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 Author Thread: The PIC or the Profile
 themoose99

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 1
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 1:52:02 PM
What do you all look at when you are browsing this site? Do you just look at the picture or do you really look at what they say in the profile?
 CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/29/2005 1:57:40 PM
The pic first than I read the full profile
But if it is a new local name with no pic I will check out the profile.
I also like to read if they have posted in the forums.
You get a good feal for them from that way
 Mscyber

Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 3
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 1:58:33 PM
I look at everything :) How well written a profile is, whether or not the person bothered to proof read and check spelling etc. A good pic is great too!
 themoose99

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 4
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 1:59:03 PM
I agree..I think what the comment on in the forums is a good handle on who they are...
 GalliGirl

Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/29/2005 2:06:34 PM
Pictures are enticing. Profiles are interesting. However, a profile is like the jacket on a book. It's interesting but doesn't tell you much. I prefer stalking the forums (Did I say stalking ? oops) and getting a real feel of the type of person they are because it's conversation. How a person handles different conversations is what can turn interest into attraction or vice versa.
 bds4711

Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/29/2005 2:07:59 PM
The picture first. Then the profile. If no pic, I look at the profile.
 themoose99

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 7
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:18:10 PM
Ok....what if they don't have a pic....who just stops if they have no pic and moves on?
 angelic_1

Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 8
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:22:36 PM
i'll read the profile maybe, but i'll move on. in this day and age it isn't hard to get a pic up. no pic makes me wonder what your hiding or else you're maybe insecure.
 rainy_Day1975

Joined: 11/13/2005
Msg: 9
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:26:08 PM
we all start with a picture. POF is pretty much set up that way, unless a person posts no picture. From there, I check out interests to find out if the person has ANYTHING in common with me.

After that, off to the About me section to see if he says anything in there that would make me run screaming. Or intrigue me enough to email him.

If he's posted in the forum, I'll read that to see what he's had to say. Some has been VERY interesting reading.
 JAMESBLAZE

Joined: 11/24/2005
Msg: 10
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:27:13 PM
well if you are a pompous ass like youreself then im sure u dont read anything
 rainbow_fish

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 11
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:30:34 PM
both are the way to go......
 themoose99

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 12
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:33:58 PM
James are you talking about me? If so, get to know me first before you start talking like a tough guy behind your computer
 Songjax

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/29/2005 2:49:19 PM
The pic first then the profile. If you email me, I always will read the profile no matter what I think of the pic.
 Shaps

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 14
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:54:22 PM
Both
I hardly ever look at a females profile if it has no picture on it.
I read the profile, and if I see something i like I respond, most of the time even if I say " I like to ski also " they won't return the message as 90% of females even if looking for only friends which is a line, will only go from looks.
I wish I could be so shallow.
 Sole Survivor

Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 15
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 3:07:36 PM
I think both are important but not everyone looks at both!
 ChicagoFemale

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 16
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 3:11:06 PM
I look at the pic first,if it catches my eye I proceed to read the profile to see if it's someone I might like to get to know,although I have had people contact me without a pic that had an awesome profile,genuine and well written!:-)
 JokerWild

Joined: 8/27/2005
Msg: 17
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 3:33:25 PM
I agree with Songjax, pic first then the profile. But if she doesn't have a pic then I always talk with her unless the profile has no info.
 BarnBabe

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 18
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 4:00:31 PM
I look at the picture first, then the profile.

In the picture it's not so much about looks, but rather how the person is choosing to display himself. I skip over those that are flicking off the camera, show themselves surrounded by girls, chest shots, ab shots, trying to look "bad", etc.

Then I go into the profile and see if we have anything in common.
 warmstuff4u

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/29/2005 4:08:50 PM
some have the looks some have the personality..........everyone loses the looks at some time but the personality is always there........
 msblueroses

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 20
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 5:14:21 PM
The pic catches my eye first, and then I read the profile. If the words catch me as the pic did, then I'll message them. I also look at the profile of anyone who e-mails me, pic or not. The two really do work together.
 not2nerdy4u

Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 11/29/2005 5:18:29 PM
Locality, then pic, then profile. The eye candy isn't always the seller for me, though. Gotta have a brain and personality, too. Oh, and live within 75 miles, though I live so far back up in the holler, I doubt there's anyone close.... lol
 nicemale

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 22
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/29/2005 9:19:31 PM
Pictures first.... than the text
long text: big talker
 CountIbli

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/30/2005 8:57:57 AM
I look at the pic and if I like it I check out the profile.
 7times

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 24
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/30/2005 8:59:22 AM
Picture first and if interested the profile. But I'm to scared of actually writing someone first so normally I just sit and say oh crap there goes another one
 redamber

Joined: 4/19/2005
Msg: 25
The PIC or the Profile
Posted: 11/30/2005 9:11:54 AM
I notice pic, read the profile. I think you can tell quite a bit....especially if they have lot's of prefer not to says or are very vague in their profile like ask me and I'll tell you. Well if you don't tell me the bare basics then why should I then be tempted to ask anything? I also pay attention to details. Try and see if we would even have anything in common. I also notice if they are on forums and if they instant message a lot. And of course if they know how to selpl or TYPE IN CAPS.
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