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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 5:58:50 AM | | That is not true. My honey was new to the state and did not have a job yet when we started dating. I could care less about the money, I want someone that treats me well, with respect, love and honesty. I have found that. I can pay my own bills and I do not need a man to do that for me. Well it only took a few weeks and yes my boyfriend got a great job that will make him lots of money, but that is not what matters. I appreciate a man that is willing to work hard to have enough money for the things he wants and needs to be happy. I prefer a comfortable life, where the bills are paid, some money put away in savings and there still be enough for the nice dinner here and there. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 6:26:00 AM | Jus4,
It isn't so much about the money, as it is the confidence it gives the men who have it....
It is the Confidence that you have to work on.... facial expressions, body language they all are part of it...
Think how a rich person walks, and acts.... it is the confidence that women like.... | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 6:29:30 AM | Its not so much the confience as back to the cave days!!
The whole security he can take care of me thing...but you don't have to be rich to have and do that!! However if you work at the local coffe shop as a life long career..yes your chances are less. lol | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 6:48:36 AM |
And the confidence the woman has that she will be able to spend it
Well, if she is the one, I am sure she will spend it on joint adventures/double pleasures
Think how a rich person walks, and acts...
Have seen rich men walking and acting, yes confidence was bursting out of them. Still though they didn't walk the way a man walks, whose heart is not represented by the size of his wallet, but the depth of his mind. I prefer mind.
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 7:38:53 AM | Yea I guess if I made custom motorcycles or cars like the tv shows them maybe I'd like work to.
Instead all I do is push around a lot of paper and make money for other people..................................I know I'll try not to be negative.................................. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 7:50:11 AM |
I confident that I always hated work ... it is close to slavery
Well, Mr Splog, it seems to me that your work was not your hobby then, so it must have been close to slavery.
In my singles days I had a job, I loved, every minute of it, saw lots of rich dudes with thick wallets and their p a c e was not very tantalising. No, I was not a part of their "business", just a mere employee (and privately observer)
Still though, 'feast in pleasures' both can find and that goes without being rich.
Comfortable.
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:00:20 AM |
Well, Mr Splog
I am not Mr Splog, I am Dr Splog ... I am also Lord Splog (honestly) ... but Splog will do fine
it seems to me that your work was not your hobby then
You are right ... work for me was a way of making money ... I didn't need it as a hobby ... because I had hobbies instead | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:07:41 AM | | That is the honest truth. I've been accused of being a "gold digger" because I choose to date successful men. I am financially stable so dating a guy with alot of money does nothing for me personally. Rich or poor, my bills will get paid by ME. But, with that being said, their is certainly an confidence that rich and successful men possess that is extremely sexy. They have usually had experiences outside of the "norm" and are almost always, highly intelligent. I've found that rich men tend to be more "take charge", very manly type of guys that make you feel like a woman. You can take an average looking man, put him in a suit, successful career, and a confident attitude, and he's HOT. When people question why they see beautiful women, with average looking or older men, that's usually why.... | |
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Joined: 10/27/2005
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:18:43 AM | why is it as soon as a guy figures a woman isn't interested its because of the money???
maybe some are like that but most aren't, i'd rather be known for my independency...
Get around the stereotypes!!! arrrrggghhh!! | |
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Joined: 9/4/2005
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:19:23 AM | Its not the money that does it for me.I'm a very hard working woman, and its hard for me to understand somebody that doesn't have drive. Its the man with determination, and ambition thats very attractive. A man that knows what he wants and goes after it | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:24:19 AM | Some women like myself dont care how much a guy makes. I just want someone who is genuine and who will care about me. Im sick of being treated like an idiot. Im a very smart woman and know when im been played.....I was played for a couple of weeks by an idiot on this site. He would ignore my phonecalls, avoid seeing me and then tell me i was reading too much into it....does he think im stupid? women want geneuine guys not guys who claim to be nice and kind etc, when in reality, their true colours show and they are no better than just plain born liers. Ive had no luck on this at all. i would live in a tent with a nice guy anyday, rather than with some mind game playing freak. Guys who are jerks only deserve and need to get women like themselves. Please leave the nice women alone...
My recent expereince has proved this quote to be right.
IF THE GUY IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.....THEN HE PROBABLY IS.... | |
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Joined: 3/14/2005
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:27:56 AM | | Not all women are interested in your money or will judge your station in life. Everyone should be able to support themselves. As for station in life, the best job is one you can find some satisfaction with, as that will radiate happiness and contentment in all areas of your life and people who are affected by you. Not all women are waiting to spend your money. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:34:04 AM | *shrugs* I dunno what it is with some girls and money.
Myself? Every man I've dated since I was 18 made less money than I do. I'm okay with that, as long as he isn't going to make a big deal. Men go on about how big expensive dates are so important to impressing a girl - my current honey opened his house and helped me cook for a big dinner party including our mutual friends after my roommates nixed a smaller version I was planning at my place, and THAT impressed me more than any date I've ever been taken on.
It is generousity of soul/spirit/heart that impress me, not generosity of wallet! | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:34:35 AM |
Its not the money that does it for me.I'm a very hard working woman, and its hard for me to understand somebody that doesn't have drive. Its the man with determination, and ambition thats very attractive. A man that knows what he wants and goes after it
I don't believe
What if he was *determined* to drink a lot of beer every day and his *ambition* was to get you into bed in a threesome? What if he knows he *wants* your house and car and *goes after it*? | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:41:02 AM | | I don't think this is the case at all when it comes to all women.. I do believe there are some out there that may act that way, But in defense of the women it can go the same way for men. I know alot of men who will only date women with the fake blonde hair the bling bling jewlery and all that jazz...Personally that does nothing for me and pretty much looks like that persone is living a lie...I am completly financially stable but I never flaunt it or anything like that and when it comes to having a partnership with someone I love to spoil them but of course I think it should go both way's...Money is so not important lil things go much farther...I think simple gestures make women appreciate there men alot more than a expensive gift...Try making a path of flower pedals from the front door to the bath tub fill it with flower peddles and make a nice plate of fresh fruit then suprise her with that when she get's home from work...then you'll see that makes such a beeter gesture than flashing some cash ... | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:43:21 AM | I pay my own bills, I worked hard for what I have. All I ask ( on this particular subject) is that he be able to pay his bills. Not really unreasonable is it?
Now, that does not mean that if I were in a stable long term relationship with someone that I would not be willing to support him if there were reasonable circumstances for it.
I am not willing to date someone for a couple of weeks, and then let him move in because he suddenly quit his job because the boss annoyed him. (Yep, this happened, and I ran like hell when he assumed I would let him move in.)
Don't need or want a Sugar Daddy, and I won't be a Sugar Mamma. | |
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| I know, women want a dude that makes lots of money
Posted: 11/2/2005 9:36:40 AM | | Well, if I were to make lots of money, I could be arrested for counterfeiting. Then, I'd have a mark on my otherwise clean record, and well....it's just not something I want to do. | |
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Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 25 | |
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