| | What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???Page 1 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | | A friend of mine got caught by his fiancee making out to another girl. They broke up, and after two months of dating other people, they are now together again. I told him that was the most stupid thing he could do because she will never trust him again. They never look happy together though, i am still trying to figure out why they are back together again though, maybe its true love, or true stupidity. But my question is what will you do if you caught your fiancee with some one else? | |
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erik01
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lsmith
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| What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???
Posted: 11/29/2004 12:44:36 PM | leave immediately !!! Do not pass go.. do not collect $200.oo (and who said childrens games weren't educational!)  Just leave. Seriously.. don't bother getting to an 'amicable' stage for the departure.. where you can politely seperate what belongs to 'who' and so-forth. Make their head spin d*mnit! Let them rot and chew on it. It's the best way to preserve yourself is by being strong now; and the nice side effect - is they get to pay a little by not being able to contact you  | |
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lsmith
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lsmith
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| What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???
Posted: 11/29/2004 4:20:47 PM | | God, I dunno,,I LOVE cheating so much! If I found out my lover was cheating on me, then I'd have an excuse to cheat back,,ahahaha. It works both ways, bro. Enjoy the lust, and play the field when you get that kind of chance. At least ya found out, and can go your merry way and find another babe. Hell, don't waste your time on vengeance, when you have just been given a ticket to another game. Tell your friend that, and make his day! | |
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| What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???
Posted: 5/17/2005 3:59:32 PM | Been there. Done that.
It's kind of hard to "shoot the b*tch" when you have a family and are still in love with her. But all in all she is gone from my life and I get my daughter every other weekend.
It's a sh*tty situation to be in and one that I would NEVER wish on anyone especially if they still love their other half. | |
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| What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???
Posted: 5/17/2005 4:01:16 PM | Over.......done.......vamoose.....not worth it. I have been in a similar situation. I found love letters written by my wife to another man. She was headed down the road to a very sorry life bright and early the next morning. When the trust is gone, there is NOTHING left.
Out of caring for my daughter and maybe a little bit of revenge I took away custody 3 1/2 years later (daughter was 5) and that was 8 years ago. Guess what? She ended up with an abusive husband, been in and out of jobs like most of us change underwear and basically her life just sucks! Best of all she gets to remember what she did every time she comes to pick up our daughter for the weekend. Guess she got what she deserves!! | |
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| What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???
Posted: 5/17/2005 4:43:33 PM | I've been down this road before but for me it was different. I caught her in bed with a woman so my mind was thinking differently. What I did was ask them if a threesome was in the plans and it was all great.
I think that lasted about three weeks and then it turned into a jealousy thing and then it ended. | |
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moist
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| What would you do if you caught the person you're engaged to with someone else???
Posted: 5/17/2005 4:50:44 PM | I think if it were early on in the relationship, I could probably find it in my heart to forgive the person. After all, if we were just starting out, we probably wouldn't have as tight a bond as we would at a later point.
If, on the other hand, I knew the person well enough to be engaged to them ... chances are I would never trust that person again, so there wouldn't be much point in continuing the relationship. Although I know from what I hear that cheating is rarely about the cheating itself, I think I would still wonder why I wasn't good enough for that person, and that's not healthy. | |
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moist
| | Joined: 5/12/2005
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