| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 2:33:21 PM | im a single mother who has just started dating again after 10 years. Im finding that most men just want to date multipul women and not just one..im of the frame of mind that when your dating somene for 4 or 5 months you are dating them alone..especially when sex is envolved...am i wrong?? i dont like the idea that i am dating a man that is dating and having sex with other women....they seem to see nothing wrong with it...what do you think | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 2:34:55 PM | I don't think a man should be having sex with other women. I think some men are scared to be with only one women. They need to get over it Take a risk men, might be the best one ever. | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 2:35:46 PM | Personally I think these *dating* sites should tell you that alone. There's always someone looking for the biggest...prettiest *fish*
I've just learned to deal with the fact that I'm definately NOT gonna find true love on a singles site.
That's not what I'm here for anyway. | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 2:46:12 PM | | I think that there's nothing wrong with how both of you think. However, he needs to date people who think like him, and you need to date someone who thinks like you. Sometimes you just need to agree to disagree and cut the line... | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 3:01:46 PM | | this word "player"is getting old ,very old. life is all full of playfullness. and by the way if you dont like my driving "take the Bus" | |
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w82b
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Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 11 | |
| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 3:31:12 PM | I won't commit because of women. The ones I committed to, in the past, are committed to having a b/f, but not the relationship (if that makes sense). I'm not interested in starting one again anytime soon.
However Shedevil,
I enjoy drives to Port Stanley. It's my favourite drive when I feel the need to get away for the day. Maybe we'll cross paths one day and share words over lunch. | |
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w82b
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Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 14 | |
| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 4:11:56 PM | It's very easy to explain.
Some women need a man to come home to. They need the comfort and safety of not being alone as well as knowing there is always someone to fall back on. It's what a typical relationship should be like. I enjoyed being that person for them. Problem being, they took and never gave in return.
They both wanted to act as if they weren't in a relationship that required some sacrifices. There lifestyles didn't change. In both relationships I lost friends because they could not get along with people who didn't serve their needs. I felt alone. Rather than hang around, I walked out of both relationships.
One of them is in her 4th marriage while the other just broke up with her 3rd husband. I learned a valuable lesson.... Be picky, be choosy, be patient. | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 4:13:57 PM | I completely understand Island.
I have several friends who cannot be without a boyfriend. Always jumping from one to another within less than a week. Never working with anyone to maintain it.
I always thought it was kinda sad.... | |
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w82b
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Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 16 | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/27/2005 6:41:47 PM | | well other then dating on and off for the last 5 months ive been single for the last 10 years..no dates at all..im just feeling that my kids are older and i am not getting any younger...i want a steady man not one that wants to see other women too...one that i can commit to and he can commit to me | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 9:51:38 AM | Shedevil, I'm with Dragongaze on this one....there are some of us that want to be in a committed relationship, we do exist. Be patient, keep your head up and when you least expect it - there it will be.
Hope this helps
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pshyke
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Joined: 11/10/2004
Msg: 19 | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 12:04:51 PM | | beleive me im not giving up hope.. was just looking for a few hints to get some responses and i think i got a gew helpful ones..we will see how they work | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:16:18 PM | | yes i love to hear how its nice to beleive in your fellow man ,thats why they have lawyer refferal services rite ?? sharks never bite lawyers because its known as proffffesssional courtesy.there is hope its between peoples ears. | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:20:01 PM |
you my dear, have got yourself what they call in the dating world.....a player
Question...... If she knows about it,,, he is not making a game out of it,,,,, Is he still a player, or someone that just doesn't want exclusivity? | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:22:32 PM | Hey,
I am MORE than willing to commit to the right woman, and NO I won't/don't more than 1 woman at a time and have stopped seeing ladies that do. But maybe I am in need of being commited LOL | |
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| Why cant i find a man willing to commit
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:29:31 PM |
One of them is in her 4th marriage while the other just broke up with her 3rd husband. I learned a valuable lesson.... Be picky, be choosy, be patient.
Inasmuch as I understand where you are coming from,, I can only wonder if the patience, pickyness and choosyness, get taken a little too far and we end up alone, having someone that could make for a wonderful relationship, slip away! "Tis far better to have loved and lost, than never have loved at all"
Just an idle thought! No fingers here! | |
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