| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:21:55 PM | | anyone who has had a baby probably has stretch marks (unless you're lucky) so my question is this: for the men, do they gross you out or bother you in any way? please be honest, we won't get mad! ok and for the ladies, are you self-concious about your stretch marks or do they not bother you? remember, be honest! | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:34:44 PM | Strech marks dont bother me at all, realy the only hang up I have is women who dont look after there bodys. Other than that its all about who she realy is that turns me on.
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:40:22 PM | Being a father, I like them and what they represent.
I find them beautiful and love kissing them. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:45:29 PM | | mine don't bother me but i have a friend who absolutely hates hers. she tries all these creams to get rid of them but nothing works. | |
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Roaul
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Joined: 4/14/2004
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/9/2004 10:16:37 PM | | I look at them like wrinkles...you really can't do much in the long run to prevent them...It's all about genetics really.. You can try creams, etc...but once you have em, why worry about them... Be proud of them..You had a baby...Just try and do something about those parts of your body that you can. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 2:15:26 AM | | i think everyone has stretchmarks. ive never been fat... im a size 3 ive never had children and im a virgin... i still have stretchmarks on my inner thighs and a little on my ass. :( wierd. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 5:24:28 AM | i love my stretch marks,they represent what a brought in to this world,my daughter xxxxx
if a man dont like them he dont have 2 look or touch xxxx | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 9:05:07 AM | | not at all. the last girl i was with her um Husband ( well i'm sure you guys all read my other posts lol sorry if you haven't) made fun of her for sher marks. i would kiss them and tell her just how beutiful she was in my eyes. SOmetimes its our imperfections, that make us who we are. although streach marks are definitly not an imperfection. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 9:15:23 AM | | nah , stretch marks dont bother me at all in fact I hardly notice them at all . hey just be in good shape and have a good atitude and LET LOVE DO WHAT IT DO | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 9:30:28 AM | i dont find them attractive in them self and think the same girl with out them may be more appealling (body wise)..... but they wouldnt (and dont) bother me a bit. Then again i'm not a father but i can totally see how they can be attractive when its a result of your kid so maybe someday my whole view here will completely change.
My personal opinion.... dont worry about them, I'm not a thing of physical perfection and dont expect anyone else to be either. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 12:17:46 PM | | Myself- I've had stetch marks even before having my kids. I'm a little self conscious about them, mostly during summer or something. But overall, they're part of who I am and I'm finally accepting that. My friend's husband called them "love marks" when she freaked about hers (really low self esteem), she finally began to accept them then, especially after she saw her daughter. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 12:44:48 PM | | Stretch marks don't bother me at all..........unshowered and not being familiar with anti-perspirant/deodorant.......THAT bothers me..... | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 6:51:34 PM | | I was so worried about getting stretch marks before the birth of my daughter. Then one day, I resigned myself to the fact that there was nothing I could do about them. Who cares, it just part of nature. I never did get them after having three children. However, I think they can't possibly make someone less attractive. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 11:11:52 PM | | jeeze you men on here are sooo nice! how come there are none of you where i live? | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/10/2004 11:14:43 PM | | my ex said to me one night, "i cant beleive you still have stretch marks." DUH!!!!! they are scars, they dont go away!!! what an idiot. it hurt my feelings so much, we got into a huge fight and he left in the middle of the night. he also would compare me to other women whose stretch marks were supposably not as bad as mine were. oh and the worst part is, the reason i had the dang things is because i carried HIS daughter for 9 months. no wonder i'm not with him anymore. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/11/2004 3:50:47 AM | | To Holly: Honey...you have such a beautiful heart, mind, soul and spirit. I betcha those stretch marks look quite sexy. I don't have any stretch marks. Lol. I definately am self conscious about a few things. I think we all have something. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/11/2004 4:03:16 AM | | Just to add....Those stretch marks are there to just remind you of how much the love and compassion in your heart has expanded. | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/11/2004 8:57:51 AM | | guess I was lucky..3 babies and no stretch marks....I dated a guy..ex football player and his whole upper chest and arms were covered in them...it didnt bother me....and also knew a man who had some on his butt...not sure how that hapened as he was always the same size...maybe when he was really young???? who knows | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:00:35 AM | thank you morethanfriends
to Cathleen, I don't blame you for being pissed that your ex made that comment how rude!!! I am self conscious about them, but have never had anyone point them out or make comments. Bottom line is, I would take back my pre pregnant body if it meant giving back my babies :) | |
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| do stretch marks bother you?
Posted: 12/11/2004 3:39:30 PM | Some stretch marks can be a turn-on depending on the nature of it. For example, some men have them on their shoulders, and I take it to mean that they were a result of rapid muscle growth.
I have some on the front of my hips and that's because I grew womanly hips practically overnight. I really don't mind them. But I also have one (yes, one single inch long mark) on my left knee, and THAT bothers a little.
Heh, I knew this guy who told one of my girlfriends that they were his "tiger stripes."  I think that's a good attitude to have with them. | |
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