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 Sparda7

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 1
ugly men
Posted: 11/17/2005 10:35:20 PM
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
 rainbow_fish

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 2
ugly men
Posted: 11/17/2005 10:44:41 PM
learn philosophy
?

cooking and cleaning skills would also help him out.
 PhyneLiquor

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 3
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 10:06:46 AM
Are you asking this question for yourself, sir?

or..for a "friend" or "cousin" of yours.. "some guy" you know..??

LMFAO! :)

maybe you.. (oops, I mean "he") SHOULD consider a 'walk on the wild side'...?? :)

anyway, be SKRONG, man!! we're rooting for you..
 PhyneLiquor

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 4
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 10:27:28 AM
Google is power, man.

did a little of the work for you:

http://www.scglpm.org/

You're welcome!
 Buff-Mama

Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 5
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ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 10:56:22 AM

Google is power, man.

did a little of the work for you:

http://www.scglpm.org/[/quote}

*bam! *

ouch!!!
 bottleneckblues

Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 6
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 1:43:09 PM
Well he should concentrate on his hobbies, and whatever they are, he should try to become the best at them. When you're the best at something, usually money follows. Where money goes, women follow.
 IWant2MakeYouHappy

Joined: 10/29/2005
Msg: 7
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 2:01:42 PM
Wow, so far yall have come to the conclusion that you need either 1. Good Looks or 2. Money to attract a girl. I don't know about you, but I don't want the type of girl that those factors hold true to.
 forumchick

Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 8
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 3:08:56 PM
Build some confidence and self esteem is what I say. I know ugly guys that are smart and confident and basically have trophy wives on their arms. CONFIDENCE ATTRACTS WOMEN!!!! I know i cannot deal with a man who is on the pity pot!

Look at Bill gates that is one ugly dude who actually found his wife BEFORE he was rich!
 Guitarmanou812

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 9
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 3:14:05 PM
Im ugly, and Thank God!!

I love being alone!
 Sharann

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 10
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 3:29:14 PM
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! (don't get that confused with beer holder) Everyone is attractive to someone, and everyone has attractive qualities. Just ask their mom!

Everyone (perceived attractive and unattractive) should be finding things in their life that they enjoy regardless of their dating or marital status.


 Blastkist

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 11
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 3:35:42 PM
I have yet to meet a truly ugly man. There is beauty in everyone. To see a suffering man, now that is ugly. But I'm more repelled by the ugliness within than the ugliness without. A good heart may not make a man attractive, but it sure makes him cherishable.
 unnamedsource

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 12
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 3:40:57 PM
I consider myself ugly, but from what others have told me, I am not actually ugly, at least not as they see me. I am probably just average or nondescript looking. In other words, neither attractive nor repulsive. Once in a while a woman likes me, God only knows why, and while she does, she likes how I look. So I have learned to count on that fact of a woman's eyesight being influenced by her heart. I thought I would have to live alone, too, and maybe I still will in the long run. It turns out you can look good enough to someone if they like being with you for other reasons. I wouldn't be so quick to count yourself out. Just pay attention to being attractive in other ways, like how you treat her and what kinds of things you do together. It helps if you're good at sex, too. I didn't say I was, I just said it helps. By being kind, fun, interesting and respectful you will be way out ahead.
 crshtstdumy

Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 13
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 3:48:26 PM
I agree 100% with the guy above! Also - we often judge ourselves far harsher than others do. Take a look at all the couples out there. Pretty/Handsome isn't a factor obviously in having a relationship!

*in seeing your pic here, there is nothing wrong in how you look!!!
 Sharann

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 14
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 4:42:42 PM
nicely said Blast!
 rainbow_fish

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 15
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 4:44:48 PM
Pets are really nice, they dont care if your hair is messed up
or even if yur breath smells.

lol
 gbg1964

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 16
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 8:43:45 PM
Beauty is skin deep, and ugly goes right to the bone.

An ugly man for me, is someone who has a repulsive personality. I married a man who was physically unattractive, but at the time, his personality outweighed his looks. He became very attractive in my eyes.
 finisheslast

Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 17
ugly men
Posted: 11/18/2005 9:18:37 PM
dude, i can't get a date even if i took it off the calander. hang in there, cuz i believe for every no you get, it's going to make it sooooo much sweeter when there is a yes, and you and her click.
 Sparda7

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 18
ugly men
Posted: 11/19/2005 12:07:23 AM
Yea I suppose. But I just wish that women weren't so mean and didn't treat certain guys like crap all the time
 PJ-Colo

Joined: 10/13/2005
Msg: 19
ugly men
Posted: 11/19/2005 1:30:33 AM
hand lotion and internet porn?

Another idea is to just wait. Men tend to die earlier than women, so, as a man ages, there tends to be more available women in his age group. The odds are bound to help, if he lives long enough.
 longte

Joined: 10/18/2004
Msg: 20
ugly men
Posted: 11/19/2005 1:37:07 AM
A man or woman can only be "treated like crap" if they allow that happen

I have been 'treated like crap' in the past, but only once by any person
..
.
 come2me

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 21
ugly men
Posted: 11/19/2005 2:25:15 AM
HI ,LOL MR.PJ-COLO BOY U R A GREAT HELP HAHAHA ..
 privatenites

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 22
ugly men
Posted: 11/19/2005 3:22:53 AM
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive

If the guy ur referring to is indeed u - ur not unattractive and u know it, intelligent as h*ll maybe, u should even be in sales, u'd make a million - why u ask? - good pitch - u got me to go to your profile to see what all the hoopla was about!! Or (I doubt it) but maybe ur self-esteem slipped and ya want to hear "awe - if it's u - ur not unattractive" - keep up the good work
 maharajah24

Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 23
ugly men
Posted: 11/20/2005 9:45:57 AM
A lot of people I know consider themselves physically ugly even when they are not. I guess it's just a matter of self esteem. One such friend of mine used a tactic that worked really well for him. He always approached the least attractive girls in clubs ... his idea was that they were less likely to reject him, and would definitely be nicer than the pretty girls.
 robert_paulson

Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 24
ugly men
Posted: 11/20/2005 11:50:01 AM
As a expert on the topic at hand, allow me to hand out my suggestions.

1 Alcohol is your friend.

2 Single = disposible income. Disposable income + ugly guy = hookers.

3 When in doubt, lower your expectations. Again.
 Tinkle

Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 25
ugly men
Posted: 11/20/2005 1:04:09 PM
"learn philosophy
?

cooking and cleaning skills would also help him out."

Darn. i got 2 out of 3. Everything but cooking.
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