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 Rocky444

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Why do Women Cheat?
Posted: 8/18/2005 8:12:33 AM
In my 1st relationship. I was cheated on! It was ok for her to date other people, but I wasn't allowed, as I found out later!
Instead of discussing our relationship problems with me, she would discuss it with her exes or the other person she was dating.
I didn't find out till 3 months later that she was dating some one else at the same time she was dating me. She told me she wanted a committment with me. (Thats what you get for dating a social worker who does abuse and marriage counselling). She also constantly lied to her friends about what was going on between us.
I treated her with respect and romance and she treated me with disrespect and like dirt.
 Torkidon

Joined: 8/11/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2005 8:19:04 AM
shrugs not just women cheat men do it as well and mostly they do it because they want their cake and eat it to then get hungry for pie once in a while and break down to go get it. Juts out of curiousity she wouldnt be from lloydminster would she lol had a social worker out there who jerked me around lol
 POF123

Joined: 7/5/2005
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Why do Women Cheat?
Posted: 8/18/2005 8:20:42 AM
i thought guys cheat more than girls dont they?
if they cheat just move on.
why do they cheat

1 they r unhappy in the relationship
2 they want u and the new guy
3 they got bored with the old relationship
i can b here for hrs, there r billions of reasons why ppl cheat
 trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2005 8:23:57 AM
its ok for her to date others but not me.

where are your balls.
what kind of **** are you

I dont mean to be a prick but cmon

you have a spine
use it
 HottieScotty

Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 5
Why do Women Cheat?
Posted: 8/18/2005 8:32:09 AM
Because they can??

Ladies on the hunt......usually are always on the hunt..( with so many fish...it's hard to settle on one)
You meet a girl that's a bar regular....well.......that's what you get......A bar girl.
One must cherish and addor the ladies one's with ...
This still does not garentee that she will be faithful...
One must think more like the ladies....
Lots of friends( girls)......lots of options.....
Never throw away the little black book when you start dating a new girl...( or ever)
Girls GET calls from old lovers......( it's friends calling)
Guy have to remember to keep in touch with their old lovers....Don't ignore them...or cut them out of your life..
Don't throw all your eggs in one basket.
Best to have 2 cars.....incase one breaks down.
Always put some away for a rainy day.
Always have an excape route.

Lost of fish fella....
Freshen up the worm....and throw the hook back into a the pond
There is lots more where tht came from....
When the right one comes along......you'll know.
 knightflyer60

Joined: 5/31/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2005 8:47:54 AM
ah have experienced this, ah sucks and as u see on the talk shows and in life if a guy cheats he an ashole but if the woman cheats she was confused or he made her cheat buy not paying attetion to her .doubble standerd been talking with a lady she a soical worker . my luck
 nuttyrat

Joined: 2/22/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2005 11:42:39 AM
same reason why men cheat ... not getting the kind of sexual (and in the case of women, emotional) stimulation that they want to recieve ...
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 8/18/2005 12:31:32 PM
Rocky, what was your response to her comittment question?

Move on man, no time to hate.
 Diggy03

Joined: 4/7/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2005 12:42:57 PM
Ask yourself this.... if you have ever cheated or thought of cheating.. what are the reasons you would cheat? I would presume the same would apply for a woman cheating.

There are as many reasons for cheating as there are people on the earth. To pin point an exact reason that is so tangible you can prevent it is impossible as each person has their reasons (if they do that sort of thing) based on his or her experience.

Personally... I think it all begins with the breakdown or basic non-existence of communication between the two parties.

I have been the one who was cheated on and I still don't have any answers for why he did what he did.

In most cases it's easier to walk away knowing you are the better person. All the best to you in finding any answers you may be looking for.
 Rocky444

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2005 10:33:15 PM
As I said it was my 1st gf. who cheated on me not my 2nd. I haven't seem my 1st gf since 1993. So I guessed I have moved on. I put this up so that there would be an equal thread to why do men cheat.
To show that men aren't the only ones that cheat.
Even though I have never cheated and never would of thinking of doing so
I would never want to give the feeling of someone to someone who has been cheated on. All I know it makes you sick to your stomach and depressed.
Even when you had shoewd this person respect and love.
 Rocky444

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 8/19/2005 3:44:37 PM
My respomse to the committment question was yes and I would not date other people.
double cabin
 Rocky444

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 8:08:29 AM
POF123 why not just tell the person they want to move on instead of having 2 relationships.
But cheating means they also want time with you.
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