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 LostInTheWorld

Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 1
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Posted: 12/13/2004 6:31:55 PM
Is there any women who get turned on by f***ing a guy in the a** with strap on?
 i_am_nad

Joined: 7/18/2004
Msg: 2
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Posted: 12/13/2004 6:46:45 PM
i can think of one real wuick who do!!! but she must not be around yet!! lol
 randyann

Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 12/13/2004 8:48:00 PM
Do people really do this? No I can't imagine doing this act with any man. No way I just pictured it and it's a big NO
 trainhitter2003

Joined: 8/6/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 12/14/2004 1:53:39 AM
I have a few friends who are onto this type of sex. Sounds painful when they talk about it. So yes there are men who enjoy this act of pleasure.
 lsmith

Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 12/14/2004 2:13:18 AM
OHmy god are you KIDDING? They are SO much fun to use. Guess what guys.. your prostate is just like the g-spot for a girl.. and if you can get over any stigma attached to it; you might just be in for a bit of extra fun. A whole different kind of climax.
It's not painful; you have to be slow at first.. lots of lube etc etc - but.. I recommend it for every girl; with your man's permission.. and security of course.
 Miss_Teeq

Joined: 7/12/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 12/14/2004 6:22:08 AM
Personally, I don't like the idea. It's presented itself but it freaked the hell out of me. Not only the thought, because I have pictured it and there's no way I could I don't think, but the guy too. I mean if that's what he wanted, why not go out to a flaming bar or something...This was a long - term bf who brought up the idea too. In the middle of sex no less, he pulls it out of his closet and told me what he wanted to do. I was like "ummmmm...." he watched me get dressed and drive off. lol
 HottWettPink4You

Joined: 10/20/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 12/14/2004 1:19:07 PM
Ofcoarse, I love the whole role play of being a man.... I have a blue glitter 5 inch didlo and a sexy strap on harness, yet I find it easier to not use the harness. I can do more with a detachable dildo. Ladies trust me once a guy gets over the thought of him maybe being gay for doing it, he will ask you to do it again. Use anal ease, its the BEST thing since slice bread!!!
 harryarse

Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 12/14/2004 6:08:08 PM
stickin to the slice bread
 the noodler

Joined: 12/2/2004
Msg: 9
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Posted: 12/14/2004 6:44:49 PM
Miss teeq- that's too bad about you driving off with him and everything. He probably felt like a freakshow.

Right off the bat I think I wouldn't be into it, but then I ask myself what I would do if my particular lover did the same thing yours did, teeq. I figure if it was going to make them happy, who knows... I might be down with it.

<< thinks to himself, prostate like a G spot or not- that sounds d*mn painful!!
 LostInTheWorld

Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 12/14/2004 7:37:31 PM
well i posted it because i doubt I'll ever find a partner that would be willing to come over and do it with me. So I wanted some opinions. (sigh)
 the noodler

Joined: 12/2/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/14/2004 7:40:22 PM
Mboy, if you think that's you're cup 'o tea- I guarantee you can find someone willing to give it to you! I would imagine alot of chicks would get a kick out of it.

<< recommends dropping the kids off prior to loading up the wagon though :)
 LostInTheWorld

Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 12/14/2004 7:43:57 PM
well thats why im here
 Javas Buddy

Joined: 12/14/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 12/14/2004 8:27:48 PM
Absolutely!! My boyfiend and I have had lots of fun. There's lots of ways play.
 Javas Buddy

Joined: 12/14/2004
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Posted: 12/14/2004 8:31:00 PM
But have you ever "suggested" it. Paint the right scene and a guy will do anything for you. My guy even demonstrated how I should suck him.
 Tayven

Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 15
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Posted: 12/14/2004 8:32:50 PM
Lol, absolutely not....!
 Miss_Teeq

Joined: 7/12/2004
Msg: 16
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Posted: 12/15/2004 7:29:33 AM
Noodler, I'm sure he did feel like a freak show, but so did I. I mean, I was thinking "Does he see me as someone who wants to pretend to be a guy" or "did I turn him Gay?" lmao How would the guys feel if a girl all of a sudden said "You're the b*tch, now put these stockings on and suck my strap on" haha it's kinda the same thing, especially if it was introduced so spontaneously...
 Angel_Heart

Joined: 10/19/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/15/2004 7:39:23 AM
Holy Crap LMAO
Sorry not for me thanks.
 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 18
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Posted: 12/15/2004 7:46:01 AM
Never in a million years is anything remotely resembling a penis getting near my a s s. I had to get a prostate exam and when the doctor stuck his finger up my a s s i screamed out in pain... " How can anyone be gay, now get your f**king finger out of my a s s"
 Innocent_One

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/20/2005 9:48:02 PM
i have done it once only and i think it is highly erotic
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 1/20/2005 10:07:15 PM
A girl I was having sex with stuck her finger up my...........once and I did not like it either so it's not for me...
 Fid Copya

Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/20/2005 10:37:54 PM
Most embarrasing if a spatula was used and it got stuck and you had to go to the hospital to to get it removed, and you have to wait for so long to see a doctor and ....

*ahem* I mean "I *think* what might be embarrasing..."
 lessthan

Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 1/21/2005 5:53:13 AM
How can some of you spend this much time online and yet be so freaking ignorant about sex? Never mind that I know the answer.

There are some very good sites that have information on human sexuality. They aren't porn sites. sexuality dot org is a good place to start if you're interested.

Your attitude about sex is what determines whether certain things are fun or not. Anal sex can feel great. Plenty of people enjoy it. The pain comes from your body's natural reflex to spasm, and from friction. When you relax the muscles and use lubrication there is no pain. In bothe sexes there are nerves in the area that can produce pleasure, if your attitude allows you to experience it. In males there is an additional range of sensations associated with the prostate.

The homophobic aspect is when a man's heterosexual identity places anything that could be considered gay strictly off limits. many uptight straight men feel compelled to stand up and shout loudly that they are opposed to anything and everything even remotely related to gay sex. Also, if someone has been raised to believ sex is dirty or bad, they will likewise have an odd reaction to certain types of sexual experience.

Besides the phsyical pleasure, a strap on is used for penetration. Human sexuality includes the impulses to penetrate and be penterated, to have and be had, to mount and be mounted, etc. males have been born with the gear to penetrate, obviously, as females have been made to be penetrated. But there is also something in common to both sexes that does not so neatly belong in the biologiocal roles. And then there is the curiousity of exploring what it might be like in the other role.

There is so much more to sex than sticking a penis into a vagina. Nobody says you have to try everything but to react as if it was bad or weird is just so d*mn ignorant I can't hardly sit down for a while, and may walk funny all day.

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 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/21/2005 9:04:06 AM
different strokes for different folks..i personally don't want to explore it or have the desire, dos'nt make me ignorant..some people enjoy golden showers do you Lessthen? Don't tell me the answer i already know
 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Posted: 1/21/2005 10:01:04 AM
Sorry Lessthan but I was molested as a child and I fell uncomfortable with anal sex thank you for your concern though....thanks xxchuck for your comment...lol
 Innocent_One

Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/2/2005 9:01:27 PM
gee Byrd that sort of bought this thread to a stop suddenly.
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