| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 12:11:03 PM | I find it hard to figure out why most women in the world only like "Fit guys"
There is a whole following for plus size women so why not men ?
If you think about it all the fit guys will have a gut by the time they are 40 so why not date a guy with one now and get use to it ?
This way when you look back on your wedding photos you wont wonder "what happened to the guy that i married?"
This is just some thoughts I have on a rain day downtown
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 3:15:21 PM | | its a primordial thing.......women are insecure about men who are outta shape, cuz in ancient times you had to be in-shape in order to be a good provider......you didn't have much of a chance running from a bear if you were too fat! | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 4:00:51 PM | | For me, the word "fit" is not so much about poundage, but about usage. I am personally interested in someone that wants to be active (up OFF the couch for more than a bathroom or chips break). A "fit" guy might be carrying an extra 20 pounds, but he's still able to ride a bike, or take a hike, or other things I like. | |
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| My theory on big guys (no not talking about his *****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 6:04:02 PM | its a primordial thing.......women are insecure about men who are outta shape, cuz in ancient times you had to be in-shape in order to be a good provider......you didn't have much of a chance running from a bear if you were too fat!
Essentially accurate. However, primitive man didn't have the .416 Remington Magnum rifle and the .500 Linebaugh revolver. I'm 48 years old and enjoy hunting bears; there isn't a black bear on the planet that could make me want to run. As to brown bears... well, I'm just too old and too slow and too set in my ways to run. I also have a .416 Remington Magnum and a .500 Linebaugh... and I can handle both. As to being a good provider... I would think women would want a guy who would stand his ground, not run -- from a bear or anything/anyone else. As for being in shape, that's subjective... one of those "beholder" things.
As an aside... there isn't a human on the planet who can outrun a motivated brown bear. They aren't the big, slow, dumpy things some people make them out to be. More correctly, when well-motivated, they're like a speeding freight train on four paws. Plenty of muscle, plenty of speed... much, MUCH faster than you'd imagine. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 7:26:29 PM | I don't mind a guy with a gut, as long as he's still healthy! I would have married Chris Farley (until I found out he was doing drugs and prostitutes) because he's so damn funny. I don't give a crap about looks, imagine smiling or laughing almost every moment of the day!! That would mean way more to me! That's what makes a person attractive really... to me anyways.  | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 7:41:04 PM | | I've gone out with many different types of men...I don't immediately write someone off because they are carrying a few extra pounds. Being fat is different. I've never been interested in obese men. | |
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chinua
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Joined: 9/30/2005
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ksue44
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Joined: 6/20/2005
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 8:27:51 PM | I prefer my man that when he bends his head down he can see his feet. Just like the word "average", there are varying degrees of what "fit" is. Same thing with slim people, they can have the bingo arms. You can have a person that is 20 pounds overweight (by the medical charts), yet they are competing in marathons & triathlete types of events.
I think men and women ask each other "what happened to the one I married", sounds pretty natural to me. It can be negative and yet it can also turn out to be positive. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/19/2005 9:41:41 PM |
Posted By: Steely M on 10/19/2005 1:11 :03 PM
If you think about it all the fit guys will have a gut by the time they are 40 so why not date a guy with one now and get use to it ?
Not all men. I'm 42 and have no beer gut. Still wear the same size pants as I did 20 years ago. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/20/2005 8:31:10 AM | Women seems to accept big men before men except big women. I think too that personality has a lot to do with it in both sexes. If you are comfortble with yourself and what we look like then that is the persona that you give off. If you think you are then you are.  | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/21/2005 11:10:42 AM | Well this has become an interesting topic but I see most responces are from guys or women that are mature which is what I expected
Heres a thought
Mature women like to see what is inside before judging? a guy
I would like to see what some others have to say about this maybe from north of the border
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/21/2005 11:19:36 AM | windra7878 has it exactly right.
I've been hinted at that I should loose some weight
by men who should get a face lift, stop smoking cause they look like a
sharpei puppy (spell?), or have no back side.
Who am I to tell someone that they should look like a model when their parentage
demands they look like charley tuna?
Thank goodness, as we age, men seem to open their eyes to real life facts.
Women do... women may be more aware at a younger age as to realities.
Remember the old adage told to young men.
Look at a girls' mother before you commit.
That's assuming the girl doesn't have an ugly dad. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/21/2005 11:39:44 AM | I would have to agree with lcinla in that I am more interested in a guy who is fit. I don't go by the height to weight ratio but rather by how active they are.
I've seen guys who look like they are in great shape gasp after 3 flights of stairs and yet others, who had extra poundage, spend an entire day hiking up mountains and not seem the least bit winded.
From what I've read on the forums, it seems that the biggest drawback for these guys is that they are judged first on physical appearance. What a shame.
"I still give importance to appearance, although I came across some idiots very well dressed." ~ Michael Levine | |
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chinua
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Joined: 9/30/2005
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/21/2005 9:01:54 PM | I am assuming you are talking about fat big guys and not big guys in general. I had this conversation with my sister not so long ago about her ex-husband who let himself go and here are her words ... His big gut stuck out so much he could not see his****anymore when he looked down .. This was not sexy .. Since he could not see his****when he peed he often missed the toilet .. How gross and disgusting .. this was not sexy. His ass was soft and mushy .. definitely not sexy like it used to be. .. His man boobs were bigger than her boobs.. Yuck! ..As he got fat and did not care about his health or appearance he became slovenly in his hygene habits. After a while all she could see was this big pig who was addicted to food and would not exercise so she had no respect for him. Unfortunately the attitude she has now seems to carry forward to all fat guys she meets since she feels it is a certain lack of discipline and self respect that these guys have lost. Since she is a doctor she knows that no one came out of a concentration camp fat so the equation is calories in + calories burned = how much fat is left over for your body to store. Too much food and not enough excercise results in obesity.
Also, last and not least she also said his****got fat and soft too and with his gut sticking out so far it was difficut to acheive proper penetration. How digusting too for a woman who enjoys that type of sex.
So there you have it .. a real story about a stud who became a "big guy" as you put it. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/24/2005 6:02:59 PM | | Of all the messages posted on here.....this one is the closest to the truth. Women are shallow like that .......first impressions. I still would like to believe that real ladies will give the guy a chance. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/24/2005 6:24:42 PM | I personally would be more attracted to a "big"="fat" guy before I would be attracted to a skinny or "fit" guy. One reason that I feel this way is that skinny or fit guys tend to like themselves way more than I ever could! lol I like those huggable big guys.
The other thing is that I don't feel comfortable around men who are way thinner than I am. I've not been thin since first grade. I'm ok with me as I am. I am bettering myself all the time, but I certainly don't want someone counting every bite I take.
I want to be accepted for the fun-loving, caring, kind, intelligent,humorous,christian, honest, loving, passionate woman that I am. That's all!
I do understand that some people say they aren't attracted to "fat" people. I think they just don't want other people to see them with "fat" people. The U.S. has become obsessed with weight. Let's get obsessed with great personalities! Let's put a stigma on rude, obnoxious, & hateful people. | |
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jimb77
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Joined: 8/30/2005
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/25/2005 4:38:06 AM | if a person can't take care of their body, did they take care of anything else? it is sign of laziness. I mean a few lbs. over the years is normal, I am talking about a blob or blobess. | |
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| My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****)
Posted: 10/25/2005 5:42:23 AM | All I can say is "Isn't it a pity that God didn't use a cookie cutter when he made us" then we would all look like beauty queens and muscle men. I'm sorry but that would make a very very boring world to live in. Thank the powers that be that some men love big women and some women love big men, to the rest of you, better watch your karma.  | |
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