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 Blndcherrybmb

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 1
Harrassment
Posted: 9/27/2005 1:31:55 PM
I am continually harrassed and threatened by one person on this site and was just curious as to if any of u other ladies on here have been threated or harrassed by men on this site? Or if someone knows how to take care of it appropriately? I have turned it any a few times to the site and its still going on and I have never received a response. I have changed names on here and still it does not subside.. I dont think that its fair that I have to quit coming to the site due to this. Let me know what u think ladies.. Thanks
 RiskyBzns

Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 2
Harrassment
Posted: 9/29/2005 2:59:28 PM
Of course beautiful you know I am not a female...But I am sure their are TONS of ladyes that get harassed on here. Report it in the forums help forums or kindly email one of the forum mods. But you already knew that I mailed that jerk and told him what I thought. He didn't write back, I think I might have scared him...lol
 cableguymn

Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/1/2005 5:05:33 PM
You can block them.. Of course this won't stop them from creating a new account (one draw back to a free site..)..

If they don't know where you live, or any personal information, ignore them. However, if they do know you it is importand that the site admin are aware of it and your local police department.
 crn

Joined: 8/11/2004
Msg: 4
Harrassment
Posted: 10/24/2005 4:04:34 PM
Hey, who is this guy running off this little sweet heart.
 Blndcherrybmb

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 5
Harrassment
Posted: 10/25/2005 12:06:03 PM
Aww thanks ... I told him I was taking it to the local sheriff.. who is my uncle.. and I guess he decided it wasnt worth it finally... How many times I turned him in on this site and nothing happened, it kept going, Guess it took the real police to make him stop.. Or maybe he has just decided to quit for a while, havent heard anything for about a month.
I know he has done this to other girls because of them was my sister, she dealt with it all summer long. I just hope he isnt threatening and harrassing other girls on here..
 weaver29x

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 6
Harrassment
Posted: 1/15/2006 12:20:26 AM
That man must have problem's in his head, they give us this for no cost and there is alway's one or 2 guy's that screw it up. Good for you chry bmb, do let me know if the clown continue's.
 Blndcherrybmb

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 7
Harrassment
Posted: 1/16/2006 1:12:06 PM
Well here is the update..... It stopped for a couple months.. I think they must have kicked him off... But last week it started up again.. new name. He told me to go ahead and turn him in because he had hacked into someone else's account and he didnt care if they shut him down.
They shut down that account later the same day. They worked quick and I really appreciated it. I just dont see why the guy keeps emailing me and coming back, obviously I'm not interested and threatening me isnt going to get me to be interested.
Hopefully this was the last time.
 RiskyBzns

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 8
Harrassment
Posted: 1/16/2006 8:41:39 PM
They must have had a hay day because they deleted my account yesterday for no freakin reason. They said it was fake...HA...There was NOTHING fake about it...
 SweetDreams234u

Joined: 11/11/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/21/2006 5:35:41 PM
I know your problem. I have a stalker on Yahoo. And I have reported him many times and I have ignored him a million times. And some how he keeps being able to get a hold of me. Now I am to the point if he pops up I just ignore him. I figure eventually he will get bored of it and just stop. And it seems to be starting to work. He doesn't im me as much as he use to. So just do your best to ignore him and don't let him get to you.
 duhmoines

Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/31/2006 11:52:38 PM
This is just from a computer tech's point of view, so pardon the jargon. Why not get his ip, trace it to the provider level and file a complaint. They'll straight shut off his internet rather than be threatened to be taken to court for providing the means for the harassment to continue. If that confused ya, message me and I could take the whole 2 minutes it would require and give you the info.

Lifes to short to get hassled all the time, enjoy yourself as much as you can.


-Matt
 velvethands

Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/4/2008 6:10:48 AM
HEY
HOW DOES SHE GET BUGGED?TRY TO E-MAIL HER AN YOU WILL SEE WHAT I MEAN.I GO TO JUST SAY HI AN THE MESSAGE IS SENT AN NEVER COMES UP THAT IT IS.SO I BELIEVE IT IS FROM SOME OTHER SITE.JUST TRY TO E-MAIL HER.
 marianda10

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 5/23/2008 10:35:23 AM
I was harrassed by two men on this site and they were extremely verbally abusive. Both profiles said what nice guys they were lol. I guess if you don't think there is an attraction or anything, just tell the person you are not interested. Don't take it as an opportunity to vent and put someone else down for sport. I reported one but the other scared me to death so I left him alone. Strange how people will say things online they would never say in public. Blocking is the only way you can avoid this.
 perfect_wings

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 9/18/2008 4:08:24 PM
I was harassed for not replying to an email quick enough (because i'd been working overtime) and the next email I got said (and I quote) "I hope you find a guy that treats you like a jerk,****" NOW, I deleted that account and made up one that says i live in Cali so I can still post on forums without making people mad from Iowa who are interested...it sucks.
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