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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 10/4/2005 8:02:57 PM | humm.. women look hot in mens stuff.. white shirt + tie = yummy!
I don't think is as big a deal if women ware mens stuff as it is a man wearing a women stuff..
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 10/4/2005 8:43:11 PM | I think it would be hard for me to start a relationship with a cross dresser, because I am attracted to big, burly country boy type men.. lol.. just because I grew up in the country, and probably wouldn't be attracted to the person.
However.. that being said... if it was something they were ashamed of and were hiding... and I didn't know until after I was already in love with them... then I probably would leave someone over it... I think things would be different then.
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Ts pet
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Joined: 7/16/2005
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 10/4/2005 10:29:48 PM | You know. A friend of mine is getting married to a crossdresser which doesn't surprise me. I have seen a picture of him as is and then I saw a pic of him dressed up as a woman...anyways I am supportive of her.. and I think its great that she is supportive of him!
Now the reason I bring this up is because I met this guy in Jan. of this year and now we are really close friends.. and he admitted that he is into this a little bit..
So now I am more open to it most defenitely.
Thats all I am gonna say.
I can't say for sure I would consider dating a crossdresser but I am defenitely more open to it since I know what its like for a man to be into it.. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:18:55 AM |
However.. that being said... if it was something they were ashamed of and were hiding... and I didn't know until after I was already in love with them... then I probably would leave someone over it... I think things would be different then.
sorry, I'd like to apologize for being an idiot... I MEANT "and I didn't know until after I was already in love with them... then I probably WOULD NOT leave someone over it... I think things would be different then."
If I did leave, it would be because of the dishonesty... not the cross dressing.
I have nothign against it... and don't think I would care if a man in my life had a thing for wearing women's underwear for example... but to live as a full-time or even most of the time crossdresser... I just don't think I'd be attracted to a man dressed as a woman... that's all. But who's to say? I've never been in the situation. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:26:55 AM | <==== Intends on marrying a crossdresser. I love buying stuff for my man, most regular POF'ers know who he is...as a matter of fact, I have a nice pink pair of underwear and matching bra just waiting for him 
I cant stand dishonesty though, I prefer to hear the truth upfront as I dont scare easily. | |
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Joined: 7/16/2005
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 12/23/2005 12:17:43 PM | | iv always wanted a women that i could be with and still dress me upa nd we could go have a girls night out or have fun playing dressup.. i would love to go shopping and help her pick out outfits along with my own stuff.i would love to wear a sexy thong short skirt heels nice yop wig and makeup | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 12/23/2005 12:24:23 PM | I think your a closet CD case, Sugar.
:) Good for you
I have dated cross dressers. Yum yum :)
Eapsecially if he's wearing somthing sexy under his "man" clothes, and we go out in public....Geeze, I couldnt stop whispering naughty things to him. Dayum. lol
As long as the person is honest from the get go. A year into a relationship, if he revealed this tome, I would be hurt that he didnt do it in the beginning.
But I think that everybody should dress and act the way they feel comfortable :) | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 1/9/2006 2:32:31 PM | Yes you are one cool chick. You my dear show tolerance and understanding if not education for your comments. To many are to fast to condemn and judge. My compliments!
I read your response and figured that you might have meant that you would not leave if you were already into a relationship with a CD. And you are right, most women are more hurt, upset and mad that he hid this from her then they are about his being a cross dresser. It pains me to read some comments from others that think this is sick and want to poke fun at and make sick jokes about a very real compulsion that simply cannot be helped. It's not an illness nor a choice we make. Some experts think we are born with this desire or need to express the feminine side of who we are. An estimated 10% of males have tried on women's clothes or are in fact cross dressers. It usually begins in pre-adolescences between the ages of 4-10. And most of the cross dressers are heterosexual and not gay.
Many boys and men have hidden this little known phenomena from family and wives for many years and have never been discovered. It's sad that many have even committed suicide out of shame and lack of education and understanding. The hardest part is self acceptance through education for those of us that are afflicted. Some are very lucky to have wives and girlfriends that loved them enough to at least understand and accept this cultural difference.
Many cross dressers make more compassionate and understanding husbands due in part of the psychological need to express their own softer side. Most are in fact very masculine and undetectable in their role in business and other social settings.
To bad shows like Jerry Springer only show the sick side of what the psychological scholars now agree ad know is not abnormal behavior. It is a harmless compulsion that we do not know why it manifests itself in many boys before puberty, but thank God we are getting more educated and understanding of differences between people then pre-Internet days.
So before you condemn a person for his being a cross dresser, I'd suggest you research and learn more about the topic before showing ignorance and intolerance with comments about it being sick. It may not be something you can or want to deal with in your relationships, but let's try to be mature and not condemn what we do not understand.
Some of us may feel the same way about your tattoos, weird piercings in places other then your ears, but we try to accept and live and let live.
OK, had to get this off my chest after reading to many jokes from those that condemn out of lack of knowledge and understanding.
Now to the question: Would I date a cross dresser? A woman that cross dresses? Gee, I think I already have!
Women can wear about anything they want and no one thinks a thing about it. But if she looked like a man, no thank you, I am not interested. Yes, I do love feminine women. I'm not into men in any way! | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser
Posted: 1/9/2006 3:52:58 PM | It's definitely different and not my scene. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I like a man's man...
Even tho I'm very big on women's rights..I just can't picture my dad , for example, wearing pantyhose and a dress................ | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 1/9/2006 4:10:03 PM | I just realized this forum thing existed.. hilarious question
Ok~ Females crossdressing in the right context I think can be hot.. White dress shirt, tie, slicked back hair, pinstripe vest.. Nice~ Guys on the other hand.. not attractive. At all. To me.. I mean it's just not my thing haha~ I had a boyfriend dress up as a girl cabbage patch doll once for Halloween and omg.. I tried to hide it but.. The horror!!!! nahhh Jk, but it was a huge turn off. | |
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