| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/3/2004 6:56:47 PM | I am a BBW.
I am a very sensuous person. But i am overweight.
It is really hard to feel good about yourself and then go look in the mirror.
I am...and have been told i am beautiful. That makes me feel good...but when i go to take my clothes off....i see someone else.
I have 2 children...it was after my second child i really never lost all the weight fo having a baby..and the weight just kept coming. Some of it had to do with a 'Bad relationship" i am sure. Food turned into my only comfort.
I have been up and down with my weight. Once it's on it's so hard to lose!
I belive i am a really good lover. (I am also a squirter;)
I am soooo bi-curious i fantasize about being with another woman all the time.
I have never been with another woman....but would truly love to give it a try.
But being overweight i feel uncomfortable going out and trying to meet someone.
Anyone got any suggestions for me???
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/3/2004 7:18:27 PM | | go to the gym,i go to the gym if i didnt i would be overweight too it runs in my family.do u think u are the only one with this problem????stop complaining do something about it .3 times a week at the gym doing light weights and start walking three times a day,then starting running 3 days a week,change your diet,only take in what your body will use in one day.only you can change it.and for the bi thing go do it talk is cheap. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/3/2004 7:26:32 PM | Bi I am also a BBW but I LOVE myself. I know I am beautiful, and I don't let what other people think about me bother me. If you want other people to see you as "beautiful" you need to see yourself as beautiful.
And like it was said above ... quit complainging about it and do something about it if you don't like it!!!
And really its not that hard being full figured. I have no problems whatsoever!!!! Its all in the attitude and aura you give off. Be positive, smile lots and love yourself ... watch what happens!!!!! | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/3/2004 7:35:09 PM | I'm not complaining...(Or at least i didnt mean it that way..LOL)
I am happy being me. I have learned to live with myself this way. Although it would be nice to wear a bikini someday...hehee
I guess i was just wanting opinions on what people really think about "Big" women.
I still get "Looks"...especially when i wear low top shirts..LOL Being a DD it helps i guess.
I really am not complaining....i was just curious:) | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/3/2004 7:40:29 PM | | i dated a girl that was 220 lbs befor i met her she worked out for a year she is now about 120lbs and is a fitness trainor,u can do whatever u put your mind to as long as your happy doing it | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:34:54 AM | I have medical conditions where it has killed my metabolism...I am more active than alot of women and if you were to see me would never guess I was as heavy as I am...I clean 3 large buildings a nite and walk alot in 7 hrs...due to stomach problems...I can't keep food down so nothing to burn but am overweight.
I have never had a problem meeting men..it's all in the attitude...I love myself and no I will never be a size 5 again like I was at 19..but love lingerie and it makes you feel beautiful. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:14:51 AM | HAHAHA k-5 on the car racing thing. GREAT ATTITUDE BTW!!!!!!!
I feel the same way. When I go out, people know I am there. I walk around with a smile on my face and I look like I am having fun!!! If a guy hits on me I want him to be the one thats having fun as well. Can't have too much fun with someone who is "down"!!!!!!!! | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:05:39 PM | You know, I understand both sides of the issue! I am overweight but you would probably never guess that I weigh as much as I do, unless I told you. I understand what BiCurious is saying, sometimes it is hard to look in the mirror and feel like you are completely beautiful, and other times it's not hard to see your beauty at all. I don't think that the weight is the only factor though, I think it is all about who you see when you look in the mirror. Your self image is important, and when you are positive about yourself everyone around you sees it! BUT, we all have bad days! Most of my friends are skinny, and they still think they are "Fat." So, who cares how much you weigh. If you are happy with yourself, then no one else matters anyway.
Okay, enough rambling from me.  | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:13:14 PM | | i totally understand what she is saying too. i used to have a cute little body. i was thin with a bit of a butt and my ex loved it. the older i get, the harder it is to loose. it's very frustrating. diet after diet after diet. i hate being overweight. i'm not real big, but i don't look like i used to. i keep saying, there's a skinny person trapped in my body! | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:16:10 PM | | i forgot to add that i too fantasize about being with another woman, but i'm afraid it is wrong to do. (morally) in fact it turns me on more than thinking about a man. if the situation actually came up, i don't think i could go through with it. i'm not judging anyone who does it, but i worry what God will think of what i do these days, where as in the past i never cared. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:25:08 PM | I understand that too!! I have said the same thing for a long time! I am a skinny girl trapped in a big girls body. I have a quote for all of us..lol. One of my favorites.
"They say, inside every fat woman is a skinny woman trying to get out. Well, all I can say is I ate that B*T*H!" -Deserving person (can't remember who said it)!
That was in a calendar at my last job, the funniest part to me is that the office was full of skinny (120-130lb) women that constantly dieted and were never happy with themselves anyway. Even though I thought they were beautiful.
So, weather you are 100lbs or 300lbs, keep your head up! Beauty really does come from the inside!  | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:32:02 PM | | i find the most attractive women are slightly bigger women..honestly bony women do not turn me on..im not into looking at their ribs...but the most attractive women are bigger women with the attitudes of i may be bigger but im beautiful, if you have a good attitude about your weight i say...come to daddy...lol | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 12:49:07 PM | My fav saying:
"I am an 11 cleverly disguised as a 5 to weed out the shallow people"
It started as a smart a$$ comment, but, the more I think about it, my bad attitude is actually a durn good attitude....and it certainly is effective at weeding out the shallow people, lol. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 1:32:50 PM | You So Crazy!! You know this fishing boat ONLY catches tuna!!  (well, most of the time) But since you asked SOOO nicely....."TSUNAMI!!!!"....was it good for you? 
I love a thick woman with lots of confidence....especially watching a girl like that work the room and everyone seems to fall to their knees, begging to go home with her...BUT IT IS I THAT GETS TO GO WITH HER!! MMMMUUUUAAAHAHAAHAAHAHA! | |
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mudhen
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Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 18 | |
| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 1:45:58 PM | I survive on self-depracating humor. In a crowded bar at happy hour, my fat a** was trying to get to the bathroom....so I simply used the ever popular phrase, "Scuse me, fat guy coming through." I must have stopped and talked to 7 hot women on the way...nearly pissed my pants too. The women love an honest guy. You might not take home the hot blonde with the bit tits in the tight pink LOVE COCH shirt...but you can take home the even more genuine brunette friend who likes to take it in the as$ and blow you on the drive there!!!
All speculation of course!!! | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 1:52:45 PM | as a guy i know from television once said, he is from araknapuss in north east russia so excuse the pronunciation:
" i luv de fat laydiesh, ther is sho much of them to luv" | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 1:56:50 PM | it's me I know... I'm the idiot...
BUT!!!
Does BBW stand for:
1. Big Breasted Women
2. Big Bootie Whores
3. Big Burly & Wild
4. Barbeque Basted Wings
Fill me in, because I'm clueless
<<< does, however, get the context | |
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mudhen
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Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 21 | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/9/2004 2:04:24 PM | That's riiiight. LOL
What is it that Jay said from "Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back".. hmmmm how did he refer to his ability at oral sex.... anyone, anyone... Bueller...
Big Beautiful Woman.. I didn't really see that one coming, I must admit. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 12/12/2004 12:14:24 AM | | New..I am the same way...I am 5'1 240lbs and have gotten in arguments on it...I'm not rolly polly, I worked out on weights before I put on weight so have the muscle underneath...have 16 inch calves and had them even when I was 110lbs...Doc told me even if I lost weight wouldn't get small due to the muscle. Just a lil stocky italian mama. | |
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LadyO
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Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 25 | |
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