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 prettykitty

Joined: 3/28/2004
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Posted: 12/10/2004 2:23:33 AM
ok weeeeeeeeee.... there is this guy and he works at a skatestore... every time i see him when im about to leave he gives me a hug usually he says aww come here and then hugs me... but last time i said it to him and i felt like i forced the hug on him. but he offered a hug to my aunt first... shes old i know he isnt into her... but he always hugs her 2. usually hugs her first then me... sometimes he will just low five me... one time he squeezed my hand for a few seconds. i know he is single ive known him for the whole summer just about but ive only talked to him like 7 times. so does he or doesnt he?
 i_am_nad

Joined: 7/18/2004
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Posted: 12/10/2004 2:33:32 AM
just be cool....can you be cool????? i bet you can be cool......just go with it. brush him off a little bit. make him work. if he works he digs ya, if doesn't....well i 'm sure you can finger it out eh! but just play it cool.....
 The office perv

Joined: 2/26/2004
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Posted: 12/10/2004 3:22:39 AM
Don't no if he like's you or not,but why don't you just come out and ask him??

p.s Must be a great place to work everybody giving out hug's,it's totally different where i work,if i tried that i'd be getting done for sexual harrasment..lol...
 reeferjones

Joined: 2/12/2005
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Posted: 5/2/2005 9:22:38 PM
Well...I work in construction so I can hONEStly say I'm glad it's a "NO HUG" zone......that goes for two people going into the outhouse at the same time......but to get back on topic.....he's(at your age anyways)either Gay...and he feels that yer gettin "into "him a lil more then what he's comfortable with ,or he's like the worlds nicest guy and isn't inot you and doesnt wanna hurt your feelings by bangin yer ass with no real intentions of any other kind of relationship.One things for sure...he ain't shy!
But hey....I could be wrong........just that this time I've got a 50/50 chance!
 isellavon1982

Joined: 4/27/2005
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Posted: 5/2/2005 9:33:50 PM
ok, other than the hug situation, have you shown any interest in him? he could be just a nice guy, but also maybe he's into you, and doesn't think you're into him because you haven't given him any signals. if not, you need to start giving him signals. or just come out and ask him if he wants to go somewhere, if you're not comfortable asking him on a date, ask him to go somewhere with a bunch of friends. more social/relaxed situation, he may be more inclined to say yes, and then you can see whether or not you like each other for who you are, not just little chats and hugs at the skatestore. good luck, i hope everything works out for the best!

Becky
 GentleHand

Joined: 3/5/2004
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Posted: 5/2/2005 9:43:46 PM
I don't think he's gay,
I think he's into you..
Hugging your aunt first, is a sign of respect to you...
the lingering hand squeeze, i've done that, only when i've been interested...
take notice, is he huggin other women he works with/knows that comes there etc???

You haven't let us know if YOUR intersted in him? If you are, flirt with him for a few, take not of his reaction, for all you know, he may be gay, and may tell you!
OR, he may be into you...

this is what i dont' get,,

people, the worst thing in the world they can do, is say NO, it's not gonna hurt you, u may get a "no" 9 times out of 10, but you'll get ONE yes im sure.

anyhow



good luck.
 reeferjones

Joined: 2/12/2005
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Posted: 5/2/2005 10:02:32 PM
well and the other point is...if you dON"T Ask the answers allrEADY "NOo"...
 JessKO

Joined: 1/18/2005
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Posted: 5/2/2005 10:46:06 PM
He likes you enough to hug you.

Enjoy the hugs and wait for him to have the guts to ask for your number.


He might just be one of those happy flirty guys who likes to hug everyone.
 GentleHand

Joined: 3/5/2004
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Posted: 5/3/2005 3:48:02 AM
yeah i've known a few of those, hugging everyone for no reason other then to hug them, those peole annoy me, i don't like being randomly hugged, especially by someone of the same sex,

gosh how can people be so up beat like that all the time. LOL
 keeley120

Joined: 11/27/2004
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Posted: 5/3/2005 4:59:18 AM
^^^^u mean...this? hehe...why don't you casually suggest a movie u're thinking about seeing, or other activity...and ask if he likes it or not...see if he pursues the thought...?
 Mrslucci

Joined: 7/6/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 4:58:44 AM
He could be just a hugger like some ppl are cheek kissers.Ask him for a coffee or just ask him out if u r interested.

Oh wow this thread is old,so is he still a huggin or is it now a buggin?
 w82b

Joined: 5/9/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 5:26:22 AM
If he wanted things to progress he would have made it happened. Just because you adore him over others doesn't mean its reciprocated.

Maybe he likes you as you are and doesn't want to go further.
 vic2005agoodguy

Joined: 8/9/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 6:14:08 AM
Just ask him to go out with you on a date. If he says no then its only a rejection and if he says yes well then you got yourself a date and possible boy. At least you know then.
 POF123

Joined: 7/5/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 6:17:50 AM
just ask em out! whats the worst that can happen?
 crystalise

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 6:38:38 AM
the fact he offered to hug your aunt first is showing respect for his elders and your family in one. Shows hes a decent guy. When Im dating a guy or just start to see him, he will shake my fathers hand and kiss on cheek or hug my mother, and other family members before me. i think thats really nice and respectful

However it hink you are reading too much into this hug thing. Hugs are just hugs. Its a friend thing, Instead if you like him, you need to start talking to him more... theres no other way. Unless he asks you out first, but is been a whole summer now...and nothing. He could be shy, so start talking with him girl....

I would pay more attention to the hand squeezing. Then if you can get him talking to you more and more, after that - why dont you just get the nerve up and kiss him on the cheek goodbye one day See how he reacts. Who knows he may just kiss you back....[ but only after talking to him for a while, otherwise he will just think you're wierd]

you need to start talking to him more... time for action !!
 crystalise

Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 6:41:52 AM
ps oh hey yeh mrslucci - good spotting- this thread is OLD...they're probably married by now!!. I feel like emailing her just to find out how it went...

ahh summer love.........
 Mrslucci

Joined: 7/6/2005
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Posted: 8/20/2005 4:25:49 PM
Her age is 19,if they didn't connect i'm pretty sure she isn't wallowing about it.
 craigo1961

Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 12/31/2006 2:59:12 AM
Dear Pretty; i need more info to know, like age, has he been in a long term relationship, has he had his heart broken,? or maybe he feels intimadated by your beauty, maybe he feels he doesn't stand a chace with you, and as for my self i am as dumb as a brick when it comes to a woman being interested in me, you might have to literally grab him and show him whats what, and last but not least he could be exteremly shy. Sincerely Craigo 1961
 jollyrancherbleezie

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2007 7:17:54 PM
actually he does like u...but he doesnt work at a skateshop......and he would squeeze ur hand a lil bit....then prob. kiss ur hand....lol....gosh im so cheezy.....im talkin about me!...call me hottie!!!.....i wanna talk to u.....
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