| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 1:52:02 PM | | What do you all look at when you are browsing this site? Do you just look at the picture or do you really look at what they say in the profile? | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 1:57:40 PM | The pic first than I read the full profile But if it is a new local name with no pic I will check out the profile. I also like to read if they have posted in the forums. You get a good feal for them from that way  | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 1:58:33 PM | I look at everything :) How well written a profile is, whether or not the person bothered to proof read and check spelling etc. A good pic is great too!  | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 1:59:03 PM | | I agree..I think what the comment on in the forums is a good handle on who they are... | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:06:34 PM | | Pictures are enticing. Profiles are interesting. However, a profile is like the jacket on a book. It's interesting but doesn't tell you much. I prefer stalking the forums (Did I say stalking ? oops) and getting a real feel of the type of person they are because it's conversation. How a person handles different conversations is what can turn interest into attraction or vice versa. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:07:59 PM | | The picture first. Then the profile. If no pic, I look at the profile. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:18:10 PM | | Ok....what if they don't have a pic....who just stops if they have no pic and moves on? | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:22:36 PM | | i'll read the profile maybe, but i'll move on. in this day and age it isn't hard to get a pic up. no pic makes me wonder what your hiding or else you're maybe insecure. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:26:08 PM | we all start with a picture. POF is pretty much set up that way, unless a person posts no picture. From there, I check out interests to find out if the person has ANYTHING in common with me.
After that, off to the About me section to see if he says anything in there that would make me run screaming. Or intrigue me enough to email him.
If he's posted in the forum, I'll read that to see what he's had to say. Some has been VERY interesting reading. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:27:13 PM | | well if you are a pompous ass like youreself then im sure u dont read anything | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:33:58 PM | | James are you talking about me? If so, get to know me first before you start talking like a tough guy behind your computer | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:49:19 PM | | The pic first then the profile. If you email me, I always will read the profile no matter what I think of the pic. | |
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Shaps
| Joined: 4/23/2005 Msg: 14 | |
| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 2:54:22 PM | Both I hardly ever look at a females profile if it has no picture on it. I read the profile, and if I see something i like I respond, most of the time even if I say " I like to ski also " they won't return the message as 90% of females even if looking for only friends which is a line, will only go from looks. I wish I could be so shallow. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 3:07:36 PM | | I think both are important but not everyone looks at both! | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 3:11:06 PM | | I look at the pic first,if it catches my eye I proceed to read the profile to see if it's someone I might like to get to know,although I have had people contact me without a pic that had an awesome profile,genuine and well written!:-) | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 3:33:25 PM | | I agree with Songjax, pic first then the profile. But if she doesn't have a pic then I always talk with her unless the profile has no info. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 4:00:31 PM | I look at the picture first, then the profile.
In the picture it's not so much about looks, but rather how the person is choosing to display himself. I skip over those that are flicking off the camera, show themselves surrounded by girls, chest shots, ab shots, trying to look "bad", etc.
Then I go into the profile and see if we have anything in common. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 4:08:50 PM | | some have the looks some have the personality..........everyone loses the looks at some time but the personality is always there........ | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 5:14:21 PM | | The pic catches my eye first, and then I read the profile. If the words catch me as the pic did, then I'll message them. I also look at the profile of anyone who e-mails me, pic or not. The two really do work together. | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 5:18:29 PM | Locality, then pic, then profile. The eye candy isn't always the seller for me, though. Gotta have a brain and personality, too. Oh, and live within 75 miles, though I live so far back up in the holler, I doubt there's anyone close.... lol  | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/30/2005 8:57:57 AM | | I look at the pic and if I like it I check out the profile. | |
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| Joined: 10/27/2005 Msg: 24 | |
| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/30/2005 8:59:22 AM | | Picture first and if interested the profile. But I'm to scared of actually writing someone first so normally I just sit and say oh crap there goes another one | |
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| The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/30/2005 9:11:54 AM | | I notice pic, read the profile. I think you can tell quite a bit....especially if they have lot's of prefer not to says or are very vague in their profile like ask me and I'll tell you. Well if you don't tell me the bare basics then why should I then be tempted to ask anything? I also pay attention to details. Try and see if we would even have anything in common. I also notice if they are on forums and if they instant message a lot. And of course if they know how to selpl or TYPE IN CAPS. | |
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