| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 9:07:40 PM | im gonna go with good.....
what can be wrong with sex and no strings??? well maybe SOME strings, like ties and stuff!!!! (No tampon strings please)
so your thoughts? Anyone want to start a pole.. er i mean poll | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 9:11:22 PM | I once heard a theory...
IF you like golf or tennis and you are good at golf or tennis and you don't have a regular partner to play golf or tennis with, you find friends that you can play golf or tennis with... but that's all.... there are no big attachments other than playing golf or tennis...
Now, what if it was sex you liked and were good at instead of golf or tennis...
If you didn't have a regular partner to have it with, would it be wrong to have friends that liked it too? Friends that you "played" with? | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 9:15:42 PM | Bad...it discourages you from finding a real relationship. Sometimes I think about meeting someone new and then I think but ***** can do it so good and I won't have to go out or anything...lol....yes I have to say bad...ooooh so very bad!!! | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 9:47:43 PM | sure we wil just be buddys ...right!
Well it was good for the first week or so until i heard.....
Quote with a whine voice....
"Where were you last weekend...why didnt you call me"?
 i am outa here | |
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Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 12 | |
| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 9:59:09 PM | Why would a guy want to be in a relationship if he had a friend, or friends, to sleep with? There are TOO many guys around who want only that. I can understand the appeal, don't get me wrong. I am so not a fan of friends with benefits...theres this sneaky chemical thing in my brain that explodes and oozes out all this gross love stuff. Scary...and these boys who just want sex don't seem be to a fan of that.
*sigh*
and NO, Curlz...Im not talking about what you think im talking about. Im just saying... | |
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kas*
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Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 13 | |
| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:02:39 PM | Didn't we have this thread before? hmm..
I still stand by my answer being that i don't really think its good. i'd rather have a relationship than a **** buddy. | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:22:44 PM | You know what? It can only work if both people are in the same head space.
I've had this kind of relationship and it worked really well for quite a while.
It takes the pressure off and when it's done right and you find someone you
really want to spend some serious time with, they're happy for you.
So, yeah, I think it's good. | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:25:17 PM | good and bad...
I believe women can only be "friends with benefits" for two months max if they are single..
then we start to like you being around and want more...we lead with our hearts...
...so two months max it is very good...after two months..it becomes very bad....so sad...:-( | |
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kas*
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Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 19 | |
| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:32:34 PM | pin baby, you know it 
OT: yes not into fwb's at all...been there...won't go back..still trying to get rid of him... | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:38:47 PM | | I won't say "no" anymore and if she wants me ............well maybe..............it depends if she buys me a Scotch,then I'll be with her till she says "STOP" i'm dier...........I have to go to work in the Morning...............unless she has the Day Off.......Then she can tie me down........as long as she has a four posted bed..........D an 'o' | |
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kas*
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Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 22 | |
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| Friends with Benefits..good or bad
Posted: 11/9/2005 10:46:52 PM |
Bad...it discourages you from finding a real relationship.
And actually this is sometimes a good thing...if you aren't ready for one....
Question though, do you think the guy is ever the one that falls in love in an FWB relationship?? | |
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kas*
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Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 25 | |
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