| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:00:06 AM | I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
I have met Satan and she is bleach blonde. I met a woman on a dating site. I have been talking to her for the last four or five months. I had developed strong feelings for her that I was slow to allow due to trust issues with women.
She turned out to be Satan. I was hesitant to trust her and let her into my heart. It took her several months of her telling me that she loved me and that she would never abandon me. She said I was her dragon. She was quite persistent. We had much in common. A similar childhood. Artistic inclination. About the only difference is that where in the despair of my youth I turned to philosophy, she turned to heroin.
When she finally convinced me that she sincerely cared about me (and in turn I cared about her even more), things changed. I was preparing to make a trip to visit her and even stay at a motel just so I could hang out with her for a few days. I made sacrifices and saved my money for this.
She immediately, and with sadistic glee, called me a "loser" and started dating a guy with a shiny sports car that she met a few days ago. A guy who cannot spell words like "Awesome" and "Beautiful". She also blocked me from all contact with her and even threatened to contact authorities (which was entirely unnecessary as I had only tried to call her one day).
So I ask why would she treat another human being this way? The answer is simple. She isn't human. She's Satan. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:14:25 AM | i am sorry this happened to you. dont do these long distance things. dont spend too much time or feelings on people you have not yet met. chat and meet even if it is for coffee. these people lie put very old pictures online and are often married. try to find someone who is local and available and in person!!!good luck...you will meet the right one.. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:14:39 AM | There are so many red flags in your post that tell me this situation was destined to break your heart.
First of all, she's a heroin junkie? That should have told you something right there.
Secondly, you started professing your love for each other before you even met face to face? That's never a good idea. Talking to people on the computer is fun and all, but I truly believe that you can never really know someone until you meet them face to face. Talking with the shelter of a computer screen between you allows you to only show the most positive things about you.
I'm so sorry that person hurt you like that, but maybe it will turn out to be a valuable lesson learned that you need to be more careful next time.
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:23:42 AM | You are so right angelinabee!
I (and a few friends) have tried the LDR thing through the online dating sites. It is so painful. First if it does work out and you do have chemistry the "how the heck do we get together" part is painful just to watch.
Second, there are way too many stories like this one where it was all a shame or the person was putting on a different face for the Internet.
So I have made it a point to only really spend time with women who are willing to meet face to face after a few emails. I stopped dealing with the "I am too afraid to meet you" girls. They want to get some kind of emotional bond with you by email before meeting. Then when you meet the chemistry isn't there or it turns out they lied about some details (like the financial position, martial status, body type, etc.).
Really sorry to hear this story. But, like the site name says. There are plenty of fish in the sea. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:42:04 AM | i am sorry this happened to you. dont do these long distance things. dont spend too much time or feelings on people you have not yet met. chat and meet even if it is for coffee. these people lie put very old pictures online and are often married. try to find someone who is local and available and in person!!!good luck...you will meet the right one..
The thing is that this person was very persistant and persuasive that she loved me and wanted me in her life. At several points I told her it wasn't going to work for the reasons you all mentioned. But, you see Satan is a very tricky character. (the pictures were current I saw her on a webcam live that she "said" she bought just for me)
To me a conversation is the most intimate thing two people can share. More than a kiss. More than sex. You can meet someone face to face every day for 10 years and not know them at all. You can correspond with someone and find out the deepest facets of who they are.
You are all correct about the long distance thing. The problem is that this fool deliberately pulled me in and then broke my heart. I can see no rational profit in it for her. I don't believe there was one. She did it for pure sadistic self gratification. Which she demonstrated clearly in the end. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:48:42 AM | Oh, I didn't mean that you should meet face to face to make sure their pictures are current or whatever...
You know when you're talking to someone and they're being just as nice as can be and you just have that feeling that they're completely full of it? You can't have that talking on the computer. I think it's easy to over-romanticize things when you can't see each other in person as you correspond. And yeah, sometimes it's just different when you're face to face. I talked online and on the phone with a guy for a couple of months before we finally met. We seriously hit it off, but when we were face to face there was *no* romantic spark whatsoever. It was like I was hanging out with a buddy.
So yeah, I definitely say that it's best to meet as soon as possible before you let the email/chat thing get too deep and out of control.
And once again...I'm sorry your heart is broken. :( | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:51:04 AM |
So I have made it a point to only really spend time with women who are willing to meet face to face after a few emails. I stopped dealing with the "I am too afraid to meet you" girls. They want to get some kind of emotional bond with you by email before meeting. Then when you meet the chemistry isn't there or it turns out they lied about some details (like the financial position, martial status, body type, etc.).
The problem is that every single girl I talk to falls into this category. With the exception of a few who were convicted felons (not a lie or an exaggeration).
She called me her dragon because she is an artist and likes to draw dragons. My ID is Lizard King (Majestic Lizard). A dragon is a big lizard so that is where the term of endearment came from. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 9:59:01 AM | Sounds like you got off lucky my friend. From what you dfescribe she most likely has some kind of personality disorder. Maybe bipolar or bpd imho. Whatever it is she has the capability of wreaking havoc to herself and those poor misfortunates that happen to get caught up in her web.
What you went through sucks but consider yourself lucky that you didnt invest more into this (ie. house, wife & kids)....otherwise you would have really been screwed.
