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 Krayzeebyker
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 1
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Is it actually possible that I can't seem to find anyone that is interested on me, (apart from those losers that just wanna lie or play mind-games) I am well educated, both academically and in how to be a gentleman, I am relatively good-looking and I have an individual sense of humour, if there are any ''normal'' single gals out there, come get me, i'll be waiting, Adam xx

ps. I don't judge on looks alone, but anyone who says that they would be completely happy with Quasimodo-alike's, is kidding themselves, and the Quasimodo-ish people out there....

....Sorry if you really do look like good ol' Quasi. Truth is, it's 2005, and there are many fantastic surgical procedures you can undergo, (hump removal, eye-levelling, a hammer to the face...etc.)

SEE YA!!!!
 pheonix101
Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 2
Am I really this undatable? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/2/2005 3:01:45 AM
dont worry ur not the only one
 sarah38
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 3
Am I really this undatable? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/2/2005 3:16:26 AM
ps. I don't judge on looks alone, but anyone who says that they would be completely happy with Quasimodo-alike's, is kidding themselves, and the Quasimodo-ish people out there....

....Sorry if you really do look like good ol' Quasi. Truth is, it's 2005, and there are many fantastic surgical procedures you can undergo, (hump removal, eye-levelling, a hammer to the face...etc.)




that sort of attitude my be what is making you a teeny weeny bit undatable... if people go by looks alone they are very shallow in my opinion
 Leece
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/2/2005 4:09:15 AM
I have to say having read your profile... it does come across as really kind of negative and sort of unless you're gorgeous don't waste my time. It's sort of implying you think you're pretty nice yourself and deserve nothing less than a supermodel

Maybe a re-write with a more friendly open attitude is required?

Just a thought
 Krayzeebyker
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 12/2/2005 9:43:20 AM
Hmmm, I certainly didn't want it to come across negative..........

I'm not like that, but I do feel like I dont want to end up with someone I'm not Physically attracted to. I know and understand that a lot of attraction comes from the inside, but I wouldn't expect a female supermodel to end up with someone fairly unattractive, likewise, I wouldn't expect a fairly attractive lady to get with an extremely unattractive guy.

I don't consider myself god's gift to women, but I think it is important to know yourself, and I am certainly not that bad looking, and so the point is, I would like to find someone who matches me both intellectually and physically.

I am one of the most friendly people you could meet by the way......I love a laugh, try to make people do the same, and just want someone to share life's little joys with!!!!

Thanks for the feedback though......it is duly noted and appreciated!!!

Adam a.k.a. Krayzeebyker
 Steve_N
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 12/2/2005 11:35:56 AM
A mistake would be to think that the rest of us are any different. Most of the men on here seem to have commented on not getting messages, ones they sent get ignored etc.

Someone this week pointed out there are at least 7 men to every woman on here. The fun has to be in the chase, the women don;t need to make the first move as they're busy fending off the amount of attention most of them get.

We're all in the same boat fella. Have a laugh with it & worst case make some new friends.
 Leece
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 12/2/2005 12:06:53 PM
Don't suppose anyone has considered the fact that we're not all in the same area, so you might come across a guy or girl that you like the look of, that fits what you are looking for and is even fun to chat to and then discover that they live over 3 hours distance from you... it's hardly practical is it!

And it's not just blokes that don't get shedloads of emails, some of the ladies don't either... for whatever reason!

Best bet try and make some new mates, you never know someone that starts out as a "friend" may realise that you're the one they've been looking for all along and by then they actually "know" who you are.

 RobLincoln
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 12/3/2005 6:38:01 AM
Bide your time and don't get desperate. The one for you is out there people!!
 lassontheloose
Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 12/3/2005 11:38:55 AM
I have to say that a lot of women I know are actually put off by guys flashing their bare skin around. It makes them look sort of arrogant and as if they are only interested in one thing. Ditch the skin and see your popularity go up..
 verybored
Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 12/3/2005 12:51:44 PM
7 / 1 i hope not ...i made it 2/1 ratio educated guess by looking at the new recruits
and counting

lassontheloose it is a bit crap banging on about looks all the time ,hay if a women sends you a mail you don,t fancy ,you don,t have to marry her !!!!!! just reply thanx but no thanx

but don,t even bother trying on here your better off meeting women in real life ,hang out in the forums and chat and you may get lucky but don,t hold your breath

 Polly_G
Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/3/2005 12:54:42 PM
@lassontheloose

I agree with you there. I also tend to think those types are bit high maintance and needy. They need physical compliments about their body.

Not saying you are like that byker but first impressions...
 verybored
Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 12/4/2005 10:35:05 AM
lassontheloose do u have a pet crow ?
 londontot
Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 12/4/2005 3:44:58 PM
Mate, you know what jumps out to me about your profile.

Too good to be true. Just doesnt feel right. If your as fantastic as you seem to imply, directly or indirectly, why do you need a site like this? I suspect women get the same vibe when they read your profile.

What I would suggest is be yourself, so come across the same way you would with your mates. Dont try to create this perfect persona for yourself, apart from anything else its too hard to live up to.
 CoquettishPixie
Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 12/4/2005 5:50:24 PM
I completely agree with that. There's this one guyin my area who's picture is of just his chest--and a very very nice six pack it is, let me tell you. But it just doesn't send the right messages to me. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't mind running my hands over a hard set of abs and pecs anymore than the next girl, but there has to be something more than that.
 londontot
Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 12/5/2005 4:19:04 AM
Yeh, im with you on that one. I dont know why these guys think that women are so shallow as to be affected by the sight of an exposed muscular upper body.

I think guys who do that are just bonkoze!
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