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 FRÊCKLËS~JÕ~®
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 1
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Any one else get pissed off when ya write to another and not get a reply..
I reply to 99.99% of my mail unless they are a total looser or a *SS...
my 2 cent's for the day....
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 X™
Joined: 1/6/2005
Msg: 2
WTF..... GRRRRRRR
Posted: 10/7/2005 1:38:19 PM
never has happeend to me
 Sweet_Secret
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/7/2005 1:39:27 PM
I'll try not to reply next time X...just so you can have a new experience...and yeah it sucks!
 nrk
Joined: 3/31/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/7/2005 1:39:49 PM
no...I just assume they are not interested and move on....

course...I never write first....

and I only reply to about 60%-70% of the mail I get...some of it isn't worth the calories I'd burn by typing a response
 Got Love?
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/7/2005 1:57:09 PM
sorry, I havent noticed that...most people here are pretty friendly & curtious...I have had all my emails answered, & I have answered to all the ones I have recieved....but hey, not everyone is the same....dont be too discouraged by it...and hey...Happy Thanksgiving!
 Rock-Solid
Joined: 10/1/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:33:56 PM
Been there and just moved on, POF in the ocean...
 pinball wizard
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/7/2005 9:06:11 PM
OT:I don't reply most of the time, sorry but its not my fault you are a fat slob and have 8 kids by 8 dads, do I really need to explain why I am not interested in you?

or the ones with no pic but tell me they are nice and not ugly and I am missing out if I don't chat with them, sorry but Pin wants to see who he is talking to, not interested in chatting with faceless strangers
 1962Classic
Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 10/7/2005 9:07:49 PM
i get lots of no replies. but then, I only do it to make NMH feel better about himself. a modicum of courtesy and all.
 Tic-Tac
Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/7/2005 9:21:12 PM
I never get replies.. Maybe I'm not as hot as I once thought I was. Meh.. no worries. I know I'm better than most people on this site anyway

Or not...
 Doc Sage
Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/7/2005 10:14:40 PM
__I find that the no reply don't bug me anymore. I sort of expect it.
__What really bugs me is the not read/delete.

Doc
 NervousMrMister
Joined: 8/24/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/7/2005 10:17:19 PM
I feel your pain!

..and thanks Classic!..I think.
 michelle82
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/8/2005 12:15:03 AM

PIN'S Post( I screwed up copy)
OT:I don't reply most of the time, sorry but its not my fault you are a fat slob and have 8 kids by 8 dads, do I really need to explain why I am not interested in you?


I don't have 8 kids pin...lmao

I am very guilty for not responding, and honestly when I don't get a response I just simply take it as he's not interesed....No need to take it personally.
 1962Classic
Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/8/2005 1:51:52 AM
NMH, you want to feel my pain? Bend over.
 BrianG
Joined: 5/16/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/8/2005 6:07:13 AM
I rarely get those now, I did when I had my 'hell froze over' sign up but that was taken away from me by the forum gods in their big anti-non-picture sweep. I did however get a unread-deleted the other day and was a little shocked at first but pffffft... who cares. I was warning her that putting her email addy in her profile was not only an idiot move but its against the TOS and she could get booted. So it's no skin off my a$$ that she didn't take the time to read it.
 bane999
Joined: 2/12/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/8/2005 6:54:02 AM
lol i get about 40 % replied i think maybe 50%
 Doc Sage
Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/8/2005 7:10:14 AM
__Back in my early day's, I used to write to many. Non reply was the norm.
__Lately, things have change. Having being involved in a few group activities and having posted in many threads, I must get close to 100% reply to my Emails. But again I only Email to fishes who I have met in person or who I have prior "talk" to in the past because of something I wrote.
__No complaint.

Doc
 islguy66
Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/8/2005 12:50:47 PM
seems like an epidemic of non replies. I can't remember the last reply I got. Except for SS yesterday.
 kas*
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/8/2005 2:38:48 PM
I don't email people..i let people email me..but i've had some people email me and i'll reply but they'll read and than delete...guess what i would say wasn't interesting enough? lol

can't take it personally...just laugh it off and smile...you know what they're missing out on :D
 mobiledj
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/8/2005 3:02:02 PM
Hmmm you all getting emails. Damn I dont even get the chance to delete lol
 welder_guy
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 20
When ya write to another and not get a reply..
Posted: 10/8/2005 3:24:07 PM
i think I got banned?

edit: nope... for some reason though it won't let me post in all the threads.
 nuthafish
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 21
When ya write to another and not get a reply..
Posted: 10/8/2005 3:32:52 PM
well, yeah???????????

non-replies? guess we - especially the guys - just have to take it as it comes - is it any different to being brushed off or ignored by someone in a pub etc????

That's life - move along and enjoy the good times?
 robert_paulson
Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 22
When ya write to another and not get a reply..
Posted: 10/8/2005 3:41:03 PM
When you are used to rejection in person, virtual disintrest is easy to handle.

Dont sweat the small stuff.
 puppylove
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 23
When ya write to another and not get a reply..
Posted: 10/8/2005 3:47:20 PM
On the other side of this, what would people like to hear if you aren't interested? I used to keep their message forever, putting off responding back because I didn't know how to do so in the most tactful way if I wasn't interested. One of my guy friends told me he would way rather get at least "not interested" then nothing at all and since then I have done so with of course nice'ites (if that's a word) attached. I find I've had thank you's back for bothering to respond and have breathed a sigh of relief "yeh, he didn't take it personally!", but there have been a few that have totally blown up & taken it to ego I guess...
 nuthafish
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 24
When ya write to another and not get a reply..
Posted: 10/8/2005 3:55:42 PM
^^^^ puppy....
A simple "thanks, but I dont feel we're suited - best of luck in your search" - that's just great..

The people that can't take that and "blow up"? Well, they're just plain weirdos
 puppylove
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 25
When ya write to another and not get a reply..
Posted: 10/8/2005 4:22:38 PM
^Thanks for your input hqw, usually works...except for the persistent fishies that come back with "how do you think we're not suited?", lol. Gladly not the norm.
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