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 Tsurphr
Joined: 1/9/2005
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Since I've been back into the dating thing, I've endeavored to find a small, petit woman as a departure from the taller, full-figured women I typically date. Unfortunately, I haven't had much luck.

Which made me think, how come you don't see very many tiny gals with big men like me? I've seen really skinny guys with larger ladies, but you rarely see the opposite out in public.

Opinions? What size of a person are you and what size do you look for in a mate?
 Luvs-Mistress
Joined: 7/15/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 4:56:19 AM
Have you considered looking at the inner person in place of their packaging? Many beautiful peeps come in bith large and small bodies because their beauty is in their hearts and minds.
 Tsurphr
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Posted: 8/20/2005 5:05:57 AM
The inner person? Gee, why didn't I think of that...

I was asking for opinions on what people like in the size of a mate., not criticism for my personal taste in women. We all know that inner beauty is important, and I require this in a mate as well, but the outer beauty is just as important. I want someone that I'm attracted to physically, and you have no place to judge me for that.

I'm not Shallow Hal, I don't need a hypno-spell from Tony Robbins to make me appreciate inner beauty.
 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
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Posted: 8/20/2005 5:52:11 AM
I wouldn't call myself a BBW, but I'm not thin by any stretch of the imagination.
What I look for in a partner is wit, charm, warmth, and intelligence. If he makes me smile when I'm with him, and I find myself sexually attracted, the externals really don't matter much at all.....they're just part of him and come with the package.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Posted: 8/20/2005 6:36:31 AM

I'm not Shallow Hal, I don't need a hypno-spell from Tony Robbins to make me appreciate inner beauty.


What a way with words!

To answer the original question i would say that more guys like smaller women and so they are more in demand.
 HollyBerry
Joined: 7/8/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 6:47:48 AM
I think you answered your own question..

You stated that your personal preference is tiny women... so I would suggest (and i'm going out on a limb here...) that tiny women prefer guys that are not 'big'....
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 7:05:47 AM
I like a big man but by that I mean tall and toned!
I'm 4ft 9in but don't mail me cause I'm not tiny and don't plan to be
I'm a healthy weight for my height and stay in shape.
I expect my man to do the same.
 Webbum
Joined: 1/18/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 7:11:35 AM
I'm a big guy and mostly had girlfriends that were petite women!
 Blastkist
Joined: 5/28/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 7:47:42 AM
Will all the teenie tiny women please stand up! We've got some men here shopping on aisle 5!

 NorthernUriah
Joined: 2/19/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 8:39:39 AM
Size is not a big factor in my search. However the smallest woman I dated was 80lbs and 5 feet tall. she was a tad on the small size but she made up for her size in spunkiness. LOL
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 8:56:46 AM
I'm bigger than average, and by no intent of my own have dated many smaller women. I've never dated a woman taller than 5'5", or shorter than 5', but it just happens that these are the women I have an attraction, and who are attracted to me.

There is something extremely satisfying about hearing how I make them feel safe, or protected, but I would never turn down the opportunity with someone who is taller, thicker, etc. If they are desirable to me, I'm not going to fight my instincts to fit into some kind of cookie cutter set of expectations.
 syrayes
Joined: 2/28/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 10:28:20 AM
Well, most people think of me as tiny-5'3 87lbs and the last few guys I have dated have all been over 6 feet, slim to average build. Something about looking up into a guys eyes...
 oohlala21
Joined: 11/28/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 10:33:25 AM
Well isn't this interesting. Are you talking just height, or what? Because I see far more short girls with tall guys than I see tall girls with tall guys.

'Course, I'm a tall girl...
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 12/11/2008 10:46:33 AM
The OP was over 3 yrs ago... and checking his profile.. he's not what I'd consider big.

I'm short and fat... and typically I look for someone taller and yes, more fit than I am. I do understand the irony of it. I've dated guy skinny to heavy, short to tall. The outside is merely the wrapping. But you knew that already.
 Kirota
Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 10:48:52 AM
What is tiny................what is big? Seriously people why try to put a mold on it.........just find someone you are attracted to and them with you and go with it. I have had 3 long term serious relationships and none of them were the same type of man..........why limit yourself by putting them into groups?
 Caramelrider
Joined: 10/29/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 10:54:10 AM
Ha, ha, I just had this discussion with someone just the other day. My fantasy gir is tall, thin with small breast, a cup or smaller. I was told once that I was one step away from being gay because I like flat breasted women. I am not opposed to a few extra pounds but that’s just my fantasy girl.
 normaldude
Joined: 3/8/2006
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Posted: 12/11/2008 10:54:42 AM
petite women can be very important and desireable if youre riding a motorbike....good for gas mileage too!
 Wind Chimez
Joined: 11/21/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 11:04:24 AM
When you are in the horizontal position does it matter how tall someone is???
 junkyard dawg
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Posted: 12/11/2008 11:08:43 AM
I am 5ft3 and weigh 126 pounds. I go to the gym and am toned and curvy.I like medium height men, otherwise I am going around with a box, so I can kiss em.Height does not bother me, but not too tall for sensible reasons.Though my gran always said, its easy climb a fallen tree.
 floatman
Joined: 12/2/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 11:17:18 AM
I'm an average height guy. I like the women I go out with to be a bit on the shorter side - 5'6" or less. Its just a preference, like some women have for taller guys or shorter guys.

In the end it's about chemistry.
 bebe0421
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 12/11/2008 11:27:01 AM
Well...I think that it goes without saying...beauty is skin deep...But...good things come in small packages............
 odbwab
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Posted: 12/11/2008 11:29:09 AM
for me the taller they are the better.now of course being only 5'10" makes the tall ones just look and say no,they want the 6' and up guys.read thier profiles.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 12/11/2008 11:33:28 AM
the smaller gals usually go for the bigger guys -probibly to compensate for their short comings.
-similar to guys driving large trucks to compensate for their short...
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 12/11/2008 1:47:41 PM

When you are in the horizontal position does it matter how tall someone is???


Yup.. it can. I'm 5'4" and I was in an LTR with someone who was 6'4". While I'm long-waisted (short legs) it still wasn't enough to make certain positions easy for us. Missionary, I was staring at his chest. Me on top, couldn't lean down for a kiss easily without losing our connection. Doggy meant that my legs were nearly closed and he was nearly in the splits. So yeah.. it can make a difference.
 floatman
Joined: 12/2/2008
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Posted: 12/11/2008 1:51:51 PM

Yup.. it can. I'm 5'4" and I was in an LTR with someone who was 6'4". While I'm long-waisted (short legs) it still wasn't enough to make certain positions easy for us. Missionary, I was staring at his chest. Me on top, couldn't lean down for a kiss easily without losing our connection. Doggy meant that my legs were nearly closed and he was nearly in the splits. So yeah.. it can make a difference.


The image of this reminds me of someone I used to date. She was 4'11", 5' on a good day.

She and I would have to do some funny positions at times to make it all work out....and work in, of course. *boo* Bad pun. Anyway, we worked it all out, but it was funny at times. Oops, someone fell off the bed. That was me in my over excited state while trying to get her legs up on my shoulders not paying attention to the fact that I'd be slowly creeping closer to the edge of the bed. Heh.
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