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 monkeyfish1

Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 1
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 8:58:49 AM
Always interested to know!

So you are going out with this lovely girl! Then she tells you how many men shes slept with before!

At what number do you think 'whoa thats a lot?', or does it matter?!
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 2
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 9:02:52 AM
I can handle about 4 at one time. any more than that and my life goes into chaos
 brawnydog

Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 3
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 9:06:25 AM
I only do virgins.

...make that virginians
 ~Dangerous Liaison~

Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 4
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 9:07:47 AM
ive been with 6 but i dont think that matters to guys too much. if my number was double digits then we might have an issue
 monkeyfish1

Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 5
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 9:17:20 AM
i think it does matter though - my girlfriend said 8 and i thought that was a lot! doesnt make me do anything different with her but always at the back of my head that shes been with so many!
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 6
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 9:18:33 AM
Well, OK, I will answer seriously.

It matters to SOME. Not as much to the older more mature women.
 the_brat

Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 7
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 9:42:43 AM
6....8.... ~*giggle*~
 CountrySugar

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 8
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 10:18:46 AM
double digits would be bad?? *hushing*



P.S. that is a joke just incase anyone is wonderin..or maybe not *wink*
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 9
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 10:22:21 AM
Sheesh, you would think they would want us to be experienced
 unspoiled

Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 10
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 10:24:19 AM
if one is 80 years old, you'd give a little slack for that?

why not we convert this to average number per time period, such as total sexual partners divided by total years active?

Since I had a couple times a gal who lasted more than a year, and many times not active for extended periods of time:

#lays/year for me is 1.0

We should still subtract total years for those sexual partners that exceed 1 year:

If having a 3 yr and a 5 yr relationship, subtract 2 and 4 years from total years active, so for me:

20 years active - 2 - 4 = 14 years. Maybe 21 women over that time, gives me an adjusted ratio of 1.5 per year.


This would be more helpful than just simply total number or my first idea involving an unmodified ratio. I know a woman who was married for 24 years and she's aged 53, and yet managed to have maybe 60 guys...so she really racked them up in the few years she was not married which gives a better idea of LOOSENESS. Her ratio would be: tot years = 36-23 (accounting for marriage) = 13, then divide INTO 60 giving her about a 4.6


Maybe we can produce our own rating system after obtaining more data from others..such as below 1 or 2 is tight, 1 to 2 or maybe 2 to 3 as being avg and beyond this as being loose??
 Rodeo Guy

Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 11
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 10:26:33 AM
Who cares anymore these days? As long as people are clean and careful.

I would want to be more concerned with someone who wants to have unprotected sex in the beginning. That is showing that who knows what their history is.

Sex is a good thing, why keep it to yourself.
 happydaddy

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 12
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 11:07:06 AM
do you woman think 25 is alot,cause I know some people
who are well into the hundreds,does not matter to me how many.
 jdbaby

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 13
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 12:19:48 PM
im always told to lie but fuk that!!! ive slept wit blokes and ull jus hav to deal wit my slagbag past, and present cum to think bout it
x
 trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 14
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Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 12:47:05 PM
I,m 20
I,ve been with 11.

thats not allot though
considering I first had sex at 14.
 peekatchoo

Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 15
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:02:16 PM
This subject worries me somewhat. I want to find 'the one' and only have sex with him for the rest of my life. But my entire adult life has been a series incidents where I'm like "Oh, this is the one! Yep! I can feel it!" and then whoops...guess I was wrong. He's not the one. I'm worried that this will keep happening over and over again until I'm up to like 50 freaking sexual partners....or *gasp* have lost count. Sh!t, I hope to never get to that point.
As of now I'm up to 8.
*chews fingernails*
 SICutie

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 16
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:06:03 PM
oh lord

so you're worried about your girlfriend having 8 partners yet you're trolling the internet for sex?? i need a wet trout because i need to slap you

why does it matter anyway?? people caught up with numbers are just plain weird
 onlytdotjonny

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 17
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:08:13 PM
I think that so long the person can still reember how many sex partners they had and that they were above all else, clean and safe with those partners, then it shouldn't matter

Besies, they're with me at the time being and not the only X amount of guys that they slept with in the past

Cheers!
 SICutie

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 18
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:09:51 PM
i don't remember. i went to college

 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 19
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:10:46 PM
I knew we met before

I once had a gal tell me that she was glad at the number I told her (I made her guess and she was pretty darn close). Her reasoning, too few would mean something wrong, and too many would mean, well, something wrong too
 REMMERS

Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 20
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Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:19:46 PM
well lets see since i am male, i started when i was 9 [nine] now 55 [fifty five] live in thailand last 5 years on the average 3-5 a week.. soo what difference how many "a" women has.. if she your ticket, """PUNCH IT""" and be happy your special...
 SICutie

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 21
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:19:57 PM
i've never asked a man that before. most of them couldn't count that high


9!?! holy shit!
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 22
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:22:29 PM
Number of sexual partners? = That belongs to the past. Past is Past.

Point - a lot?
"One man's meat is another man's poison".

bzzzzzzzzzz
 onlytdotjonny

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 23
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:24:27 PM
hey SICutie,

I saw you say something about younger guys? *raises hand in anticipation*


;)
 SICutie

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 24
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:28:18 PM
hehehe!

you're canadian, that would be unpatriotic of me
 onlytdotjonny

Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 25
Number of sexual partners! At what point does this seem a lot?!
Posted: 9/22/2005 1:30:04 PM
hahah

It would be unfair to yourself not to ;)
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