| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/25/2005 12:35:02 PM | | I have messaged so many women and 50% respond but never follow thru. By that I mean never respond a second time or agree to talk on the phone or meet? And most of them are in hundreds of favorate lists. What are they looking for? Antonio Banderez??? | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/25/2005 12:44:59 PM | | It's not just women who don't follow through, I get the same exact thing from men. I don't take it personal - it's just the way it goes.... | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/25/2005 12:48:08 PM | It's not just women who don't follow through, I get the same exact thing from men.
I can't imagine why anyone would pass you by! 
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/25/2005 1:40:33 PM | I get that as well..... but ohh well try to look at it as they missed out.... at this time however I am not woried... actually talking with someone and we'll see where it goes... but there are 2 things I wished
1. Ones that do respond to continue
2. If not interested for what ever reason at lease send back some kind of a reply (being gentle of course, "You're just not god looking enough" dosen't count as "nice"). | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/25/2005 3:06:03 PM | hey cool dude 747
Think of these women as a child with many many presants under the x-mas tree. They just start to open one gift when they see a bigger one and drop the first and began to open the next, before they can see what`s inside of the wrapper they spot another, and so on and so on. Women are approached constantly and before they can get to know one man another is knocking at their door.They leave you in the hallway waiting while they check the new guy at the door and just never get back to you or him and a few others for that matter. You see their profiles on a site for along time and they will complain that there are no good men left or why doesn`t anyone want them.
Ask for one gift then learn to appreciate and love it. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/25/2005 3:20:34 PM | The answer lies in your question. Most of them are in hundreds of favorites lists. That should be a hint. If they have any life at all, outside of this place, they just don't have time to write all those hundreds, over and over again. Try writing women that don't find themselves in hundreds of favorite lists. You may have better luck. Is it possible you are stuck looking for Melanie Griffith? (Or Catherine Zeta Jones, for that matter?) If that is the case, and the only ones you want to talk to are the ones on hundreds of lists, then don't knock them if it turns out they are looking for Antonio.
In the end, it is a time issue.
Which is why that door scenario is quite good. There is nothing wrong with the guy in the hall, he just happens to be one of many standing there in the hall. It is not her fault, but I sometimes wonder about the guys standing in that hall. They can hear the doorbell, they would have to be oblivious to not notice that there are many, many fellows standing in that hallway...in real life, you would leave. And probably not complain. In fact, if you wanted to actually meet her, you would have to find something extremely original to catch her eye, and even then it would have to be something that spoke to her inner soul. Otherwise, you are just one of the guys. Such is life. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 11/27/2005 9:58:00 AM | Think of these women as a child with many many presants under the x-mas tree. They just start to open one gift when they see a bigger one and drop the first and began to open the next, before they can see what`s inside of the wrapper they spot another, and so on and so on. Women are approached constantly and before they can get to know one man another is knocking at their door.They leave you in the hallway waiting while they check the new guy at the door and just never get back to you or him and a few others for that matter. You see their profiles on a site for along time and they will complain that there are no good men left or why doesn`t anyone want them.
Ask for one gift then learn to appreciate and love it. (abacusblack)
... it goes the same way with the men!!! In my opinion, I think that us women are more willing to give a guy the chance than the men are willing to give the woman ... specially the guys that just got out of a relationship ... it seems they all just want to play the field now. Just because there may be more men than women on these kinds of sites, it doesn't mean that they are all compatible with us. We are all looking for someone particular ... and I don't just mean "looks". There should be some kind of chemistry ... and usually one knows at first meet, through conversation.
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 3/14/2006 7:18:56 AM | | men dont follow thru either...goes both ways...i think its gotten to the point where no one wants to follow thru to save themselves further disappointments....and the effort isnt there...like i always say....ACTIONS speak louder then words...prove it. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 4/18/2006 4:38:34 PM | | u can look at it this way...they saved you headaches..lol in the long run...why would anyone want to be with someone....when theyre not wanted...i wouldnt. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 4/18/2006 4:38:58 PM | It has been statistically proven that women are constantly looking at 6 potential suitors at anyone given time. They will narrow it down to 2 or 3 and btw they never tell one guy they may date. I have seen this in real life. I
Women say men are players, I say women are coaches and are constantly trying on different menfolk players. Please ladies there are many men out there who really do just date one at a time, at least admit up front whether you are willing to do the same. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 4/18/2006 4:41:40 PM | most woman get that right..lol
now back to the OP maybe theres somethign bout you thats not in their preference...i mean when i read profiles i look for interests an all...but lately most profiles lie anyways so now i dont bother readin them..lol... | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 4/18/2006 5:03:16 PM | | not responding? -i think this is one topic that both sexes are guilty of. this site puts you in touch with thousands of eligable opportunities. i get lots of messages. and do respond, -sometime will meet up. but if i sense any bad vibes, dont have much in common, or i dont get much response. will stay friendly and in touch. but leave them alone. if no response back -i guess i wasnt their cup of tea either. -no hard feelings. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 4/19/2006 7:50:40 AM | | Sometimes distance plays a part in the equation. You can talk and be friends, but they're too far away. I do find interesting people, not just in my back yard--and can't resist talking to them at least. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:02:30 PM | I'm pretty sure this is just as true about the men on this site or any other site..I have had way too many start talking and then just stop or make plans to meet and they don't show, so I can speak from experience that it's not just women who do this..men are just as guilty...
