| Interacial relationships [Locked - Under Review]
Posted: 11/30/2004 4:53:47 AM | Hello people i am new to the site but i have one question, its about interacial relationships, and if there is a problem with them in this day and age and if there is a problem define the problem and why is it a problem.
The reason iam asking this is because i have looked at alot of profiles of women and all seem to want a one good man, but i would like to know does color matter. I mean if you are alone and searching for someone should color matter or should the content of the soul and character should matter most just a thought let me know. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 4:57:29 AM | | colour shouldnt matter ,......they r the same as us in every way except the colour of their skin xxxxxxxxxxx | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 7:17:35 AM | | Normally I don't make problem on human's 'colour' until I see HULK (too green). | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 11:54:48 AM | hi blackprince,
i am also new on this site and i just wanna say that i think that there is nothing worng with Interacial relationships it shouldnt matter the colour of there skin it about the heart if a guy has good heart and treats u well or girl then that all that matters but lot of people dont agree some people think that people form different countries should stick to there own realgion. i dont agree. so i think there nothing worng with it. but that my opipion. bye blue_eyes form N.ireland  | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 11:56:56 AM | I have no problem with interracial relationships. There are social barriers to such things, such as customs and lifestyles, but I do believe that whenever two more people cross the color line it actually brings us closer together...
When it works, it's a good thing. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 2:43:32 PM | | I have had 3 interracial relationships, one with an Asian, one with a hispanic and one with a black woman. To me, color does not matter. What we must learn to accept is that it does to some narrow-minded people. If you can deal with the occasional staring and comments, then go for it. If you are thin-skinned and prone to let the staring and comments bother you, it may be best not to. We must also remember that every race has its own culture. To have a successful relationship with a member of another race, we must be open to that culture and willing to accept it. In this world, interracial relationships are rarely easy, but any relationship is worth the trouble if true love is at the core. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 2:52:08 PM | | Honestly the color of ones skin should not matter. For me personally it does not...it's what the person is made up of on the inside that really counts. Sadly enough though even in this day and age there are people that think it is a big taboo. I have family members that think it is wrong for there to be mixing between the races but who is to say that it is wrong or right, surely not them!! One should do what makes them happy. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2004 3:04:00 PM | my friend if i took you to brazil and you saw the beauty of people in my country
you would never have that problem again (color is a word)humanity is precious and you should never have to worry because there is always someone for someone
but always be wise and feel like your accepted why have your feeling hurt when there are bad people and i know you know what i mean as far as beauty is everywhere all over the world ... i hope that helped a lil | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 5:03:25 AM | to all who chose to answere my post thank you, i dont have a problem with interacial relationships, i have 2 wonderful bi-racial children and i would not trade them for all the full black children in the world.
yes it is said that we still in this day and time in our societies developement that color does matter.
here is a thought if you have the time go online and look at societies before the discovery of the Americas and look at the descriptions of people in the middle east and meditranian even in northern euroupe you will be shocked at the descriptions of everyday people in that time. i was.
so with that i will have to assume that discovery of America change the world in a very devastating way.
so in closing evryone please think about that.
i love my country but it has to deal with some very ugly social issues and start healing the world
thanks. sorry the statement is so choppy. and if anyone wants to chat with me online i can be found on yahoo under antuan_gordon2001 | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 9:28:26 AM | | well i wouldn't date outside of my race but thats my choice i don't care if others do. i was raised up and still live in a "white bred" hick town where ther wes only one black person out of like 5000 people so call me racist but i wasn't raised around it so what its my choice. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 10:01:37 AM | | Its not the race that matters, its the culture!! Its not good to mix people from different cultures, its the same with religon, its not that one is bad and one is good, its just not a good idea!!! | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 10:13:06 AM | | i don"t see a problem with it, same as religion, if your in love with someone i believe nothing should stand in the way in this day and age, i was to marry someone years ago, and we didn"t because of religion, i wouldn"t change to her faith, and her church told her i would make her stop going, which was wrong i had told her many times, it didn"t bother me in the least, which faith she was, that i just loved her, i think nothing should stand in the way of love, sorry a bit off topic, but in the same guide lines | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 10:16:39 AM | | yeah, u and ur partner might not have a problem, but lets look at the kid whos parents go to different churches and believe different things. This child will become confused with religon and might get turn off of god all together. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 11:45:55 AM | let me make a little point im not
sure if people would take me serious
human kind has been around not just 300yrs
but for than 2,500,000 or less jesus at 2000 years
yet human still continue to argue about color religion sex
and many thing such as the way you look
if you are missing a body part or blind paralized, age weight
all the thing that should not be important
why do we say one thing to offend someone else to get your
kicks to to get your euphoria see the doors in front of you
think if you were that other race sex religion or if you were
blind or couldnt hear or walk or speak
yet humans will never learn to just be human
animals dont care why should we...........[just be human]
correct me if im wrong about the beginning of humans
im probably way off !!!!lol but another point how could
we venture to other worlds if we cant live in our own | |
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Posted: 12/1/2004 12:24:16 PM | | i see your point but we talked about kids, i didn"t mind how she wanted to raise them or what religion they where going to be, i left that up to her, it was her church that went behind my back, to her work to talk to her, to tell her i was just saying that , and as soon as we married i would stop her from going to her church | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 8:01:31 AM | | Not good for me. Interacial relationships dont even last that long. Lets face it people, if we are all the same, GOD would'nt make us of different. I date women within my race. Not that i hate other women outside my race. it's my preference. We are ALL different, Im sick of people saying we're not. All races are different, some races have higher standards than others. Im hispanic, i ve dated white women, black, didnt do nada for me. too many differences. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 8:08:14 AM | | I have to agree that the main difference to worry about is cultural and in some circumstances religious. Color is just that. Color. Cultur, well now, that's the food you eat, the way you discipline your children, the holidays you follow, the kind of life you live, even the way you talk. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 10:33:45 AM | latn: I hate to say it, but "latin" isn't a race...
