| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 10/28/2005 10:48:16 PM | why is it that guys take advantage of the good girls. this guy that i was with for over 3 years just walked out of my life and left me with our newborn child. but like iv always said what goes around comes arround payback is a bit**...... | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 10/28/2005 11:20:12 PM | | Well congratulations on your new born, a child will bring you more happiness than anything else possibly can. I hope things go better for you in the love department. As attractive as you are I'm sure you don't have to look far, hope you find a good one. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 10/29/2005 2:15:57 AM | | well that was good of him and shows exactly what he thinks of you and your child men like that really piss me off. I left my boy's dad b4 I knew I was pregnant and the desiscion to keep my baby was mine I knew I was going to be a single mum at least I had the choice. But it's like sumxs I say to my nan I'm lonley and she's like I was married for years and still lonley how life can be even worst having a guy there. I was upset about kicking his dad out cos he is too interested in drink and drugs and the fact they call him 'united nations' cos of his love for international women didn't make things easier hahaha. But it has worked out quite well yes I have been sgl 4yrs but through choice I holding out for someone who can prove to me that I'm special to them and that having a child is a bonus not baggage tc good luck :) | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/10/2005 12:40:37 PM |  DON'T FEEL BAD, MY EX LEFT ME WITH A 3 MONTH OLD BABY BOY, HE DOESN'T EVER CALL ME TO ASK HOW OUR SON IS DOING. HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ANYTHING.. SEE THERE ARE ALOT OF GUYS OUT THERE THAT AREN'T WAT US GIRLS NEED.. WE NEED A REAL MAN TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE..SEE IT TAKES A BOY TO GET US PREGNANT BUT A REAL MAN TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE.... | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/10/2005 12:48:41 PM |  OH YA U DON'T NEED A MAN TO HELP U TAKE CARE OF UR BABY! MY BABY DOESN'T HAVE HE'S DADDY BUT HE'S DOING REALLY GOOD.. THE BABY ISN'T GONNA HATE U WHEN HE/SHE GETS OLDER. THEY WILL HATE THERE DAD.. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/10/2005 1:12:17 PM | meeting someone from an online dating site and getting knocked up
and he disappears...
would be one of the worst things to happen.
I'm sure it happens. Got to be a bad situation to be in.
Makes me glad I am past childbearing years. | |
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Posted: 11/10/2005 1:58:57 PM | | I feel you there my husband left me when i was six months pregnent for beer nice and then 6 weeks later begged for me back i was naive and said yes then while i was in labor told me it was over and walked out of the delivery room he came back 6 hours later when they were taking me for a seasection i told him to get out he didnt deserve to see his baby born some of you may not like that but he had it coming he left me to get drunk and came back 6 hours later what a sleezy thing to do to someone hes good now were seperated hes sobered up and is a great father now but id never let him back in my life i cant forgive him | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/10/2005 2:40:17 PM | makes ya wonder huh??..
If he was such an a**hole, then why were you with him in the first place? Why did you decide to get pregnant together?? Or did he just suddenly turn into an a**hole when he left?
There is always two sides to every story and to call someone that you once loved or even still love deep down (which I am sure you do) an a**hole...really is not fair. It is always terrible when a relationship turns sour but it takes two to make and to break a relationship.
I think that you should focus on your new baby..enjoy your baby while he/she is still so small and helpless. They grow up so fast.
To send out negitive energy on a failed relationship is so unhealthy, and you are right..what goes around does come around. But you shouldnt worry about it.
Just go on with your life the best you can and remember, the father of your baby still has obligations and you should see that he fulfils them. One last thing...please please please....do not use your baby as leverage..it is so sad when that happens. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/10/2005 3:34:43 PM | I don't know if this guy took advantage of you or not.......
it takes two to tango. If he raped you, held you down, tied you up
and forced you to have sex with him....
they he took advantage of you.....
but you were with him 3 years... he walked out... there must have been some clue
as after that long... people do not just normally walk with no prior signs.
Sorry about what happned. Hope
it works out. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/10/2005 3:38:41 PM | Me being the on who sees the silver lineing in all and just says it like it is lol
Just be glad he left before the child became attached..ur a big girl and will get over it...kids just don't understand!!
Life will get better in time...i know its hard but believe in love...it will happen | |
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Posted: 11/10/2005 5:41:43 PM | i have to agree with her... my sister's baby's did just fine with out their daddy and my room mates son doing great with out his.... but yeah just be glad its a newborn and not a 4 year old or somthingl ike that
love will be in your life just don't look for it... let it come to you | |
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Posted: 11/11/2005 7:58:21 AM | I agree with your nan I was married to my first husband for23 yrs.and was lonely the last 7,of it,Before I left.Same scenerio with husband two,married 9 lonly last 4,just left a couple of months ago.Done mourned the loss osf both marriages does'nt mean it doesn't hurt still every once in awhile though.Be glad you found out ,now ,Than put your child thogh alot of emotional crap like I did in my fist marriage.I'm happy at birth of your new baby,Heor she will give you the best love in the world unconditinal!Good Luck,Keep smiling!Terri | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/11/2005 5:58:01 PM | the number of these posts here are astounding so many bitter people. In this case we have a child ( the greatest gift you can ever get !) why regret a relationship that must have had some love to have a child. Maybe you can force him to love you till you walk on him. Love can last a week, a month , 3 years or a lifetime the only unconditional love most of us will ever know is shared with our children. Simple point if you had unconditional love with this guy he wouldn't be an *sshole now. So remember the good times and find a new love and hope it lasts...One suggestion try to understand why he left ( other than being a rectum) to improve your next relationship. Wild thought try talking WITH him instead of yelling AT him.
