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Posted: 12/5/2004 8:07:50 AM | | Now that you have reached 30, 40, and over - are things different sexually ? Are you more interested in how it feels or how it goes ? | |
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Posted: 12/5/2004 11:50:50 AM |  Yes most definitely because I know what I like and what I have noticed, the more satisfaction I can give, better it is for the two of us. Today, it is important to keep the sex going from both sexes. The more I can please him, the better it is for me. I let my partner know what it is I like, and ask what they like, or just observe and follow the reactions each time I do something because these are a good sign as to whether or they are enjoying it! I look for reaction, grips, moans, etc. I do not get into too much detail here but I beieve people know what I am saying!
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Posted: 12/5/2004 12:20:45 PM | Spirited..yes since I hit 35 guess that's when I began to feel comfortable with my sexuality. Knowing what I liked and disliked...sex is so much better than before. Well...it was good before it's just better now.  | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 5:14:22 AM | The answer is yes.
Ten years ago, I went to the trouble (& expense), of dating & all that crap to get sex.
Now I've finally realized that you can rent a good porno tape, masturbate, and get the same effect.
It's a great deal cheaper, you don't have to listen to some dumb female babble, and best of all, the chicks in the tape are always MUCH better looking than anything you'd normally meet out in the dating world.
Signed,
Retard in Connecticut. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 6:05:16 AM | Just this past year I learned alot about myself. I bought my very first toys, did my first real exploring, tried things I always wanted to sexualy but either was too scared or just afraid to bring it up for whatever reason.
Last night after a pretty heated session with the hubby he asked me what is different now that Im doing all these things that just months ago I wouldnt even have considered. I didnt have a real answer for him. The only thing I could realy think of was 1. my libido kicked into high gear, 2. the toys helped me(bymyself and going hhmmmm) 3. felt like we were in a rut and wanted to try all those things I had been thinking of
Im alot more open than I was just ten years ago, more sure of myself and what I can do for him and for me and not afraid to say "hey lets try this".
For the first time in my life Ive been called a freak, LOL, not complaining one bit, just never considered myself a freak in bed and neither did he, but we arnt complaining. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 11:25:52 AM | | Much more interested. After I had children, the world changed for me, heh heh... The older I get, the better it gets... Very odd, and depressing since I obviously do not look like I did when I was 22 and had the figure guys went for... | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 11:45:16 AM | | Wolf: sex has never been better. Women have never been hotter.. If you stay in shape you have MUCH to look forward to in life. Although we may look better when we're younger, the sex gets better as we're older... At least that's the case with me... | |
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Posted: 12/6/2004 1:33:56 PM | Heck yeah...way much better. And its only the beginning!  | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 3:34:08 AM | When I was young, I had sex and knew so very little about a girls body. When I turned twenty-five, I had sex with just a little lovemaking thrown in and was starting to be taught about a womans body. When I turned thirty, I had sex with much lovemaking thrown in and started my worshiping of the female body. When I turned forty, sex was a thing of the past, and making Love the only pleasure, and the women who taught me their heavenly delights. So with much practice, I hope that I too can bring them the pleasures they have shown me. To ALL the POF ladies over thirty, you continue to show us males your feminine delights, and this mere male salutes you all.  | |
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
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Posted: 12/7/2004 9:56:36 AM | Way better....no anxiety about unwanted preganancies (a freaking miracle it it DID happen, and no big deal...another mouth to feed and someone to raise! oh boy!)
Yep...WAY better now that it isn't a hurricane of hormones and regrets afterwards.... | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 1:52:45 PM | | For me I am more insatiable I really love affection adn love-making and playing with the person I am with every night. It aslo depends on them to if they are into it. I love being open to including aids in pleasure and am open to most things that bring pleasure and satisfaction to the one I am with. For me it has gotton better as the years go by! | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 4:14:02 PM | OK you can't fool me! everyone says it's better because now that they are over the hill, they can only do it once a year now. How could it not be better?
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Posted: 12/7/2004 4:27:53 PM | Same as before.
Same 'Energizer' Rabbit ... lol | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 9:00:47 AM | Do you have any spare tickets for that ride Mr. Energizer! I would not mind finding one in my stocking!  got to love it! This means you keep going...going...going...etc! I had to comment because I use this saying a lot!  | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 11:39:24 AM | I have a new appreciation for sex. I have always enjoyed it, but being more comfortable with who I am...having lived more, I feel that sex can be an experience that embodies a much fuller and richer me. I've also learned more tricks, more about what intimacy really involves and find it much more fulfilling as an entire being experience.
I'm so much more comfortable with my body too and am thinking, it might be fun to be pregnant and have sex, knowing all I do now..LOL | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 1:00:53 PM | arachnoidalseainme: I lovvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvve it when you talk dirty
Yeah....... aging makes us hotter lovers... no question!!!! | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 1:09:08 PM | | Was I talking dirty? (wink!!!) | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 1:23:58 PM | | What is this "sex' you speak of? I cant remember. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 1:41:20 PM | Being in my um....uh... late 30's.......(ouch) ....I think my personal sexuality is more prominent.
I take greater time to express myself and have learned that intimacy starts loooooong before the sex part....... it's a way of life..... it's how you live ...carry yourself... interact with your mate.... it's a learned thing..... and I have definately learned well.....and continue to learn more, as a matter of fact...I look forward to it...  | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 2:25:03 PM | | Im more interested in it now. Probably because I've learned to appreciate all that goes along with it. I enjoy all aspects (tasting, touching, feeling) now as when I was young, I was in such a rush to get to the "main event" that I don't think I realized what I was missing. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 2:29:09 PM | daddysret...
I agree..It becomes more sensual as you get older..the tastes, smells, touching, exploring..all becomes more fine tuned...It becomes about pleasing all the senses, including that 6th one we hear of so often. | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
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Posted: 12/8/2004 2:29:28 PM | i hear after 30 it gets way better..
with my ex it was a chore...avioded...loveless and hated.
with my bf now..its like opening up a xmas gift every day...loving wanted...perfect.
Its so much nicer to even just lay there cuddling with someone who is utterly in love with you and genuinely wants needs and loves you.You feel so much more romantic..sensual..and truly sexy. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 6:19:59 PM | | I'll have one of what she's got!!!^^^^ | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 7:59:14 PM | | One of the biggest differences in my sex now and my sex earlier in life is that now, I am selective about who I share myself with. I have discovered that I really need to be conected to the person before I explore sex with her. I can still meet someone and end up in the bedroom and probably regret it, and I don't like the way that makes me feel afterwards, so I try to limit it..but I am a man, and occasional opportunist. As far as the practice of sex, I think I have somewhat mastered the art of non verbal communication in the bedroom, I like to really spend time prior to penetration getting the hormones so built up that a euphoric atmosphere is developed when that is possible. I also at this time, know what it means to be both the aggressor and submissive, and can play a variety of roles to keep the sex good for more than just a week or two.. | |
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Posted: 12/8/2004 8:52:00 PM | | Sex has been better - way better- now that I am over 50 | |
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