IN fact, people have been on the planet intermixing for about a million years.
Do you know that anthropologists and geologists have theorized that we ALL came from AFRICA?????
If you want to get down to the raw information....unbiased and unskewed, you have to look at what's there scientifically and make room for that in your philosphy...or else it's just plain irrational.
Let's break "Latino" down....
Spain: Northern Europeans.... "Huns" that is, mixed with Gauls... another word for "celtic" which is what Irish are... and also don't forget the black Africans who invaded during the times of "El Cid" and after...
Mexican and South American: Native Americans, probably migrated across the south pacific or over the alaskan ice from Asia, mixed with Spaniards...
Point is that these "ethnicities" like Ireland and Spain and Mexico and so forth have only been around a few hundred years...while our ancestors have been around MILLIONS of years....
Defining oneself in such a way might serve a practical purpose: to defend oneself from social exclusion and have others to be in community with...human survival or something...but the fact is: We're mixed up already! | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 1:54:19 PM |
latn: I hate to say it, but "latin" isn't a race...
I agree with that...race is a more or less biological term (some may disagree) and Latin is a language, not a race. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 1:58:39 PM | Hi Blackprince-----------
Yes I want a good guy. The colour of his skin does not matter. I was told in a science class how people got their skin colour. Its the person that counts.
Sueuk | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 2:00:08 PM | | But back on the topic, I am actually in an interracial relationship. Never really had problems with it, but then again I know that some couples do face issues. I figure, being with a person of a different color, culture, nationality...etc may have its downs, but the rewards can be greater. For example, mixed children can be more healthy and have less genetic problems. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2004 2:04:08 PM | Hi Airborne--------
I was brought up knowing that 3 religions exsisted in the family---------i was told it was up to me which one to follow----------i did get confused.
Sueuk | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 8:09:00 AM | | The problem is as follows. When You mix you genes you produce a child that is of 2 races obviously. Humans are not 1 race we are a SPECIES with MANY races..people sometimes forget this. Race and species is all around us in dogs fish cats..you name it there is alot to learn. Take a dog for example..Im not comparing the Animal to us just the way they are seperate like us in our Species, Dogs are a species and the race is the differnt type of dog like you have a german shepard and then you have a rotwiler...Different race differnt dog SAME species...what happens when they mix? Well you get a german rotwiler...thing is it lost its purity ..dogs have no intelligence they donot think of the long term effects to there off spring because they simply wanted to pass its genes on. So now that pure bread line has now shed half of its genes to a differnt race of dog taking away alot of the pure bread features and skills that that dog usually may have had. Im saying this for both races of dogs...sure you can say the best dog I ever had was a mutt yet...its very much deeper then that when it comes to humans. Disease between blacks and whits is some what differnt, Then DNA between blacks and whites is on the tottal opposite spectrum from any other race, so blacks who mix out to whites are losing lots of the things that make them unique as do the whites. Disease also will be playing a role for those who decide to mix there children...bone marrow if needed is race specific...If a mixed breed kid is mixed with 3 differnt races they have to have an exact match to get the transplant, another thing is that many races have either a RACE specific disease OR a greater chance at aquiring certain Diseases...so when you mix you not only smoke the genes that took thousands of years for you to aquire but you also put your offspring in jeopardy bny giving them 2 races and twice the chance to be easily targeted by a disease thay could be very harmful. So for you who say Color dont matter you are the people who through your heritage and morals out the door, nature has a way of dealing with you and its all genetics...we are all differnt for a reason and thats special all the people of the world are UNIQUE for a reason...when you mix out your race you take away that ...this gos for all races dont mix theres some one of your kind as beautiful and caring if you only look :). | |
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Posted: 2/7/2005 8:35:53 AM | Prince, Interracial Relationships are fine.
But there still is racism in this world and if
you'd meet a lady 30+. You might experience a pre-50s
dad. It's uncomfortable for white with black son in laws.
I alerted my father before I started dating that he would see
white girls. It peeved him a little. But he's foriegn so he
accepted it better. It depends on location and family history.
Being part Jew part black I'm a product of
it and it makes the child question his/her racial
identity at an older age. | |
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