| | What's up with Montreal men?Page 1 of 6 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) | | ok i have to say mtl men on here suck or is it i havent found a good one yet...not everyone is on here looking to get some...are there any serious stable mtl males out there looking for something serious not just half assed | |
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safir
| | Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 3 | |
| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/6/2005 5:39:06 PM | Hi Monk(ey) [it sounds like you are living the monastic life like me;)]
I actually came on here to find out about Montreal events and somehow was directed to your post. This is my rule of thumb for everything: 90% bad, 10% good. Therefore, 90% of men online, especially in this city, just want to get laid and 10% are looking for something more. Montreal is all about getting laid, unfortunately. I'd love to put everyone, males and females included, on some libido-lowering drug and then see what happens - you'd probably get the opposite situation.
Men may claim the women are as bad but they usually complain about us playing mindgames. I surveyed the intimite encounters section on Lavalife and noticed that most of the men were looking for women to perform specific sexual acts or basically be their whores, whereas most of the women wanted something much tamer. It seems that for men, the need to sleep around is more physical while women do it for more emotional reasons, hence our mindgames. Of course, there are exceptions. It can also depend on one's mood. Don't give up hope.
My advice is, if you want something serious, not only specify it in your profile essay, but also do not post any revealing photos of yourself, because that will give guys the wrong idea. If someone doesn't take your profile seriously, use a good comeback line or simply ignore them.
Good luck!
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/7/2005 5:34:18 PM | Hi. First of all I just want to point out that I'm not actually from Montréal. Heh... if that counts for anything.
Well, for me anyway... I'm not really specifically looking for anything in particular. I just want to meet some people in Montréal and I figure because I am shy I would try this site and perhaps feel a little more like I can talk easier... but even on here its like... I am not sure exactly if this is true... but it's like I am not given a chance. I send someone a message and say Hi, my name is... and I'm da da da... just friendly basic substance stuff. But I haven't gotten really much of a reply factor.
Though, now after reading this I am wondering if my approach is being mistaken for someone looking for just sex or something? Or maybe it's my profile? If there is anyone with suggestions it would be apprichiated.
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/7/2005 6:28:26 PM | Dude, ur not alone. I've extended the olive branch more times than I care to admit and have only gotted a limited reply. Maybe it's just me, but MTL girls seem less than friendly on this site. I mean a simple hello back wouldn't kill anyone. I'm nice enough to reply to folks from other continents for god's sake...
Oh well...
Good people are hard to find. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/7/2005 6:53:05 PM | I think maybe it's because apparently, females get so many messages. I guess it comes down to... how do people who are... well... at least decent, show that they are thusly? I mean, you can't well say that you are...
ah well... le jeu continuera. | |
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safir
| | Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 7 | |
| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/7/2005 7:20:02 PM | | Sergei, I've seen your profile and if I remember corretly, you were divorced with kids. Now your profile says single and no kids. I love Russians but not divorced daddies. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/8/2005 11:32:46 AM | | We are here but you have to sort thru the bullshit to get to us. Dont giveup because i am still believeing there are a few good woman here | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/8/2005 4:43:39 PM | | It would be nice to see more Montreal guys who post in the forums...I find it's a good way for women to get to know them a little before an actual meeting...D. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/8/2005 4:57:21 PM | I think you haven't found the right guy yet.
I'm one of the serious guys on here and let me tell you... there are alot of women players, more then men.
Seem like the good guys always finish last. (I wonder why that is?) You might meet alot of "bad boys" but isn't it worth the trouble to find the right one. life is an adventure.... just go with the flow... you never know who's hiding around the next screen. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/8/2005 8:41:35 PM | Nice guys finish last? Probley because they hold the door for everyone else. Yeah, I thought about that one for a long time :p.
But yeah, I think you are quite right. Just keep going for it and whatnot... the thing is though, I am just trying to meet people in montreal now so that i feel more comfortable in the city.
Though I guess this hasn't been the right place to start. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/9/2005 7:00:04 PM | Umm...no. I've never been married and I've never had any children nor do I really care to have any. Divorced Daddy? wow...I've been called many things in my 30 years on this green planet, but never a divorced daddy...wow.
Umm...I'm at a loss for words here. Wow. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/10/2005 12:20:23 PM | wow arent we stright tothe point listen dont let others ruin the good name of the male there are nice guys out there that want something serious just open your eyes.
i dont mean to be rude, i am just saying stop looking for that hot guy and look fo rthat simple guy. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/17/2005 9:24:55 AM | | I think the thing is not to lose hope. The way I see it, there are players on both sides of the sexual divide, but not everybody is like that. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 9/26/2005 7:44:00 PM | | and who are you 2fast to tell me what i am looking for? i know what i am looking for in a person...and if im not mistaken it is written on my profile what i look for in a guy and nowhere on there does it give the perfect personal description of the guy i want to meet...i would like to find a guy with a good personality and if hes hot whoo hoo! your too quick to judge! | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/7/2005 10:15:13 PM | | Girls love players. If they see a guy that's not a player they think he's a loser and reject him. Then they get pissed that the player they chose just wanted sex and wanted to dump her soon after. Girls, if a guy is hesistant to approach you and seems shy it's because he takes relationships seriously. If a guy approaches you, wows you right away and seems so natural and perfect it's because he had so much practice doing so. | |
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Zar9
| | Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 20 | |
| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/11/2005 8:00:03 AM | Guy22 you could not have hit that nail any harder on the head if you had a sledghammer.. So what is a non-player supposed to do. ?? The same goes for guys... We're a horny bunch so keep going after the hottie only to find she's sleeping with someone else 2 weeks down the line..
it's getting lonely out here... | |
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frebee
| | Joined: 10/11/2005
Msg: 21 | |
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frebee
| | Joined: 10/11/2005
Msg: 22 | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/15/2005 11:10:50 AM | I believe this site is made up of the younger generation. not to many older gentlemen ,and the ones here,certainly don't send out e-mails or answer the ones sent!! | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/16/2005 1:00:51 PM | | Did you check if your email was marked read? Any guy who doesn't at least acknowledge receiving the email and sending a thank-you probably wouldn't be worth meeting anyway. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/18/2005 3:32:18 AM | | i think its hard to judge Montreal men without judging Montreal women as well. This whole city seems to be about getting laid and mind games. You'll find that there are a good number of decent men looking for decent women, and probably vice versa. The problem is finding them. | |
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