| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 9:17:33 AM | Question for the ladies. (sorry guys, this is a sex question and us guys have a tendancy to exagarate)
So, not counting foreplay, how long does your guy usually last? | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 9:48:20 AM | Yes, it would be interesting to hear this one. From the time he puts it in til it is done. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 9:49:47 AM | | I thought we were talking lifespan, its a fact men die earlier than women, so its only fair they should not last as long lol. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 9:53:48 AM | I won't barge on this discussion....but am I just neurotic or is this normal? I usually go about 2 - 2.5 hours. I don't say that to 'brag' because I don't think it is.....time passes pretty quickly, but I think I get so caught up in making it enjoyable for her that I really don't think about my own 'needs'....ie ~ so caught up in not wanting to be a 'quickie' guy (that just would feel emasculating)...Especially during the first few sessions....
Just saying ~ I haven't had complaints - but when I think about it - it sounds neurotic. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 10:14:53 AM | Don't have one yet, that why I am here.
But as for past all differ depending on the time of day.
But I can tell you the longest was 6 hours, I was 44 he was 28
Wonder where he is now............................ | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:02:14 AM | So let me get this straight. You start intercourse at 9pm and f*&k til 11 - 11:30 pm straight til you cum. Or as the other guy says you go to bed at 6 pm and don't cum til midnite? 2 - 6 hours of intercourse not including forplay or anything you can pound like a rabbit for 2 - 6 hours not cumming. You know I am by no means a minute man but 30 minutes maybe 1 hr if we do it a second time but the majority of women I've been with where pretty fill up of love by then. This most nights does not include foreplay ( kissing , fondleing, oral etc, etc ) I find it very hard to believe that 2 1/2 to what 6 hours of intercourse 4 and 5 times a week is I don't know where I find it.... Let alone the foreplay and extra ...F*^*k hell I gotta go back to school if this is the case or start questioning more women cause if this is the norm then I've been lied to a lot | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:06:58 AM | in response to your question.....
What is the point of sex? Is it just to squeeze the last ounce of toothpaste out of the tube, or is it for sensual pleasure?
If you are of the former opinion, then you are nothing more than a piston - easily replaced by a $40 tool with batteries.
If you hold the latter, then you can 'sustain' indefinitely, especially if you have ever trained your abdominals / diaphram in contraction with your ejaculation....
I'm jus' sayin', here...I'm not even talking about "banging away 7 days a week" .....Making love is not a "job" where you punch the time clock, no more than eating fine cuisine can be sustained EVERY night of the week...it kind of takes away the point.
And usually, the time frame I'm talking about is like 2:30 am - 5 / 6 am....
Is that how long it takes for me to climax? No....you can slow it down and try to sustain it as long as you like...but again, like I said, I am neurotic like that. I am of the opinion that I would be "less-of-a-man" if I was under 30 minutes. But, again, this is based off of how I perceive sex - everyone is different. This held true when I was married and after when I was divorced...(not so much before I was married ~younger) | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:14:02 AM | Just my 2 cent worth - longest I have experienced was an hour and the shortest and this is no lie - it was like over as soon as he put it in. Oh boy that was fun...
I think for couples that are married and have sex every day it can shorten the length of time that one lasts - or at least that was my experience. It was to the point it took me longer to undress than it actually lasted, too many times like this.
Can I have a try at the extended version pleeeeease?????  | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:37:30 AM | All I am really trying to say I guess is....I believe the majority of women the ones I heard feed back from are that 3 or 4 times a week and if it last 1 - 2 hours with foreplay included they are very happy. Now you will get the ones that want a 3 - 4 hour session but, comon 3 - 4 hrs a night 5 - 7 days a week. Is in excess of norm. What I at least not trying to take away from the question that was put up by someone else ( Maybe I will create another thread) is for the average joe blow on the street. what is the average that intercourse lasts. From the time he puts it in til he cums, whether he waits for you or not. It would be nice though if females would respond more than , I hope he goes til I cum......sorry for the remark. But It would be nice to know if, from a girls point of view that hey most men I've been with foreplay 30 min sex 30 - 45min or whatever. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:39:19 AM | | trojen, I agree....but then, again, I thought I was "normal"....the duration would be interesting to know | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:41:48 AM | I know there are going to be variances in durations and yes there are the few times a year that an all evening sexathon occurs. But your average guy is what would be nice to know, if we ( I ) are in the average ball park. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:41:59 AM | ....I believe the majority of women the ones I heard feed back from are that 3 or 4 times a week and if it last 1 - 2 hours with foreplay included they are very happy. Now you will get the ones that want a 3 - 4 hour session but, comon 3 - 4 hrs a night 5 - 7 days a week. Is in excess of norm.
I wish it was like that...then I wouldn't worry about wasting my money on overpriced food at restaurants and such.
3-4 hours a day is fine with me. just displace some of the other junk you do. for me, for example, i don't need to be around male friends to eat burgers, drink beer or watch football.u can get that out of your life by early 20's.
BUT, if the guy likes it this much, even if it's the same as she likes it, the woman might still get psychologically screwed up and think all he wants is sex.
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 11:42:24 AM | | I love to get on here and see men lie!!!! Lets be real here!!! Don't be ashamed!!!! I think the longest I have seen a guy go for was 1 1/2 hours ..... please don't lie and act like you guys can do it for 3-6 hours because you can't | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:29:04 PM | | I think I'd get alot of looks if I was in the drug store with a shopping cart getting a month supply of KY. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:35:55 PM | | I know I'm a guy, but my wife was at a conference once for a sex apparell industry she used to be in and the coach, a women, said that studies show that 80% of men, after foreplay, last around 2 minutes. I was shocked to hear that, but glad I am in the top 20 percent. Once again, these figures came from a study done by a companay that sells sex toys and apparell. | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:38:19 PM | If the guy / gal doesn't turn you on....you'd always be 'raw' correct? If anyone doesn't believe ME....hey, I'd love to demonstrate for you  | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:40:24 PM |
If the guy / gal doesn't turn you on....you'd always be 'raw' correct?
Incorrect.
After 2-6 hours straight, my motor oil's run out and I want a smoke.
I like it in intervals.... | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:40:44 PM | | well i dunno how long "most guys" last, but i know out of the ones ive been with, it wasnt long enough....i rate maybe 2 or 3 as longer than 45 min. but shorter than 2 hours, well except 1, he was like the energizer bunny..but i did experience 1 guy who never even made it to having sex, just kissing... has that ever happened to any1? guys or girls.....should i start a thread with that one?....lol | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:52:02 PM | | I've lasted longer, but it include foreplay and showers, bubblebath etc. If we went all night, 9pm-6am probably 4 hours in total was intercourse (not consecutive), the rest was foreplay. Most guys would be sore if they did it for 2-3 hours straight with out cumming and without stopping. On a good night, I last an 45 minutes to an hour before cumming and according to stats, that's above average | |
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| How long do most guys last? Posted: 8/23/2005 12:55:52 PM | maybe your just one hell of a kisser betty.....
its a mental thing......if a guy wants to he can last a lot longer | |
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