It sucks, but it's part of the whole experience..sorry to hear things have gone this way for you, but keep trying..I'm sure you'll meet a woman who will follow through and you'll be glad you kept trying...Take care and good luck.. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:36:21 PM | notaprincess: nice helmet! next time I'm in Manitoba, let's ride! 
cooldude: I think women aren't looking for Antonio Banderas, they're looking for Brad Pitt!  | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:53:16 PM | I have talked to a lot of women in the last few days. Great question. Here is your Answer.
TALK, TALK, TALK! THERE IS NO ASKING OUT.
There are so many choices, women read and read each profile some they save, the rest it just sits in the boxes! waiting for the women to get the courage up to reply. Come to find out Most of the women said this?
WE get a e-mail from a man, we write him back he writes back this goes on for a few days. we leave many hints to ask US out but he never dose. So we wait a week or so looking at other profiles them more mail comes in. All of these men do the same thing so now a month has gone by. Are men that shy? or do they think we will not date them. So Then we wait a few more weeks still no one asked us out. Now the women tell me that they come back again re-write letters to the men thy though were interesting. The reply is the same. 'TALK' nothing but talk.
SO MEN! Go and chose 5 women this week on this site that you can date that is close to you not more then 1hr a way. Talk to all of them then pick one and only one women.
Dear, Steffane I would like to date you this weekend would that be possible. I will plan the date for Saturday at 5pm. I would like to take you out to the cattleman's then to the comedy club show at 7pm. If this would be fine with you. We could meet at the Restaurant. As for your car since it is the first date we will just follow each other to the comedy place it is a hassle but i do not want your car to be left in a parking lot.
I hope to hear from you before Friday. It is not Monday 3rd thank you Ron.
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OK men see how easy this was. This is the reason you are not getting dates, This is the reason why your 1 1/2 hour [meet me for dinner] is not working.
I am going around trying to figure out why men and women are having such a hard time.
As for the men they tell me that they are too shy to make a date. REJECTION! it is safer to just talk and the girls / women they like are out of town most of the time. Well then don't date women out of the town.
MEN? NO MORE FEAR. Women accept the dateS, [men are asking you out so get dressed up].. NOT looking like hoochie coochie the men wants 'WOMEN" NOT WHORES. So get your sexy pictures off the site and place the real you. The women you are.. Not the [SHOW OFF TO GET THE MEN]. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:54:32 PM | | Is it really that big a mystery ? stop whining, nobody likes a whiner...and your profile sucks. Spell check. And bragging about being "able to make decisions on a moments notice"....hope it helps. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 7/19/2006 7:09:54 PM | I don't think that the problem lies with women...I think it is actually just a problem with this type of venue. I have written to many men and some don't reply but others do. I made arrangements to meet and some show but others don't. I wish if someone is not going to show they would be polite enough to let you not and not just fail to show up.
But this happens with women and men. I consider that if they don't follow through they have saved me some time trying to find out if they are capable of a relationship. | |
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| Why dont most women ever follow through?
Posted: 7/19/2006 7:17:47 PM |
Think of these women as a child with many many presants under the x-mas tree. They just start to open one gift when they see a bigger one and drop the first and began to open the next, before they can see what`s inside of the wrapper they spot another, and so on and so on. Women are approached constantly and before they can get to know one man another is knocking at their door.They leave you in the hallway waiting while they check the new guy at the door and just never get back to you or him and a few others for that matter. You see their profiles on a site for along time and they will complain that there are no good men left or why doesn`t anyone want them.
this one is totally on the money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
reminds me of my nephew at Christmas, opening presents .......
his mom would have to remind him,
" to read the card and thank the person that gave him the gift"
my advice to women :
-you will only be hot for a little while
-pick a guy and have babies............that is what you want ...right?
my advice to men:
dudes don't sweat it,enjoy being a single man
drink,fix your car,cut wood
do man things
cause one day you will find a woman and you will be stuck doing women stuff
like spending sunday at her mother's
trust me I am a doctor
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