Shaps
| | Joined: 4/23/2005
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| | Picture her/him 10-15-20 years down the road Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | Does she/he still look beautiful/handsome ???
Now for myself I am 32, most think I look young, so I know I have something on my side.
Ok, I am ugly and have nothing, but I still look younger than my age.
But do you look at someone trying to picture if she or he will still be attractive down the road. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 8:01:56 PM | No, cant say I have ever based my attraction or feelings on someone
based soley on looks or even thought about how they will look down
the road or if they will be attractive down the road.
sorry...
I'm not that shallow or consumed with looks | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 8:06:44 PM | When I was in love, the more time that passed the more beautiful she became (well up until we stopped getting along).
When she was pregnant she ate whatever she wanted, and I was all for it.. Hell I did the cooking. She got quite plump when she was prego, and I thought she was damn sexy.
After the lil' one slid out, it took her awhile to drop the weight, and ya know what I didn't even see the extra pounds on her. Didn't even realize they were there, until once we were looking at pictures after she had lost the weight and then I realized how hefty she was, I shouldn't have said anything because I got a punch in the arm!!!!
My point: The more years that pass = the deeper the love = the stronger the attraction!!!! | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 9:00:04 PM | | My mother who had four kids is slim at 60 but my sister who only had one kid is fat at 35. The fat landed in odd places so she looks really like popeye. not pretty. I think you have to be prepared to jettison women if they lose their looks. Keep your finances separate and hide hike those assets. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 9:15:57 PM | Grandma and Grandpa are old and it's their sixtieth year wedding anniversary.Grandpa says to Grandma,"DARLIN',I'M PROUD OF YOU!"Grandma says, "What's that???You.. know I can't hear you without my hearing AID...TALK LOUDER!!! Grandpa raises his voice and says,"I said I'M PROUD OF YOU!!"GRANDMA says,"I still can't hear you...TALK EVEN LOUDER!!"Grandpa yells,"I said I'M PROUD OF YOU!!!!"Grandma says,"Oh,it's O.K...I'M TIRED OF YOU TOO!!" Now that's rare love!!!-ANTHONY DEMELLO. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 9:57:09 PM | | I can remember doing that way back when I was worstboy. I always looked at my dates mothers. All I've walked away with from that is A) that is not a reliable indicator and b) some dates with some pretty hot mommys. The practice is overrated. For example I never thought I'd look like I do now. Gravity is not our friend, hair will always grow where you want it least, and the woman of your dreams will often remain just that. I'm past the caring if I'm handsome stage looking for the one who doesn't care. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 9:59:56 PM | | I always do that. I'm obsessed with aesthetics and I wear that on my sleeve. It's a hoot, try this on; check out the older ones and wonder how hot they were way back then. There are beautiful people everywhere. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 10:04:41 PM | | Lots of females have as their main picture a picture when they were young. Their secondary pics are of them old. I think guys do that too. I can understand why people do that. The thing though is that it really reminds me about the aging process and i just extrapolate to the future and see a hag. I like young attractive females and Im a bit scared of the older females because they dont seem to come terms with aging in a good way. They seem to look for scapegoats. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 10:08:01 PM | Yeah i have imagine how women would look when they're older...I had this girlfriend who had big boobs and they were still firm and awesome looking...her mom however had the same boobs when she was younger now they are hanging down to her waist...not a pretty picture but i was willing to look past the future to "embrace" the present | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 10:39:56 PM | My point: The more years that pass = the deeper the love = the stronger the attraction!!!!
This is so true J to D.....we do become more attracted to the person as time passes.
When I first become 'grandma'....my reaction to my daughter was:
It's ok that you made me a grandma but
OMG...NOW I HAVE TO SLEEP WITH GRANDPA!!!
@Worstguy...."Gravity is not our friend".
If they can put a man on the moon when are they gonna come up
with a gravity free bubble suit for the 'aged challenged'. | |
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Posted: 11/23/2005 10:45:48 PM | | If I love him now, I'll love him in 50 years; looks don't factor in at all. I never even think about what he'll look like: I picture only the future with a man I adore. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 12:19:58 AM | | I don't think I worry as much about what the people I'm dating will look like in 20 years as I do about how I will look in 20 years. My mother is beautiful now....but I look nothing like her now nor when she was my age. And as for the comparativeness of men vs. women in terms of aging? Everything on a woman may go south.....but I work in a hospital....and everything on the men go north and recede back into their bodies...so in all fairness I don't believe either sex has any kind of an advantage there. Aging is only beautiful if you embrace it....and it's the one thing that everyone has to endure. As long as you're comfortable with your body, regardless of your age, it shows thru. | |
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kmhstx
| | Joined: 8/23/2005
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| Picture her/him 10-15-20 years down the road
Posted: 11/24/2005 3:49:49 AM | [my sister who only had one kid is fat at 35. The fat landed in odd places so she looks really like popeye. not pretty. I think you have to be prepared to jettison women if they lose their looks. Keep your finances separate and hide hike those assets.]
Wow burroughs, that is a very shallow attitude, lol especially for a man with no pic, I hope you are kidding, because I think that that is pretty cruel to talk about your sister like that.
I think that any one who is continually looking for and will not be saticified with anything other that the physical beauty of youth is going to end up being a very sad sad person in life. They will hate looking at themselves in the mirror, and will always be trying to look younger and younger.
I look at my mother and I personally think she is more beautiful now in her 50's than she was in her 30's, with her grey/white hair, its her happiness, and her wisdom, they shine throu | |
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Posted: 11/25/2005 12:51:08 AM | | I know so many women who can have their pick of any guy they want simply because they have good looks and a body to match. But are those guys still going to be interested 20 years down the road when her hair turns grey, the wrinkles appear, and the breasts start to sag? If the love is pure and genuine, then yes, but the answer is most times no. Society confuses lust with love, that is why the divorce rate is skyrocketing. | |
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Posted: 11/25/2005 2:50:09 AM | Ok, here it goes...I picture him 10-20 years down the road, still being in love with me, calling me sweetheart and honey...holding my hand, while walking in the mall, cuddling up to me at night, and when I will look at him, I will see the most loving, handsomest guy on earth.  | |
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Posted: 11/25/2005 4:30:26 AM | I check out their Mother when I get the chance so I can see what the future holds
Well, it wasnt so bad when i was in my 20s, but now, it aint always pretty | |
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