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 10:19:53 AM | | well let me tell you something the only way to win a womans heart is to act like she doesn't matter. Same thing for men. You call her to see what she is doing and two minutes later tell here you have to go. Or that there is someone else on the phone. The reason she probably called you a loser is because you acted desperate. And you make yourself look even worse by crying about to other people. Love is great but you shouldn't fall in love with someone you met over a computer. Sorry that's how i feel. You don't know the reality of a woman's thinking. I feel for you. Don't be a silly man. When your true love comes she will come when you least expect it. Like when you are washing your car. At a restaurant. Or maybe she is your neighbor. Don't look for something that is not there yet. It will come relax and wait. Don't put up a guard just wait. Everyone gets screwed. EVERYONE. And if it makes you feel better remember karma is real she will get hers. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 10:25:54 AM | Sounds like you got off lucky my friend. From what you dfescribe she most likely has some kind of personality disorder.
Yes, she is what is known as a "secondary" sociopath (meaning she has no defecit of social emotions, but is otherwise a sociopath). A secondary sociopath is also called a psychopath. Yes, she is also bipolar.
Examples: she has stollen many cars from people in her neighborhood and set them on fire. She was in a fight with a girl and nearly killed the girl by bludgeoning her. Her criminal record is such that she cannot seek treatment at a hospital under her own name for fear of being caught. Some of these facts she told me about, but always with clever explanations. Some I learned through other sources.
I have done such things in my youth, though to lesser degree. The difference is that in hindsight I feel remorse. This woman is incapable of remorse but can fake it.
When I say she is Satan there is some merit to that label. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 10:42:51 AM | Hey bud, Me again, Dam your situation got you messed up. You need to have a party with some friends, relax a bit, LULU is right.. but I have something to add to it.
You will KNOW when you are in true love because you would have won her heart even if you act like she matters! Yep.
You will KNOW when you are in true love when you no longer have to play the games most people play to get attracted to each other.
I dont believe in KARMA crap though. Here's why. Even if Karma IS real, and what goes around comes around stuff IS real, what would make it better is if the person REALIZES it.
if A did something bad to B, and B cries Karma, and A laughs, then 10 years later, A has the same shyte happen to him/her, and A does not reflect back to what they did to B, that Karma crap just didn't work sorry.
However, there IS a balancing of some sort that takes place. So she'll get hers but dont Bank on it, Just go get yours!
Just remember when two people are in real love, they won't have to play any games. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 10:53:04 AM | | Iam so sorry that you have been done this way and i can tell you something now......... (NOT ALL WOMEN AND I MEAN NOT ALL WOMEN) they will lie cheat and steal their way into a mans life just to burn him. Now on the other hand iam not that way money well i don`t need it and love, respect,kindnes,and someone to be opena nd honest with me is all i need, and i finally found it in a man i met on line... So i have to say sometimes you have to live and learn but to be odne like that there is no need in it. Please watch your heart and i feel for you.Get to know a woman before you do anything chat for a while then plain to met her for dinner or just a drink then see how it goes from there. iam a female and i still can understand what your going though..src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_31b.gif border=0> | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 11:25:02 AM | | .....you didn' even scratch. I met satan 30 years ago, as sweethearts when we were young. I was married and divorced, as was she 7 years ago when we crossed paths again. We became lovers and married. We had a little boy who is 5 now. I gave up my career, went into debt, and moved to Arizona, Ohio, and now Florida for her to find her happiness. It never happened....She took a lover last February and moved in with him in June, abandoning me and our little boy. She says she never loved me....she needed passion in her life....family life was boring....she didn't want to be a mother anymore. So you see Satan comes in many different forms........you only get your heart ripped out in different ways.. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 11:41:11 AM | | Majestic Lizzard, You can not take much from an on line dating site. I do not know your age but I guess you can call this live and learn unfortunate for you. One thing if you ever go out of town or even in town be smart always tell someone where you are going and tell them if they do not here from you by a certaine time to call the police in that town. Give your secret friend all the information about your situation. Someone you can trust. I heard a very bad story once about a man who drove to another state to be with someone. He received this same advice from a friend of mine but did not take it seriously since he was in his 50's and recently lost a spouse. Well he was found barely alive three months later and I will not even go into the bad details. So be thankful you only lost some savings for the trip and a little pride. Hope the next time is better!! | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 12:47:56 PM | Been there, done that, will NEVER do it again.
Yes, there are very evil people in this world. Not sure what their deal is, I just stay the hell away from it now. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 3:28:30 PM | That is the most heartbreaking thing I have ever heard! Women like that give the rest of us a bad name.
For the record, I have bi-polar disorder, and would never even contemplate doing anything like that to anyone! Don't blame the bi-polar for her anti-social actions...maybe she is just a raving b*tch!
Better luck next time, and I hope the experience hasn't left you jaded. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 4:33:56 PM | Lizard...I don't know how you can selectively believe what this woman has told you.
She probably never told you a single truth.
I know it sucks but good think you found out sooner rather than later.... | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 5:48:59 PM | I don't know how you can selectively believe what this woman has told you.
Intuition. Careful observation of where the inconsistancies were in her story. And her sister isn't very bright and can't keep a secret.
It also helps when your best friend is the Chief of Security at a major hospital and can run criminal background checks. | |
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| I have met Satan and she has a page on myspace.
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:31:57 PM | | Nah, couldn't be Satan, probably one of Satan's minions or else we'd all think we dated Satan at one time or another. Does sound like a mean little cup of poo though. I found that the best way to get over a person is (ha, some you sickos thought you knew what was coming next) to eat about a half a gallon of rocky road, drink a pot of starbuck's, smoke a nice cuban (the cigar, not meaning to kill a cuban person) and then once you're broke from all that figure out that nothing helps and just wait until the pain goes away. Good luck, and um, seriously, no more ex or current junkies, we'll file that under BIG RED WAVY LIGHTED WITH LED'S....FLAG. | |
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