| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 9:38:47 AM | | just wandering what whould cause someone to cheat one someone? this has puzzled people if you want to be with some one then why cheat. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 9:51:50 AM | | Guys are allways lookin for the biger better deal. And a whole sh!t load of guys are just week. At the moment when another girl is hitting on you, your current girlfirend is far from your mind, unless she is close, even then that dont stop some dudes. If he truely loved you he would say "no", hands down no hesitation. If that happend to you, that sucks, good girls get jaded that way, hang in there. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 10:00:16 AM | | yea it happened to me with the guy im seeing now. he cheated with this other girl for a month and i just hung in there till one day he decided he was wrong i guess and totally doged that girl even had his number changed so she could not call him no more. now where doing good. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 10:11:29 AM | | Once a cheater.....allways a cheater. Thats good advice, everybody deservs a second chance, just keep your eye on him. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 10:59:15 AM | why do people cheat?
insecurity
Everything that someone does all goes back to the first rule of human nature. self-preservation. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 3:01:22 PM | QUOTE: simon1234
why do people cheat?
insecurity
Everything that someone does all goes back to the first rule of human nature. self-preservation.
Self-preservation?... Excellent answer simon1234... best I've seen yet
It's not the only reason, but the best 'single' answer I've seen!
I'm impressed | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 6:30:48 PM | i dont think it madders if you r a man or a woman if you have cheated once your going to do it agian. I think that in todays lifestyles its cooler if a women dose it to a man.I dont think that its right to do it one way or another. if you r with someone u should be with that person and if you r not happy in that relationship u should break it off b4 u cheat that is a low thing to do by not ending it. Besides everything always come back to u in the end !  There's an old saying: (do 1 2 other's as you would have want done to u) | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 6:45:13 PM |
Self-preservation?... Excellent answer simon1234... best I've seen yet
It's not the only reason, but the best 'single' answer I've seen!
I'm impressed
Thank you!  | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 7:47:34 PM | They're Bored
For Revenge
For Excitement (danger of being caught)
They're Evil (like to hurt people)
They're Drunk (with little sense of commitment)
They're feeling trapped (this opens the relationship)
They want to get caught (too afraid to dump you)
Their head's so far up their a** they can't see who they're f***ing
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 8:02:25 PM | | Can I ask my ex's and get back to you on this one? | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 8:16:47 PM | well,
its just human nature to "JUST WANT MORE". No matter if your with the most wonderful person in the world, its just not enough!!! | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 8:31:56 PM | You missed one there BBQbat
Because they are Stupid, Selfish, stupid, inconsiderate, stupid.
Oh yeah did I mention Cheaters are Stupid. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 9:00:42 PM | Well I think everyone seems to have it right.
I've been cheated on, my ex-husband left me for another woman. At first it made me think
that I was the one that did something wrong. Now I just realize that he was just a jerk. I found out that he had tried quite a few times when we were married.
So as they say...once a cheater always a cheater. That is a true statement, so please watch yourself.
Take Care | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/26/2005 10:09:52 PM | | I don't know why guys cheat. I was cheated on, and I know how devastating it can be on the ego and heart. I thought I wasn't good enough/pretty enough/smart enough etc etc. I thought it was MY fault for getting cheated on at first. I know I would break up with the person before seeing someone else, it's called respect. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 4:01:01 AM | Once a cheater, always a cheater,,,, don't we evolve???
Yes, I agree with all of the above,
they cheat because they can.
Maybe we are fooling ourselves, after reading so many cheating stories, it might be that it is not in our nature to be monogamus? (however you spell that one, it is not the spelling what it counts, but the application!).
Trix
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 8:18:59 AM | | Bat you are so right, it never ceases to amaze me to see how easy one can find it to turn their back on the one they "say" they love so much and treat them like that. And it was said in a previous post that guys are looking for the bigger better deal, well, let me tell you this, it isn't ALWAYS the guys doing this, just ask my ex she'll tell you. It goes BOTH ways and is never right no matter who's doing it. And to the OP, if you took him back after cheating on you as he did, be very very careful and keep a close eye on him, because as it was said before here, once a cheater always a cheater. It may take time to have it happen again, but the odds are very high that it will happen again, be very careful and good luck. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 5:09:31 PM | abcdabcd –
People cheat because in actuality they got involved with you for the wrong reasons. If you become involved with someone not just for the sex and lovemaking and because you actually enjoy being with that person and doing whatever, being cheated on will never come about.
Men cheat and so do women. Most think they will never get caught till they get into serious trouble and catch some kind of STD.
We are so brainwashed to think that sex or physical attraction is everything. Its not! If you or someone gets involved with you, make sure its for the right reasons! | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 5:18:24 PM | People cheat mosty due to boredom.
and meeting in secret is exciting!  | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 5:21:44 PM | Wow, once a cheater always a cheater??
So once a smoker always a smoker? Once a drinker always a Drinker?
Your saying that if you do something once your always going to do it again. Glad to see you live in the dark ages. People change, and situations change, some will cheat again yes but others won't. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 5:52:59 PM | Glad to see you put some thought into that.
So your saying people don't change? | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 10:04:58 PM | | If your man cheats on you, you should leave and never look back. If he was happy with you, then he'd not look elsewhere, if he sleeps with you and then cheats, for a month, and then breaks it off, he'll do it again and again. This is the type of guy who makes the rest of us look bad and seriously damages women psychologically. Be strong girl, and kick his ass to the curb. | |
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| why do people cheat?
Posted: 10/27/2005 10:34:01 PM | | people cheat for various reason. if you want some insights into the mind of a cheat check out this guys forum in relationships called thoughts on cheating and the dynamics of marriage or something like that. some ppl think they are missing something, some ppl like to be deceptive, some ppl think they need variety, most are simply not mentally stable and unable to hold a honest relationship. some just lose their way. and other do it just to hurt someone or for revenge. my first and only love (i say "only" b/c i have yet to fall inlove again, not b/c i cant to be clear) cheated on me 2 months after we finally moved in together. and immediately moved out of my house and into his. to this day have no idea why, things appeared to be fine. i guess the grass looked greener. for her sake i hope it was. | |
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