| | do any guys appreciate plain girls?Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | | i'm a plain country girl, all i want is to be loved, why do all the guys want page 3 models, and do these girls make them happy in the long run? this is a question my friend asks me | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 10:07:41 AM | who says you're plain? The pictures on your profile are of a very attractive lady. 
And no, I'm not trying to hit on you....I wouldn't be what you're looking for, according to what your profile specifies.
What matters to me is what is in the heart and mind of a person. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 10:08:17 AM | *chuckles* at my age lass, I appreciate girls..it's a plain and simple as that! (although they might need to be really simple to find me attractive now..LOL!)
Seriously though..not every man wants a model, surrounded by drooling admirers, nor do many want the 'high maintenance types' once they find out a) the cost of cosmetics to keep them looking that way, and b) what they really look like once it's washed off
It can be a rude awakening in more than one meaning of the term!
I'd be happy to find a plain and simple country lass, who didn't mind getting grease up to her elbows mucking about with things mechanical, didn't wrinkle her nose up at the idea of helping me bag up horse manure for the garden, and didn't have hissy fits about broken fingernails, or wind blown hair when out in the garden helping to shift boulders the size of dinosaur eggs..BIG dinosaurs by the looks of 'em..( maybe even fossilised dino poo?)
And if you want proof of how true that is..Charlie Dimmock on 'Ground Force' probably has more male admirers than any of the current Barbie doll brigade prancing half dressed across the TV screen in UK..right? | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 10:08:56 AM | You are far from plain, you should describe yourself as the girl next door, or natural not plain. It is really how you present yourself, based on your picture you could stand with any page 3 model out there. Don't get discourage, just keep at it, trying different things like using better words to describe who you are:)
Plain conveys ordinary, while natural conveys not altered or pure I think it is a better word to describe the wonderful 'country girl next store type:)'
Oh and uhh pass this onto your friend :p | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 10:10:13 AM | | In answer to your question, no these girls don't make us happy in the end because most of them are conceited and too self absorbed to be of any real use to us. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 10:20:38 AM | How about the girl needs to spruce herself up just a little?
Secondly basic pyschology: women need to talk the same talk as their men. And they need to understand men. Those are the women who are NOT attractive but all kinds of men flock to.
A man is basically visusal. HE is attracted by basic animal instinct. Sex.
so, first he has to be visually attracted
then he has to be able to feel that the woman is trully able to communicate with him and understands him
Tell her to have a make over if it will make her Feel confident in who she is, and her looks. And should she never, wear a drop of make up, it is the confidence the men see.
Walk tall, stand tall. Be proud of herself, and the men will see that she is a woman worth going after. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 11:24:16 AM | Love plain girls... just can't seem to find 'em.
Reminds me of an old joke:
Women are like parking spaces. The good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.
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Posted: 11/24/2005 5:20:45 PM | I have been "in love".....
and when you are..... plain can and sometimes does become beautiful....
the twinkle in their eye
their touch..... the scent of their skin....
and the many little things they do and say to convey
their care and appriciation for you.....
often this is not actually based on how you look........
or how they look.... it is something of the heart and soul.
someone who loves you will not see your flaws....
they will see your beauty, even if you don't.......
beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
;)
ps..... I just looked at your profile........ hahaha. That will teach me to
respond and not look at the pics and profile.
but my message is still true.
plain country girl my foot....... lol..... and physical beauty on the other hand.....
will not bring someone love.... it goes both ways.
Heart and soul are involved in love..... and love is truely blind... to flaws and
many other things. What a shame people do not take time to make that connection
to the heart, soul, mind.....
it is the stuff dreams are made of...... and the best sex ever too
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Posted: 11/24/2005 6:56:56 PM | Apparently people here can't read. She didn't say she was plain. She even corrected this misperception and people still think she thinks she plain. Oh well.
Hell yes, I prefer plain women (with great personalities). Beautiful women seem to be either full of themselves or so obsessed by appearances that they destroy their own self-esteem by focussing on their own flaws (real or, more often, imaginary). They also think that being beautiful is enough to make them great lovers.
Plain women are better because they don't use appearances as a substitute for personality or sexual prowess. They take compliments well, are more approachable, and are in less demand. I wish there were more plain women around. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 7:35:09 PM | | i don't think your a plain girl, and to me those "page 3" models only end up being headaches and shallow anyway. if you are the definition of a plain girl, i'd like to see more of them on my base. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 7:38:25 PM | what she percieves... may be true or untrue, I am not
simple minded, slow or blind.....
and I do not share her perception...... although it does make me wonder
how many do.
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Posted: 11/24/2005 7:42:02 PM | What is plain?
take my wife...
I see a beautiful, open and honest smile.....someone else might see crooked teeth.
I see bright, intelligent and inquisitive eyes....someone esle sees a formerly broken nose.
I see the smile you can only get from someone who loves you.....and that, my friends, is as beautiful as it can ever get. | |
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Lavie3
| | Joined: 11/22/2005
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| do any guys appreciate plain girls?
Posted: 11/24/2005 7:50:30 PM | Tell your friend that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
She may be plain when she looks in the mirror.....but one of these days....
some guy is going to look at her and ll he'll see is that page 3!!
Regards,..........
"We come to love not by seeing a perfect person.......but by seeing an imperfect person, perfectly!"
No one's a model in everyone's eye hun! | |
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Posted: 11/24/2005 8:30:05 PM | I wouldn't say models make men happy; just horny. Jazzmansmomforever hit the nail on the head, IMO. CountIbli also had some good points, as usual.
Next time, hi guys2, you should put a friend's question in quotation marks. Some people really aren't getting that this isn't about you! | |
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fanvg1
| | Joined: 5/21/2004
Msg: 18 | |
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jimb77
| | Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 19 | |
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Posted: 11/27/2005 5:28:59 PM | | I'd take a plain girl with nice skin and a good build any day! All people ahve wonderful qualities and there not all advertized on the outside. | |
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Posted: 11/27/2005 7:03:57 PM |
take my wife...
I see a beautiful, open and honest smile.....someone else might see crooked teeth.
I don't want to take her, you keep her! | |
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Tinkle
| | Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 23 | |
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Posted: 11/28/2005 4:58:40 AM | | LOL..speaking as a plain ordinary girl too, I find that we are overlooked most of the time. But in the long run, the package might be pretty, but if the inside is ugly, it reflect through before long. I'd rather be plain and ordinary and know that I am nice and a good person. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2005 5:05:00 AM | I prefer plain girls...
I'm odd like that.
Anyone down to earth is someone I actually would prefer to be around...
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