| Spray me, degrade me?
Posted: 10/18/2005 7:59:09 AM | I've only been with one man, and I'm not sure if I'm just wierd or do other women feel the same.
I find that cumming in the face is just plain degrading? I had a very nasty fight with the one man I was with about it. I said I thought it was something that felt wrong to me, and he said that if done in the right way (a loving way) that it could be a great thing. I just don't see how it could be "loving" I mean how "loving" can it be to be like "here Biatch, I'm in control" "I'm the man and you are the whore" Thats what it seem like to me more of a control issue not a "I love you dear, let me cum in your face" Any thoughts on this? Or am I way off base here? Am I being a prude? I like to think I can go with the flow, but is there some where to draw the line? | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:06:06 AM | | I think that it is only degrading if done by a man in who is trying to hurt you, emotionally or physically. I have no problems with it probably because I have never been in a controlling relationship, I am not worried that he is doing it to show power. Basically when it comes to sex women hold the power in their hands and whats wrong with making your man feel a little powerful every now and then. (Totally think that you should never do something that you are not comfortable with) | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:19:33 AM | | I understand what you're saying, but it depends on the two people. What two people choose to do together isn't degrading, if both people agree to it. If they're in a loving, caring, relationship, then it isn't degrading to either of them, IMO...but if it's a case of the man treating the woman in an unemotional manner, like she's some whore or just any warm body, and not the woman he loves, then I imagine it can be degrading to the woman. I have no idea what it would be like for the man in the latter circumstance, although it sounds like he'd be a really insecure individual. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:41:01 AM | | its only degrading if he does it knowing you feel degraded by it. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:45:18 AM | | i've always hated the thought of it.. and never allowed a guy to cum ON my face. there are so many oher palces for it.. ive never really had most protest. I just say no. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 8:49:37 AM | | ^^^Agree 100%! So totall, many other places! | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:03:46 AM | | well, i have to agree with you, i personally do not see anything sexual about it other than a guy getting his rocks off and degrading a chic at the same time.... | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:14:32 AM | | What a bunch of crybabies. God forbid you do something that pleases the guy. If after all the time of being with this one guy you can't do something like that for him.....you ARE the odd duck. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:17:56 AM |
I find that cumming in the face is just plain degrading?
Yes...very degrading and downright disgusting.  | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:21:03 AM | | Welp hey,,count me in then as an odd duck too cuz i would never let a man do that in my face either. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:26:15 AM | What a bunch of crybabies. God forbid you do something that pleases the guy.
A bunch of crybabies?!
How would you like a guy to cum on YOUR face? Huh? Didn't think so.
If that's what a guy wants, then he can saunter over to the corner of Yonge and Bloor and PAY for it. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:35:30 AM | | Yeah a bunch of crybabies! There are things a couple just do to please one another. I bet you Mrs Clever even did it for Mr. Clever. Go back to your convent! | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:42:38 AM | | I don't look at it as degrading...i look at it as a job well done...see how you made me feel type of thing.. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:45:43 AM | | and by the way if i am allowed to cum on his face why isn't he allowed to cum on mine? I love it when i cum on his face and its still dripping down his chin when he comes up to kiss me..but to each his own..we all have are own little likes and dislikes...that's what makes the world not so boring | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:46:18 AM | its only degrading if he does it knowing you feel degraded by it.
VERY WELL PUT.To each his own.Some women do like it,it's like porn and strip clubs,some women eschew it for the same reasons you mention about the messy face,they feel degraded.What couples need to do is COMMUNICATE their sexual wants and needs BEFORE things like this become an issue. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 9:46:19 AM | I have never wanted to...
Not sure what kind of guys your dealing with...
Perhaps they think they are porn stars and you are making a movie with them... | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:12:12 AM | Yardape, you have no right to come in here and disrespect others for their opinion, some one is not a cry baby just because they feel a certain way.
ladies some guys just think this is hot, I personally agree that there are far better places to put it, don't really like to cum outside, but if it is to be, the back is kinda hot.
on top of it all, I love to kiss after I get off, I don't know a guy that would enjoy the prospect of kissing a messed on face......... ewwwwww.
I know it is mine and what should I care.....just one of those taboo things for me.
yardape, again if you are going to post a comment to a topic in which your opinion varies keep an open mind, and don't post things that show your ignorant side.
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:19:10 AM | Dear "upstandingguy"
I am entitled to say whatever I want in the context of the thread. You coming in trying to play "hero" is just ridiculous. I guess that is your only angle to get the ladies. Hopefully for your sake, it works. I have an open mind, but when someone compares it to the act of a prostitute, then I will reply in kind (hey that rhymed).
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:24:50 AM | ladies some guys just think this is hot, I personally agree that there are far better places to put it, don't really like to cum outside, but if it is to be, the back is kinda hot.
Apparently this is something that is an offshoot from the porn industry.It's visual,therefore it can be filmed and men are primarily visual,external creatures,opposite from females.My dad,who had been around the block with the ladies a time or two,saw this in a porn film I was screening one night(16mm film,I used to clean and repair film prints back in the day for people).He saw a cum shot and commented,"Damn,what a waste of a good hard on." | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:40:40 AM | | You're not odd. Some women like it, others don't.Not really a big deal either way. If the woman doesn't like it, then the man should not try and talk her into it. Anything between 2 adults is ok, however both must agree and be comfortable. If there is something one partner doesn't want to do something, then the other partner should respect that. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:43:22 AM | LIsten to all the pot shots here because a few ladies don't like it.
What the hell is wrong with you men. They said they didn't like it ok? Do you have to put them down for it?
Selfish , selfish, selfish...me me me and my d*ick.
Go find a girl who likes it and shut up with your putdowns on others personal preferences.
It isn't right or wrong to like it or not, it's a personal issue and not worthy of attacking or putting anyone down for. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:43:24 AM | I can't believe guys actually ask women to do that? Who are these guys? My god, lol.
I have always thought of it as degrading to the woman, and have never done it, nor asked to do it to someone. As mentioned earlier, many more, and better places for it! | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 10:44:47 AM | | ewwwwwwww that is just sooooooooooooooooooooooo NASTY!!!!!!!! never would i ALLOW that to happen. | |
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| Am I the odd duck?
Posted: 10/18/2005 12:12:56 PM | | Sometimes it just happens ....... Whoops sorry about that baby !! :) | |
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