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 Hill_Valley_Hick

Joined: 8/31/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 7:57:32 AM
Why is it that women say they want a guy who is nice, sensitive, gives compliments, and is kind but in reality they want a guy who is strong, masculine, doesnt care what others think, and is not needy. i know that women dont like needy pussdawgs but why cant most just admit that. why dont they just say i want my bf to act like a man who wont act like a total wimp.
 Doc Sage

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 2
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:01:58 AM
__Because they can. Get use to it. So just be "strong, masculine, doesn't care what others think and is not needy".

Doc
 trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:07:08 AM
heres an idea.

be strong be masculine be a damn prick.

wait till your liqoured up real good one night.

then cry. just once.
**** about whatever you want.

deny it ever taking place after.

she,ll be all yours.

just deny deny deny
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 4
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:16:06 AM
waa waa ****ing waa
 Deadmanwalkin

Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 5
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:17:48 AM
They tend to be like me, and forget what they said.
 Cokechick

Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 6
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 9:01:04 AM
i want my bf to act like a man who wont act like a total wimp.


Oh ya, and I don't want him to be a whiner either.
 racebaby75

Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 7
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 11:45:21 AM
Same could be said about the guys when they say looks don't matter, that they want someone who is honest to share their life with, someone who knows who she is and what she wants. With the majority of guys, not all guys, that's a crock. The majority want the submissive woman who won't give them any grief and looks like a barbie doll. Face it, with a majority of guys, the woman that stands up for herself is a threat because he won't have as much control as he wants.
Not all women are the way you describe, nor are all men the way i described. It's something that is always going to be confusing and there will probably be no one answer to this question.
 UlaLume

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 8
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 11:49:26 AM
What I'd be more interested to know is:

Why do the men here constantly start these monumentally repetitive and bull$shit threads?
 UlaLume

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 9
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 11:49:46 AM
OOps Dupe. please to ingore this one!
 Deadmanwalkin

Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 10
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 11:51:54 AM
Take a tougher approach. It will serve you better. Dont' give a damn what a woman wants, unless you really get to know her, and think she is worth the trouble. Same advice goes for women.
 Scream1969

Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 11
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 12:00:10 PM

Why is it that women say they want a guy who is nice, sensitive, gives compliments, and is kind but in reality they want a guy who is strong, masculine, doesnt care what others think, and is not needy.


You act like some of those traits are in contradiction to the others. I don't see why a guy can't be ALL of those things.
 Torkidon

Joined: 8/11/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 12:08:10 PM
lol why do women do the same thing :P because it feels good to vent once in a while
 racebaby75

Joined: 6/6/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 12:10:52 PM
Scream......

I agree with your post. I'd take a guy that fit all of those descriptions.
 imshtanblk

Joined: 9/4/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 12:47:21 PM
The bottom line is neither wemon or men no what they want. 9 times out of 10 the'll say one thing and mean another. Alot of time someine just does't want to hurt your feelings. It's not right but its the way it is. Alot of times there responding to fantasy not reality. The image that they have of a perfect mate is a fantasy of our minds not whats really in front of us. The bottom line is u have to take the good with the bad. Just ask any relationship counsolur. The biggest problem is you expexct more then your really going to get.

good Luck.
 Scream1969

Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 9/4/2005 12:59:47 PM

I agree with your post. I'd take a guy that fit all of those descriptions.


Well, I was speaking purely from the point of view that none of those traits are contradictory to any of the others, so technically it would be possible for a single guy to have all of them.

Your chances of finding a guy who actually has all of them is another story.
 racebaby75

Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 9/4/2005 1:03:15 PM
Scream--

Don't I know it. He's like the "dream guy". Don't really think he exists.

But, hey, if anyone knows him send him my way. LOL
 Hill_Valley_Hick

Joined: 8/31/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 3:54:03 PM
I always say what I want. I want a woman who is hot, not skinny or fat, big tits, nice body, good hygiene, smart, not a ****, and with a good sense of humour.
 trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 7:56:30 PM
if a guy vents he,s a ****

till he decides to vent on 4 guys with a baseball bat.

than he,s a psycho.

cmon ladies give us dudes a better choice. my bat is getting old
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 19
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:14:39 PM

Why is it that women say they want a guy who is nice, sensitive, gives compliments, and is kind but in reality they want a guy who is strong, masculine, doesnt care what others think, and is not needy.


So are you saying that there aren't any men who are nice , strong and masculine with some senstivity?

We all know that is not true

Or can we just say that some men do not understand what a woman really wants?
 Hill_Valley_Hick

Joined: 8/31/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:16:20 PM
no they are exact opposites. if a man is sensitive that means that he is a pussdawg.
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 21
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/4/2005 8:19:05 PM
And what neck of the woods did you grow up in? lol

I am sorry, i totally disagree
 Hill_Valley_Hick

Joined: 8/31/2005
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Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/5/2005 10:19:25 AM
I grew up in Northern California and it is true that women dont like sensitive guys. Seceretly bambi you want a strong masculine guy who doesnt give a rats ass what anyone thinks but say to everyone that you want a nice, sweet, sensitive guy. Why cant you and 90 percent of all women just tell the truth that way guys can stop acting nice thinking it will get them laid.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 23
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/5/2005 12:41:06 PM
A 19 y/o man knows what all women secretly want? Are you kidding me? Spend a few more years living and drop this preconcieved and totally inaccurate idea that you know women, okay?
 sleepless_in_Newmarket

Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 24
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/5/2005 12:59:46 PM
I can't believe Michael J Fox is on this site. I thought he was happily married? Michael, what happened?!
 regularcw

Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 25
Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 9/5/2005 1:08:52 PM
I think Michael J. Fox was 19, 19 years ago as well.

Back on topic....It's true though. Being a bastard works much better. I hate being that way, but It's the only way that works. Women want nice guys for friends, not for boinking. It's primal instinct for mating and producing strong offspring. I think we fool ourselves with this intellectual justification.
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