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Posted: 12/7/2004 1:13:01 PM | okay, so I posted before about a 20 yr. old guy (I'm 24, 25 tomorrow) that sells memberships at my gym. So I don't know if he's single, was thinking about asking him out, but am getting discouraged.
so today I go into his office area to talk to him. he was playing with some screen thing on his computer and kept asking me if i could see his screen (to see if it was working). so i stood up, leaned in really close and he pulled back in his seat. my hair may have been in his face or i may have gotten too close and made him uncomfortable. so i stayed there for a little while hoping he would lean in again, looked at him, he was looking at me, but he did not lean back in again.
so I sat back down, mentioned tomorrow is my b-day, he said really? and wrote it down on a sheet of paper.
so a woman walks in ( i think it was one of his bosses) & starts working at the desk next to him. he starts showing her this new screen thing they got for his computer, gets up & goes to her desk & starts talking to people at the desk on the other side of her. (they were asking him some stuff, so I guess they kind of pulled him away from his boss).
i was completely dumbfounded. i just got up and left. isn't this totally rude? i was sitting right across from him at his desk & he just gets up & starts talking to other people w/o even saying anything to me. i felt like i wasn't even there.
so what do you guys think of his behavior? i'm so upset with him...i don't even think i like him anymore (at least not at the moment) | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 1:36:47 PM | | Well I am no exprt but he basically showed no interest in you. Either that or the guy is way to dense for you and would most likely just use you or get what he wants and dump you. Like i said i am no expert but he missed an opening there and then again he might not realize you are interested. Sometimes men are a bit dense and need a quick kick in the butt to make them realize stand up and take note to what is happening around them. But for the record if you ever leaned across my desk and was that close I might try and kiss you! LOL | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 4:50:58 PM | Happy Birthday. 
I agree with wolf. Some guys are just not that perceptive. Or maybe he felt the sexual tension and get nervous so he ried to act nonchalant and then overacted. Who knows. Trying to logically figure out a guy's actions is like trying to balance a pen on its tip. Pointless and frustrating. But women (myself included) do it anyway.  | |
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Posted: 12/7/2004 9:22:58 PM | | I don't think I'd be upset with someone about that, but I'd definitely forget any aspirations... He sounds like a very insensitive person. I'd drop him like cold runny feces... | |
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Posted: 12/9/2004 8:23:24 AM | Thanks for your responses!
I don't think I was upset with him...just the situtation. Ideally, it would have been nice if I could have had more of his attention. I've decided to move on...the are pof in the sea...can't waste my time on just one! | |
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Posted: 12/9/2004 10:11:59 AM | hello shuuemura, it might be that he was feeling nervous around women, but then u say that he went off to talk to..some other women.
or you may have slightly stunned him by jumping on top of his body like that (jk)..if im not expecting it, i can get stunned by a woman jumping on top of me, even if its a woman i like. ive gotta be in the mood for it.
i guess you could have planned it better, cos you won't know 4 sure now. BUT, the truth is he probably wasnt interested..he may have noticed you looking at him before, most men are _not_ dumb. i know the difference between a girl accidentally leaning into me, and a girl finally making a move after weeks of stares and looks. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2004 9:59:45 PM | did he do anything for your birthday
you said he it wrote down...
if that lady was one of his bosses, it may have intimidated him
doesn't want to get cought flerting at work... | |
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