| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 4:15:21 AM | | My wife left the children and I 3 weeks ago , she refuses to come back home , we have all begged her to come home, she says no, that it is better this way, i have tried everything I could think of to bring her back, she even took her wedding ring off because she said I pissed her off when we spoke and had an arguement over the phone, i speak to her everday , I tell her i love her that i care for her and that we miss her and to come home, she say no when we ask her to come home, can anyone please give some advice? | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 4:36:02 AM | | Well allfun, not alot of detail in your post. Do you understand why she left? Have you 2 sat down and talked, one on one, about the issues? Communication is the key here. Best of luck to ya. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 4:51:38 AM | Maybe the fact that he is on a dating website looking for an intimate encounter has something to do with why she left??? DUH!!!!!
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 4:58:25 AM | its not just a dateig web site? im happily married and that dont mean im looking 4 sex or another man...i made sum gd friends on here that r just like me looking 4 friends | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 4:59:45 AM | Expand a bit here, why did she leave in the first place?
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Wow yah just looked at your profile.........intimate encounter , looking to have some FUN?????
Smart woman to stay away from you!
No need to continue this thread!
Good Luck being a single parent dude. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:05:14 AM | You stated that you "told her you loved her" but are they words to her or can she connect those to an actual feeling between the two of you? If she broke camp because their is nothing between the two of you... it doesnt mean its over pal, but it does mean its probably time to get some help. Im sitting here in my boxers drinking coffee... not really marriage councelling material, but you should try and convince her to seek councelling together. It will help no matter the outcome. As painful as it sounds... if it heads to the next song on this over played record... the fact that you guys attempted councelling, will make the proceedings a whole lot smoother.
JMO.
I wish you the best of luck man!
~Cross | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:11:29 AM | Cross-
Man, look at his profile........I wouldn't go back to him councelling or not!!!
He's out playing, no wonder she left! | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:17:54 AM | you know what pisses me off.. the people that whine about how their woman/man left them..
he says oh woo.as.me i tell her i love her everyday and she just abondoned me i treated her so well I was a prize a treasure she's just letter me go.. the audacity..
er... she's is probably saying.. scum mistreats me, cheats on me, doesn't do a dang thing for me.. and when he tells me he loves me i'm supposed to get all giddy/happy/ and excited that i have a cheating lying dog in my house..
there are two sides to every story. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:26:23 AM | | Well...here is the distubing part...yeah so he is here looking for whatever may come his way but when she left..she left the kids too...something more going on here..to women...if your man was a straying and dogging you would you be leaving your kids with the louse? I think not!!! How old are your kids? do you have any under the age of 2? I would sit down reevauleate your life and what you have done and see what fault you have put in..and own up to it fully then go from there!!! | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:31:50 AM | | With you on this one jeopardy, Trust when out the window when above decided he was looking for something else. How sad is it when folk lose the abilty to converse. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:35:35 AM | | no no i got on here after she left, she said she left because of my big mouth always telling her stuff | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:40:30 AM | Don't be stupid. Hurry and document her abandonment of the children.
If you play this right you'll at least have custody of the children. You're
definitely headed for divorce. Anyone not blinded by wishful thinking
can see this.
if you wait, she'll be the one to file and you'll pay child support, alimony,
and get visitation instead of custody. Be smart and think about what's
best for yourself and your children. If it were me, the only phone call
I'd be making it to my attorney. The longer she stays gone, the better
your case. Trust me on this one, you'll be divorced within a year regardless
of anything you do or say. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:42:03 AM | | And your doing what here. You do have a big mouth. You should try some humilty and let her do her own thing before she doesn't talk to you at all. Shut your pie hole once in awhile and listento her. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:44:24 AM | Even coming on here looking for fun after 3 weeks shows me that you are sick!
I wouldn't return to you other than to kick your ass out!
And yah right???? she left cause you tell her things?????? uhuh! | |
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 5:47:29 AM | File for divorce and custody of children based on abandonment right away or you might loose them too and get over it.
PS. Change the locks too just incase she still has a key. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 6:22:46 AM | You know guys what hurts most in Allfun38' story?
That mother left her children. This fact hurts me most of all and I will never comprehend it.
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 6:24:51 AM | | Better file for custody of the children now before she changes her mind. And don't be a nice guy until you have the full custody papers in your hand ... trust me on this. You miss this opportunity, you may have to chase her for a little time with your kids too ... | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 7:17:36 AM |
AWW sorry i had 2 say wat a cute dog and coat were can i get 1 from ?
Thanks :) its actually not a coat.. its her PJs'..lol..she get very cold at night.. due to no hair on her little body..
you can get the Pjs at just about any petstore..
back to the subject at hand.. She's a fool for leaving the kids.. but again 2 sides to every story. | |
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| How can I get wife to come home?
Posted: 11/3/2005 7:48:25 AM | [quote}She's a fool for leaving the kids.. but again 2 sides to every story
Until my son was born I have never thought I could have such a LOVE inside me.
That's why I will never understand how any mother can leave her children?!
Never.
(Once ex colleague of Social Services tried to explain to me variety of reasons when woman puts i.e. career ahead of children. Well, still mystery to me...But that is me.)
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