| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 3:59:39 PM | OK iam very frusterated, why would a women never hear ...sorry we cant have sex as i have no condoms??? men seem to think bareback is ok even though they have no clue of your oast, they assume its cool cause they say (FAMOUS LINE)---> "dont worry i wont cum in you"
So okay buddy does this make it safe, **** NO, Im talking even after a month of dating u still dont really know a person & if u descide to get frisky why ASSUME no condoms is a good thing? Like fuk i dont know where u have been !!! sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over  arent u guys worried about any risks??? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:05:35 PM | I have also had it happen that then I tell the guy, well, no sex then, and some condoms magically appear. Amazing isn't it? And I hope it is a given that I am leaving at that point, cause if he would do it with me, he has done it with 20 other women, and I don't want any of that.
Oh, and why don't women bring their own? Can you say double standard? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:16:40 PM | | its only a double standard if you make it that way. when I was single...I always had at least 1 condom in my purse. & no that doesn't make me a slut. it just means that I take my safety seriously & am not going to leave it in the hands of some man. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:24:40 PM | jenjen...I said AT LEAST 1!
& as to their reasoning...no clue but I've heard all the lines too. "it just feels better" "I can't cum if I wear a condom" "latex allergy"
personally..I think we should all walk around with a picture of some nasty STD in our pocket & next time a guy starts up with a line....pull it out & say this is why we use condoms. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 4:25:47 PM | I need to buy my own to make sure they fit and dont rip.
I have them in my car... just in case
I think most man do!!! | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:31:07 PM | | Been playing russian roulette for a long time now and have managed to dodge the bullet each time BUT!!!!! Ladies!!! As I'm sure you know..if you let a guy like me go bareback and something happens you just happen to be 50% responsible so don't come down on the guy. Condoms suck, they always will....trust no matter how strong is not a magical STD detector. Babies...cost money..hope you have some! And you know what sad thing is...I keep doing it over and over again because I love the feeling going bareback! Hope I find a gf soon! lol | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:36:07 PM |
I have them in my car... just in case I think most man do!!!
Nicemale, in case a hose breaks huh.....
Ever think a guy who doesn't bring any isn't expecting anything, and role reversal, a guy brings some, would get chastized for being a male slut, so there is no win situation in this case! So back on the females, how come the double standards, why don't you don't carry some with you?
And why not instead be up front and talk about it before hitting the sack, surely you have talked to the person long enough before hitting the sack to bring up the fact that you don't care for and don't do unprotected sex! | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 4:42:25 PM | | Bottom line, anyone that has unprotected sex, no matter how long you have "known" the person, is taking a big risk. And if you live by the sword, you will die by the sword. No pun intended. Children cost $$$$ not to mention STD's that can cost so much more, so I hear, I always carry, you never know when you will need them. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 5:41:32 PM | hear, hear..... what you said! ANYONE who has unprotected sex is not only taking a risk with their life but anyone that they come into contact with in the future....
Playing Sexual Russian Roulette is exactly that... roulette... if you spin the wheel enough times, your number will come up. And every time you spin the wheel, the odds increase that your number WILL come up.
Therefore, the odds are against you never contracting an STD.
You have been warned. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:13:09 PM | one of my female friends told be that she had sex without a condom. I yelled at her and gave her one of mine and my ol' mans cause I told her that she did not need to have a child yet.
Me and my bf have been together for 4 years have one kid and some of my friends ask why we still use em. We do not need another child. That is what I always say. | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:34:22 PM |
The way you girls are carrying on...sounds like you have/had something.
NOPE .... clean, clean, clean ... and want to stay that way. What's the guarantee that everyone else is clean ... just because they told me? Yea ... right!!!!
That's why the b/f and I are going together to get the testing done ... just so we both can have the proof in hand that all is well. And he's not going anywhere on me until the test results come back.
I test on a regular basis because I'm a nurse and due to new privacy laws, we are not always told if our clients have diseases that can be transmitted through body fluids. I try to protect myself as best I can when working with my clients, but one never knows. Gloves have flaws in them and my hands get papercuts not to mention cracked and dry from washing my hands all the time and I'm allergic to powdered gloves ... so I get an occasional rash on my hands.
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:37:04 PM | | Seems like we're scared of everything these days. I think we all make the decision at one point to just go with the flow....it feels sooooo much better without the condom and we throw caution to the wind. Perhaps I think too much like a guy but I definitely prefer skin against skin. Roulette? Perhaps, but what fun is living if you can't take a chance every now and again?? | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:40:46 PM | | ^^^^îf u wanna die of aids and don't care about your health then that's your problem...but by doing this you're putting someone else at risk...that is selfish and discusting | |
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| What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2005 6:41:55 PM | | I agree Joy....pick your spots....for a guy, using a condom is like having sex with a rubber duck. They need to invent a home test that you can use for all STD's. Hmmmmm....now there's a marketing idea. | |
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