posted: 8/21/2005 8:52:28 PM | 1. If you were stuck on a deserted island, what three things would you want to bring with you? *Barring food, people, pets, or water? (Getting rid of the obvious choices right off the bat.
2. If you could find a way to go back in time and change the past, would you? If so, what would you change and why?
3. What is your favorite holiday and why?
4. If you could be any animal, what would you be and why?
5. What is one unique thing about you?
6. Do you prefer to live in the big city or a small town and why?
These are just a few of the 'getting to know you' type questions I use. It really helps tell you some things about who you're talking with, I think so anyway. | |
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