| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:35:36 AM | Okay I'm making a post about angry emails because it's not the first time it's happened to me and I'm only on here for fun. Here's the message I just got with the response I made.
from him: man, are you so low that you have to hang that stupid sign on your neck?
I feel sorry for you
from me: There's no need to feel sorry for me. I really don't need any sympathy from you or anyone else. And since you obviously didn't realize this on your own it's a bloody joke. See unlike many members on this site I do actually have a sense of humour.
Cheers
from him: if you really didn't need sympathy from anyone you would not put your pics on a dating website lol, desperate
Seriously why would someone even bother writing an angry or rude message to someone for no reason. So just wondering if anyone else has received angry emails for no reason. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:39:22 AM | | I think the question should be: why would you even consider responding to that email? | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:47:53 AM | well now, it would be my guess that he's sees a really cute lady and he's rejecting you before you can reject him
loser! hehe! | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:48:23 AM | Unfortunately, there are more than enough people like that on here to go around. But the good thing is, there are also plenty of good people to balance things out. That guy who wrote you is probably one of the people who starts a new forum whining about why he can't get any women. Gee, I wonder why?  Don't let it get to you, and just move on. The best of luck to you! | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 8:53:42 AM | Some people get their rox off by being rude!
You're a cutie and you know it.. and I bet HE didn't have his pic posted.. Now did he? hmmm doesn't that make you wonder more?
BTW: I thought the for rent sign was funny! :-)~ | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 9:05:20 AM | I haven't as yet received any angry message's.But i have received the odd,nasty message back.From men that i have replied to, but have told them that i'm not intrested in them..
And it does not bother me in the slightist.Caus it's so obvious, why they are sending me nasty messages rejection which they cannot obviously handle..
Dont take it personal,because i guarantee you,that your probably not the only person.To have received a nasty message from that man,& you probably wont be the last...
As people that behave,in that manner.Are often those that are not getting,a good response from using this dating site.And need a bit of attention,so they then get off on the responses. That they get back,from the person that they, have sent the insulting message to.
Take it with a pinch of salt,as this is the internet.Which i'm sure you are well aware of that, but you are also going to get some real sad losers on here .. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 9:18:55 AM | Some people get their rox off by being rude!
You're a cutie and you know it.. and I bet HE didn't have his pic posted.. Now did he? hmmm doesn't that make you wonder more?
BTW: I thought the for rent sign was funny! :-)~
I had to quote that because Coaster girl hit the nail on the head. Exactly...Some people just live off of being mean to people it takes the attention off themselves. And I think your picture is adorable! Some adults just can't leave High School behind them. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 9:45:59 AM | honest_hgirl-
i thought the photo was funny and original  ; you obviously liked it or else it wouldn't be up there. so disregard the naysayers. you are having fun and this is what matters. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 10:02:38 AM | I got it times a plenty. People accusing me of being "too intelligent for my age", therefore I must be a manipulative **** who plays with people's lives.
What accurate perception these people have of complete strangers.
My conclusion: judgemental poeple like that isn't worth your time. Delete their messages and forget about them. No need to get bugged about it. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 10:03:49 AM | | Thanks for all the positivity in your responses. I know there are total d***s out there. And I am aware that it's bound to happen to everyone at some point and I'm not going to let it get me down. However, as well as wanting to vent about the topic, I was just wanting anyone else to put in samples of angry emails on this post if they have them. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 10:45:52 AM | I'll bet it would be really fun to go on a few dates with a guy like that .... NOT! It used to bother me a quite a bit years ago when people became angry at me, especially if they were practically strangers, or if they were angry over something that seemed really trivial.
Then I realized that, particularly in those situations, their anger has nearly nothing to do with the person that they are displaying anger toward. Their anger ONLY indicates problems in their own life, and those problems make them angry at themselves, and angry in general. It doesn't take much to set off a person like that. The things that they judge and criticize about others are generally the very same root characteristics that they don't like about themselves. That's basic human nature.
The thing that helps me to not feel anger back toward a person like that (and thereby lose my peace of mind too) is to realize that their anger is their own worst punishment. They make themselves miserable day after day by their disgust for themselves and others, and rarely do they feel peace or real happiness.
For some individuals, especially some men, anger is their most common, almost exclusive emotional outlet. I think the most reasonable way to view people like that is to acknkowlege the fact that they are not very happy, and because of whatever has gone on in their lives, some of it not their fault, they have fallen into a pattern that is not fun at all. As long as I overcome the temptation to just be angry back at them, it makes me feel sympathy for them, like I would a mentally ill person or a child born without arms.
I usually try to say nothing to a person who spews venom for no good reason. I doubt that anything I could say would really help them, and by being silent I think it gives them the best chance to see through their problematic tendencies themselves. If you say nothing it is immediately a contrast to how they know they would respond in your position. Then they naturally consider what the reason could possibly be that you would not display anger in return, and it may give them some insight. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 11:10:28 AM | | Ignore the angry emails, and angry people in general. HAHA, if they don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. But on the flip side, it is always great to kill them with niceness. The nicer you are the more pissed off they get. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 11:46:39 AM | | Maybe the OP just wants to understand anger. especially anger in men. women are the weaker sex so i imagine they do things not to anger men. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 11:51:31 AM | Maybe you should've had a very special sign JUST for people that like that:
Yield.  | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 2:32:56 PM | I don't know why guys do it...I find it amusing and go with the flow and pretend to be a crazy psycho and just go on and on til they have to block me cause they're scared :)
I had some guy message me on yahoo and his first line to me was, ' yah, you're ok looking but you know, thin eyebrows don't go with dark hair'. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 3:09:48 PM | | His message was pretty tame compared to some I've heard on these threads, and gotten myself. Don't even bother responding to them. You pay attention, it fuels them. Just delete and block. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 3:25:54 PM | im urinated off!!!!  
can i send you an angry email so you
can be a doormat for my insecurities??? | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/28/2005 4:05:52 PM | | Whew lol because I like you and want to keep liking you you big likeable guy you | |
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Posted: 9/28/2005 4:07:42 PM | hahaha, I had to laugh, cause HE is on a dating site, calling you desperate.
Pot calling the kettle black - very funny.
Dating sites are cool because they let you find out fast what the other person is about and what they are looking for. If you date face to face, like in a bar, usually it is all about the physical and its ages to figure out if you are really on the same page. I'm not against old style dating, but definitely, when going that route I have had serious issues come up once things were already serious, things that would have been dealt with if we met this way. | |
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| Angry emails for no reason.
Posted: 9/29/2005 2:51:36 PM | | I didn't receive a nasty email so much as I did a post in a thread that I replied in trying to offer some advice. Just because I didn't have the advice she was looking for and had posted a couple of replies during the course of the thread she got all pissy and accused me of "following" her from thread to thread. I was like WTF? I sent her an email back, a polite one of course because I'm not wanting to be seen in an even worse light, telling her that I was sorry I didn't have the life changing advice she was wanting to hear so badly and just because I agreed with a previous post there was no need for her to turn it on me and make a personal attack and such a unfounded comment. I reminded her that the forum is for everyone to read and reply to and if by chance I had replied to the thread more than once, which I did, did not mean that I was "following" her. I couldn't begin to understand where all that hostility was coming from and such a bullsh*t accusation. | |
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