Some truth in this funny story
A friend asked me the other day why I never got married. I replied "Well, I guess I just never met the right woman... I guess I've been looking for the perfect girl."
"Oh, come on now," said my friend. "Surely you have met at least one girl that you wanted to marry."
"Yes, there was one girl... once. I guess she was the one perfect girl -- the only perfect girl I really ever met. She was just the right everything... I really mean that she was the perfect girl for me."
"Well, why didn't you marry her?" asked my friend. I shrugged my shoulders and replied, "She was looking for the perfect man. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/11/2005 6:03:13 PM | hmm...but mizter darlin,
is there a "perfect" anything in this silly world of ours??
hmm I would love to try perfecting things with you for maybe....a night!! LMAO | |
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Posted: 11/11/2005 6:12:17 PM | | A night??? What happens if he is the best thing since.........Battery operated.....toys!!!! Now see, then he really WOULD be the perfect guy!!! | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 1:10:48 PM | | I've got to agree with crunchberries on this one,Why ONLY one night?He maybe just who you have been waiting for all your life!Terri | |
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| i am seeing misery
Posted: 11/12/2005 2:16:43 PM | hi there..I'm Juston from the metro Atlanta area...I tell you this...I never seen so many guys who find lovely ladies only to let them don't and be a jerk to them and abandon their kids..I am 35 and i have no kids and i can't even find a woman in my area who likes the same tunes as me let alone one who is not on this meth crap and on pills...
Any decent ladies in Georgia or even far off for that matter who is wanting and needing a guy who does not smoke. do dope of any sort,,,has his own place,,no kids, never been married..who is very functionable and who is not a "player" user/abuser let me know...i am even thinking of throwing in the towel and seeing about a Russian or Ukrainan woman who treat their guy like gold...
i wish i could find an all together hottie who is not full of deceit and head trips.... | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/13/2005 8:30:52 AM | LMAO
You mean...guys are good for......
more then ONE NIGHT????
the things we gals learn on POF!! | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 9:06:23 AM | | I would Like to be with a woman who has a child . THAT would make me a better person . I am a guy who is 39 . and lives in wisconsin . YES , I think I am better then 1 night only . The person leaving would be a woman not me . SO , you have a newborn . That is not gonna make me run for the hills . No way . | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/13/2005 9:20:45 AM | | The absolute best revenge is being happy, and living well. If you can't think of anything else to be positive about, just remember that you have that wonderful little baby - maybe the circumstances weren't perfect, but you have been blessed with that child, and you owe it to the baby to make sure that his/her life is as good as possible. Holding on to anger and bitterness will give him power over you - take that back, and go out of your way to enjoy your baby :) | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/14/2005 5:20:29 PM | | You definitely deserve better than him. It's better that it happened sooner than later even though it's too bad you had a child with him before he made his decision to leave. I don't know how they can't appreciate what a good thing they have when they do. It's his loss. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/14/2005 5:37:59 PM | its not just guys angel its girls to..take it from me one day there.with you and the next day its like wtf just happen true its like that with both.untill we all can think with r hearts then maybe we can shine a lil lite on life.my gf left me and my son when he was 4days old now he's 4m old and i wouldn't change a thing i'm happy to see his smile i'm happy to hold him.this way i know in time he will learn that even if your hurting you still keep ur head up! as for her she moved 3000miles away she loses.i win theres pain in love yet theres hope till you fine the hope the pains there......as for my son god gave me heaven and i'm just happy to share each day with him..just keep ur head up..look at yourself smile cause your heart felt the pain now you know what that feels like you can grow with it and learn.you take care and remember theres always a brighter day.. | |
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/15/2005 7:53:41 AM | well i know what you are feeling i was with my x for over 4 years and he kick me and our 2 yeard out and miove another woman in and now he getting his childsport he has no job his car broke down there lossing mine and is arp. and she is cheatting on him so what goes around comes around in the end he got his and when he wantted me back. i got to say no i want better and i'm going to get better you loser so just hang in there he will get his. and look you did get the bstt hing in the world out of it your baby which i bet is wonderful and very cute.
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| an***hole broke my heart
Posted: 11/15/2005 8:18:36 AM | lilnine that was a very up lifting post...bravo!
He's right the message is to accept the gifts you've been given, cherish the life and love of a child.
Feel your pain and move forward cuz better days are yet to come.
The only one who loses is the one that walked away. | |
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