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Posted: 9/25/2005 7:51:42 PM | | I have a question. When I was with my ex-boyfriend about 3 months ago, We just broke up, He wanted to have sex without a condom. And I thought that we were in a great relationship and we were happy and committed to each other. So here is my question. Is it alright for a couple to go without a condom while having sex if they feel that they are comfortable with it, or should you always go safe. What are your point of views on this? | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 7:54:43 PM | Hmm this is a tough one, if you know he ain't cheating on you... which you probably don't.
Or
If you really don't mind getting pregnant.
Under then that I say No, unless he's real careful... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 7:56:27 PM | Good question:
I think after a certain timeframe (can't put an exact time on it though), that once you've been with this person and you feel that it's going somewhere, or could go somewhere, then ya. Even if you may think it's for a year or two, yeah having sex without a condom could be alright (so long you both know the reprecusions of this and so long that you can trust the person you are with and that they aren't going around sleeping with the "town" so to speak)
I had a relationship with a girl for 2 years, after 4 months we stopped using condoms. There's a personel example that I can give you
Hope this helps
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Posted: 9/25/2005 7:56:31 PM | | I don't understand why you are even asking this question if you are already broken up...but no, I wouldn't dare trust it unless yo'uve both had tests done and you are using some form of contraception to avoid pregnancy...unless you are actually planning to get pregnant... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 7:57:04 PM | | See this is what I thought. This is a tough situation. Its something that alot of people deal with. Do you think you should wait till marriage to take the condom off? | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:00:06 PM | It all depends on the trust factor. And if you are using some sort of pill (birth control or the morning after) to ensure that you aren't going to have a surprise 9 months later
It's hard now a days to tell if you're bf or gf is cheating behind your back on you or not, so with that said, you have to think of the risk of coming in contact with an STD because your partner was unfaithful one night (or more) and came in contact with an STD themselves | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:01:04 PM | | This is how people ruin their lives, heck you would probably be pregnant right now :( | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:01:07 PM | | Waiting until marriage would be a great option. I thought that I was going to marry this girl, so that's the way I was looking at it to at the time. Guess that didn't happen | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:01:36 PM | | Always wear a condom, unless other precautions are in place. If you have been together for a while, and are prepared for a child, then lose the condom. My wife had a hysterectomy, so pregnancy is not an issue for us. When I play outside the marriage, I always wear protection. No matter what she may say!!! Unles you really trust your partner, a condom is a must. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:19:11 PM | Good luck with your decision...
P.S. I think you've got goregous eyes.....Very intense  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:45:09 PM | | Regardless, where the glove if you want some love! It is not worth getting knocked up, get an STD, etc. It is better to be safe than sorry; the last thing you want is lifelong luggage that you can get rid of or something that will make you wish he wore a condom. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:52:57 PM | | It is also repsectful to wear a condom, after all you take most of the risk if somehting goes wrong pregnacy, or he has soemthing. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 8:58:46 PM | If he gots the credecials go 4 it, comdoms suck ass!
All the times I was gonna get my girlfriend pregnant were when the comdom popped.
If I ain't wearing one there's no chance I cummin inside, so its alot safer.
Only thing is don't do it twice in raw, cause there's sperm left over in the urinary tract and it gets pumped during when u do it twice. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 9:07:04 PM | There are way too many risks involved noawadays to go without one.
Unless you're in a long term relationship, you've gotten tested together to show you're both spic and span, and you're on a contraceptive (unless you want to get pregnant), keep that condom on. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2005 10:12:27 PM |
If he gots the credecials go 4 it, comdoms suck ass!
All the times I was gonna get my girlfriend pregnant were when the comdom popped.
If I ain't wearing one there's no chance I cummin inside, so its alot safer.
Only thing is don't do it twice in raw, cause there's sperm left over in the urinary tract and it gets pumped during when u do it twice
you better look up your facts, there, buddy. You can get a girl pregnant without cumming inside her.
On topic: if you are with someone for a period of time, and trust them, and are using another method of birth control (unless you want a baby) and both partners agree... then there's nothing wrong with not using condoms. Just keep in mind those are a lot of "ifs". | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 11:39:32 PM | | My specialist told me..because I am young..I should just stick with having my partner wear condom,she said I might be ready for something real,but what if he is not and you have sex with him and he leaves.So I think the no condom thing could come with maybe being older or being at my age..maybe being with a guy who is mature enough and can respect my belief that I want to use condoms until I know him and I are for sure. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 11:48:48 PM | | what if he cheats on u? no i will never **** with a guy without a condom. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 11:54:31 PM | | Use a condom until you are STD screened and have a contraceptive in place. Herpes among other STD's are as common as freckles. | |
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nergal
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Joined: 5/12/2005
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Posted: 9/27/2005 11:55:42 PM | | If condoms stop me catching freckles I'll wear two .. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2005 11:58:50 PM | | I hate condoms, and if the girl is clean I'll never use it. There are birth controll pills, or some other birth control things. If you are worried about getting pregnant than anal is the best solution for that- in fact anal is the best birth control :) | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 12:01:11 AM | | So you'd be willing to go get tested with a girl to make sure you both were clean? | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 12:04:56 AM |
I hate condoms, and if the girl is clean I'll never use it.
how do u know she is clean?what makes u think that she will never sleep with another person?u never know what can happen.are u gonna stay with her 24/24 to be sure she never cheats on u? | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 12:06:40 AM | I rather be paranoid and clean..than trusting in the wrong person and getting diseased..this day in age I think you are better off with door number one until I guess you get married | |
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nergal
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Posted: 9/28/2005 12:06:40 AM | | Its no wonder STDs are rife .. I've been tested .. if I am in a stable realtionship where this truth then I do give them up .. but otherwise its a bad thing .. | |
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