| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 9:11:54 PM | Have you any of you guys dated women who had ONLY guy friends? I wonder how those relationships went and whether you were able to deal with the fact that she would hang out only with guys.
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 9:14:58 PM | | Maybe she grew up with a housefull of brothers and just can't relate to feminine behavior? I know a couple of woman that prefer non-romantic male relationships than the typical gal pal cliques, and that's what their story was. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 9:22:11 PM | I hang out mostly with men...doesn't change a thing...and it's not sexual so it shouldn't be a concern?
If I wanted a romantic relationship with them, I'd have one by now!
I would think a man could feel more secure that a woman has male friends and doesn't sleep with them, lends itself to a certain type of strength and trust doesn' t it? | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 9:37:12 PM | I hang out with mostly men for several reasons...most of which will get me killed on here...
1)men are funny...and aren't hung up on silly shit.
2) men do NOT spend the majority of their time talking about relationships and why so and so doesn't like them...this can get annoying.
3) men are not catty! meaning I don't spend time with my male friends listening to them talk about how that guys ass is bigger than theirs. It's really a downer for me to listen to some women talk. I honestly..grew up with all guys and I can relate better to guys. Just a preference but I only have a few girlfriends...and they are very down to earth...not girly girls. :)
Women please don't take offense...I am just being honest here. :) | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 9:40:22 PM | well said Smile 
I to have many male friends, I'm just one of the guys...I find women to be to catty at times, don't get me wrong, I do have female friends as well, I have two best friends one is female the other male.. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 9:45:47 PM | | See country that's the reason I love reading your posts...great minds think alike hehe :) | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/8/2005 11:37:51 PM | ^^^ I agree. I prefer hanging with the guys anyday. No offense ladies.
You tell a woman something and typically she'll run with it and add and add to it. Basically you can tell a guy something and he only 1/2 listens and chances are won't repeat it. | |
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shivan
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Joined: 9/12/2005
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 12:50:40 AM | Women are smart. They know all the games other women play. Men are stupid. They fall for all these tricks. A woman with only guy friends have only guy friends because they are skilled at manipulating men to do whatever they want and can treat them however they want. However, they cannot do the same to women.
I haven't dated a woman with ONLY guy friends but I know people who have. The woman I knew did all the above.....had woman friends but lost them over jealousy issues with other men.
Understand this is a generalization but I would be very careful if I found out a woman I was dating had only guy friends. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 1:01:22 AM | | Shivan, my theory is "the guy friends" are actually acting 3x or 4x as friendly towards the "female friend" cause, well Sigmun Fried knows why. Meanwhile women are just acting normal towards each other or 1x friendly, unless they are bi then its 2x as friendly. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 4:34:45 AM | I mostly hang out with guys because of all the same reasons as "smile"
I also grew up in a all male family and can relate better with men. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 4:54:16 AM | I 100% agree with you too! You are right girls are catty and all they like to talk about is gossip and girly stuff! I would rather get dirty by working on a car or something exciting!
I like asking guys what they think to get a perspective! | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 5:28:12 AM |
Women are smart. They know all the games other women play. Men are stupid. They fall for all these tricks. A woman with only guy friends have only guy friends because they are skilled at manipulating men to do whatever they want and can treat them however they want. However, they cannot do the same to women.
Sorry that is a generalization...my guy friends are the first to bust me out in any situation and it is great. Like when you are walking and you trip...hell they will follow me for an hour laughing at that. And none of them can be manipulated by me...cuz all of them have women in their lives. Hence if I were to try to manipulate them...well...then I'd have problems with their women...and I don't...perhaps it's an age thing..but trust me...my guy friends are just friends...and all of them are like brothers to me. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 5:33:46 AM | I totally enjoy my friends company - all women. They are clever, witty and funny.
Neither of us would want it any other way, nor would my gf. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 6:19:30 AM |
A woman with only guy friends have only guy friends because they are skilled at manipulating men to do whatever they want and can treat them however they want.
I have a few close girlfriends, but like a lot of the other women have said, most of my friends are men. I find them easier to hang around with. More laid back. And of course, if you're out and about, they can be your bodyguards. :)
I do not treat my man friends any different than my woman friends. I do not use them or manipulate them. They are great sources of information, they've dealt with some crazy women, and they get all my respect. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 6:40:37 AM | I mostly agree with Smile.
1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Are you kidding me? I've met catty men! The last group of guys I worked with, they would sit around and discuss who was dating whom and what they wore, etc, etc..just like my girlfriends do. And they were meaner about it!
I too have a couple of girlfriends that are not girly girls. I tend to have more in common with guys with regards to career and hobbies. | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 6:49:39 AM | I've dated a couple of girls with mostly all male friends
worked out well for me...cause most all of my friends are female | |
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| Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/9/2005 7:02:53 AM | I can understand why a woman would want guy friends, after all there are many intelligent women out there that may, occasionally wish to have an intelligent conversation.
Or they might be big sports fans, like the Three Stooges, drink lots of beer or want to learn how to write their name in a snowbank.
Seriously, anyone that has issues about their prospective mates friends, male or female, would probably need to look elsewhere. Who doesn't have friends of the opposite sex? | |
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