| HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/17/2004 6:59:22 PM | | WELL, ME AND MY EX WIFE WERE MAQRRIED FOR 5YRS. WITH NO PROBLEMS AT ALL, ONE DAY WE BOTH DECIDED TO GET A DIVORCE. (WHAT SIGNS TELL YOU ITS DONE?) | |
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rjn40
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Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 4 | |
| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/17/2004 11:34:37 PM | | spur of the moment divorce..hmmmm... do you really think you can get over this person....you married her and at one time you must have been close. work it out man, if there is something wrong you need talk about it. Divorce works great when everything is lost, but your relationship just seems too fresh.. work it out.....talk to each other.... and most of all, LISTEN TO WHAT SHE OR HE HAS TO SAY | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/19/2004 9:20:46 PM | | you can't be married to someone for 5 years and still not have any feelings for them...even if it's total hatred....it's still a feeling... | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 7 | |
| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/19/2004 11:24:06 PM | Just like that woke up scratched the butt and said Hey Hun, lets divorce she said, hey what a great idea ?
Come on whats the story, there are lots of signs, some just tend to ignore them, and when you loose touch of the sweet feelings, then its usually a BIG sign its over. | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 5:28:49 AM | | i know its over when i no longer feel any thing when i kiss them and when i don't feel like i can talk to him any more | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 11 | |
| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 4:09:45 PM | oh my lord...
i knew it once my ex started sleeping o nthe couch. He said its the bed its too uncomfortable. ( its really nice bs!)
every night with his blanket pillow a movie and himself. It went on for 4 months or so....i went downstairs to get him all the time.... NOPE!! was his answer...couch sex evrything...but no going back to the bedroom. | |
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Zee
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Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 12 | |
| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 5:04:22 PM | | alura hit it on the nail - when you dread going home - boy that brought back nasty memories, I would always go home with a bad attitude. Never said hello - no conversation unless he spoke first - I hated going home. | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 5:21:34 PM |
Get Real.There have been more to it than just we grew apart. What happen, you two find out that you had nothing in common other than sex? If what you say is true then you two should have never been married in the first place. | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 8:47:37 PM | yup you can really tell the ones that have been married or not...
my 1 cent,
it's over when u can't stand the sight, sound, breath, touch, or smell of them anymore....
and if you throw up after sex that's a good sign too - oh gosh unless it's the other dreaded sign - YIKES!! | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 10:53:24 PM | | you know it when there are no feelings left in that relationship...either love or hate, doesn't matter, both feelings are just as equally powerful and can hold you down in that relationship regardless of the situation. There has to be no feelings at all, just emptyness. | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/21/2004 10:57:18 PM | | sometimes "hate" is like hanging onto threads...your last sence of hope, yet in denial and still holding onto a delusion | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/23/2004 3:48:12 PM | | Heh heh. Good one Aquamom! Carry a fork at all times. Failing that, a sharp pointy stick. It'll test a relationship. | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/23/2004 3:59:21 PM | guess since i always say it's not done till i say then it would have to be...
poke me in the a$$ with a fork cuz i'm done... and careful with those sharp pointy objects they can give you splinters....
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/29/2004 5:41:59 AM | | another way i knew it was over was when he never came back. he left one day and never came back so i knew it was over | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 6/30/2004 1:08:36 AM | | I have not been married..but have had a few long term partners!...Sorry Weatherford678 a little more info might have given you better answers..(if this question really matters to you) all I can think of is when I read this Thread was Britney's 1st marriage! no offence!.. I new it was over with mine..when we got to a point when we just had nothing in common any more ... Cheers Tiff | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 9/28/2004 9:48:08 PM | | i think it is messed up when a married couple will spend thousands on a divorce without spending some time in counceling. no relationship is ever perfect, they all need work from time to time. | |
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| Re: HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT'S DONE?
Posted: 9/29/2004 8:31:07 AM | heheh Just had a chuckle at some of the replies.. "annoying roommate" " stick a fork in it" etc.. Love em!! HaHaHa
I have to agree with that last post too, sometimes ppl are so quick to exit. Some people live in delusion, when things dont match their silly expectations they make a hasty retreat.They think everything should be like in the movies, happy ever after, kisses under moonlight, butterflies every second of the day. Wake up! Reality kicks in, you have bills, kids, jobs, frustrations, its how you deal with those things and with eachother that really counts.Some people are like oil and water, they will never mix well. I say though if you are compatible, love eachother and can communicate, go to councelling before you run to the lawyer. Otherwise to your surprise you might just repeat the came cycle over and over again, wondering why marriage doesnt seem to work out.
If you have exhausted all options and you both cant find a happy place within eachother, then yes move on. I believe though, where there is a will there is a way. Fight before you take flight!
Cheers :) | |
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