| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:08:19 PM | I am finding that alot of *men* are getting upset with me if I dont answer their emails. The way it works for me is.. if someone doesnt respond then I know they arent interested in getting to know me.. so I move ON! But does every single person on this site, answer every single email and say.. yeah or Nay?
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mudhen
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Joined: 11/16/2004
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mudhen
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Joined: 11/16/2004
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:11:47 PM | sweetheart...i wish i had your problem...
and my thing is...don't let them beat ya down....tell you found your prince charming and tell them to look at my profile....they'll really be pissed when they see you're enamored with CHUNKY SOUP! | |
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theYG
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Joined: 12/1/2004
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:24:33 PM | Thanks newly,
curious though, when u answer them back, do they ask you why you arent interested and do u take the time to explain time and time again? | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:27:35 PM | Women do that and I think it is impolite , I look at my e-mails for ever to see if they read it
so I send them another one incase they overlooked it in all the thousands of e-mails they get .
The fact is that men really want to know a women almost any nice women , we are not to picky but women are not a serious cuz they are so picky and ignore alot of guys , they say they want quality instead of quantity , women have both and complain alot when they choose wrong , I wish I had your problem .
I just get no e-mails or responses in any site , free or paid for , I guess it is normal for men for women to treat us like that and assume through telepathy ,,,,, many things .
Women are same in clubs and bars , many give no responses to hello and their rudeness just shows how not interested they are .
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:33:15 PM | women in these kind of sites get to have their pick and do anything they want , guys
just feel leary of another unresponsive site , these sites are for women , not for guys ,
like bars and clubs , just the same , 100 guys compete , always more woman than guys
they choose only one out of the parade .
I wish I had that problem , in fact all men wished they had these choosing problems
women have . | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:35:43 PM | | Well I am sorry for the rudeness of some of the women you have met. But we all need to remember to not *clump* all women and men together. There are some great guys as there are women :) Some ppl get a ton of emails and some dont but like I said, sometimes when I respond to an email and say I am not interested, then they keep coming back with question after question bout Y this and y not that. To me thats not kool, if they are adult they should just understand that they arent my type and be ok with it right? | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:38:54 PM | | Sometimes...yes. If they want someone to talk too. I'm willing to correspond with them..I've gotten a lot from married men. I am totally upfront with them and tell them how I feel about a person in a marriage even wanting to be unfaithful. Whatever their question or email may be about...responding honestly is the best policy. If they don't like it...they shouldn't have asked. | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:40:10 PM | michellecathleen :
Maybe hon you can update your profile a bit more , put a bit more info on it..or a pic of yourself up I am sure that would help you :)
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 14 | |
| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:41:47 PM | | I have responded and sent e-mails to 100 women in my area from the age of 18 to the age of 37 , , I am not clumping , I have done this in ALOT of sites , almost seems like a census , hahaha, I am not generalizing if you lived down here and I sent you an e-mail , you would be just another in the population that does that , i guess it is common even if I generalize . | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:42:39 PM | | i know. and thats ok. see i dont have any pic of myself. my sister took some of my kids with her digital and i wanted some kind of pic because everyone else has one! like i said before, i'm not on here looking for anyone to date, for one thing i live in the boonies. i love being single. i just like to talk to people online. see i have no life. | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:44:07 PM | | i forgot to say that i have emailed a few just as friends, even women, and no one writes back. whats wrong with me? | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:49:26 PM | | Definately nothing wrong with you hon, if u want to chat I would gladly correspond with you if u like.. :) | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:52:25 PM | leonbm:
I think it depends on what ppl are looking for right? Like if your profile reads relationship and someone else has dating.. maybe thats Y they arent responding cause they are afraid of relationships.. could be that.. dont u think? | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 9:56:28 PM | | I think if you recieve an e-mail on this site you should answer it, afterall, you put your profile up and asked other people to drop you a line, if you're not interested, you should just say so, and if the person keeps on, after you have politely said no, then block them. if you want to cut down on your e-mail traffic, change your e-mail settings, set it so you don't receive mail from people over a certian age, looking for picture exchange, short term, ect, ect. But be careful what you wish for, tuning out certian groups of people based on things such as age can cause you to miss your prince charming. Bottom line you asked us to write, write back atleast once, anything less is just plain rude. | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 10:01:56 PM | nu2town :
OK I get your point but I must say, I didnt post to get told I am doing everything wrong on this dating site but to point out that not everyone does answer.. I guess I must be the only one on this site who doesnt *always* respond.. my bad i guess :( | |
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 10:07:05 PM | Naw...I don';t answer them all either....some are just nuts, so why bother???
NOT "your bad"....just good judgement, and going with your feelings. Good calls can save you a LOT of hassels, so continue what you are doing. Good luck! | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 10:09:32 PM | yna6 :
Well thankyou for that hon, started feeling that I am the only one out there that doesnt always respond to all of them. I just know every time I say that I am not interested I have to go into details and details for why I am not interested u know? | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 10:11:02 PM | You are not the only one , most women do not respond , in a women's
way of thinking , they assume it is okay not to repond so send a message that you are not interested , guys are not so intuitive like me , I assume she has not read it or seen it
sen another and feel bad . I have gotten virtually no responses to my profiles or mesages in any site.
Do not feel bummed out hunn , it is just our guys with feelings we probably should not have
afterall we are me , we should take it , grunt grunt being turned down in many ways it
is our way of life. | |
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| Just a quick question to everyone!
Posted: 12/11/2004 10:15:47 PM | leonbm:
I guess my question I posed is a very sensitive one and didnt realize I was in the minority, so I will appologize if I have irratated too many ppl on this site. | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 25 | |
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